posted August 19, 2012 07:25 PM            

Thanks in advance, and if you need any more info let me know

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My natal transits

posted August 20, 2012 04:57 AM            

You think she doesn't understand you but she does. She is into design to some extent or has an aptitude to design and wants you to move on from the way you are dressing not because she doesn't like you or doesn't understand you, but because she wants you to have the best chances in life to become independent. She thinks if something happened to her she would want you to be well prepared to take care of yourself, and so she is trying to get you up to speed in terms of what she thinks you have to modify if you have to be the number one supporter of yourself.

You don't really want to grow up though as it is nice to have a mummy (mommy) that is looking out for you. That's ok, she doesn't mind that either, she just wants to make sure she's done the best to get you to adulthood in the coming years.

I think she will be around for a long time though but she will have a few health issues, related to arthritis symptoms. Did she have a right shoulder, upper back and neck injury around about the age of thirty? The integrity of the tissue and some bone material is vulnerable in these areas but she looks like she has a bit of bone degeneration in general and will feel ill with it all in her mid 50s or so. Some of the reason is that I'm thinking she ate poorly in her late teens and her twenties, along the lines of potato chips and softdrink (soda). And she is grieving, like a long term grief that will build and all come to a head with the arthritis etc in her 50s.

She needs to increase her dairy intake, even now it will ease things and also improve her cardiac health. So it looks a combo of dairy such as junket (i guess it could be yoghurt - but it is a gentle set milk pudding type thing), and the milk she could drink would be full cream if need be but it would be better to be donkey/mule/horse if need be, milk (wow, that seems pretty out of it - I'll google it)yeah seems like it, lol. And other foods are, crayfish I think, mushrooms, and a fruit it's round, has a soft skin and is sort of pear fleshed but I think the colour of the flesh is pink/apricot and it's related to the peach (I think it's called a yellow jaboticaba). And, some little nuts that I think are called pig nuts. but I have to go now and may not be back. btw I'm not saying she should eat them if she doesn't feel it's right or if what I have written is wrong, or if she has allergies/whatever, but yeah these foods have come up particular to what I see for her with her health - but could well be wrong.

posted August 21, 2012 06:56 PM            

It's funny you mention the dairy thing lol lately she's been going on about dairy products and switching her milks to almond milk and something called keffir.

posted August 23, 2012 07:25 PM            

with transiting uranus in aries in 10th quincunx natal mars in scorpio in 5th, you are hesitandt to stand out and prefer to even out any tensions in yourself and around you by making frequent sarcastic/cynical/dry witted quips that border on passive aggressiveness (shown by rulership/aspects). You don;t want the confrontation but satisfy your annoyance by making these quips that only you fully understand and serve to vent whilst not exactly speaking outright - I think others admire you for this and understand you have enough on your plate than to deal with more sh*t, so in my estimation your technique is pretty smart for where you are at right now and though passive - paradoxically shows maturity in not wanting to add fuel to the flames.

In the shorter term, mars has been transiting the 4th and squaring uranus in the 7th house of open enemies, ruled by saturn on the MC. This would explain how you regard your mum's boyfriend, because basically your saying, he's not my parent and I won't co-operate with him - and besides my father wouldn't like him, and I don't either.

at the same time, your mum has uranus transiting her 4th and opposing natal uranus, ruler of 3rd house of communication, and ruling mars in aquarius in the 3rd. Mars is ruling moon in aries, ruling intercepted cancer in 8th, 8th being ruled by merc in 7th, ruling venus 7th house ruler, and by rulership ties back into the uranus dynamic.

this translates to your mum being at a significant crossroads in terms of questioning her ideals and belonging to groups, friends, romantic options, and family. She will be weighing up her attractiveness/appearance and values and her relationship with potential partners. there is a lot of tension, provoking confrontation, and ultimately questioning of her whole lifestyle and how she feels about herself (shown by rulerships/aspects/houses).

adding emphasis to this questioning of her self/values/lifestyle/partners/and everything pretty much, is that she has pluto transiting her second, ruled by jupiter which is natally sextile pluto opposition saturn (prominent to the DSC) and jup also quincunx sun in 7th.

so essentially, deep money and income issues are being coupled with spending, bordering on extravagance and not having a care where the next dollar is coming from. Underlying this are long standing disputes involving support/who is responsible/supposed to pay for stuff, and probably involves settlement/legal issues implications, and even current partner contributions. she is also likely using intimacy almost like a form of currency and feels the pressure of how long that 'currency' will last - based on her age/looks etc.

so your mum has a lot going on, she is extra sensitive now to how she fits in with others, and is likely to be feeling financial strain, and the pressure of maintaining a lifestyle that she is not sure she even wants. she would like some change and freedom and more socialising/fun/and having a splash and is getting frustrated by not having these things quite as she would like.

but it's not your fault, she knows that, it's a significant time for her as she comes to terms with the reality of moving out of the more youthful years and this can be painful especially for very social/attractive/might I add sexy, people like your mum.

so where as your mum can be on a bit of a short fuse and tending towards nitpicking everything because she herself is feeling a tad insecure, you are trying to keep things from getting too outrageous and confrontational, whilst trying to stay cool, be cool, and chill for as long as you can maintain it.