posted August 27, 2012 03:44 AM            

Synastry: He is reserved, cool, pleasant but has hidden depths and very emotional when the surface is scratched. He could be extreme when he finally cracks and is the type to suddenly jump off a bridge and no one would have every believed it off him - that kind of thing.

You are like a shaken softdrink/soda can. You are primed to fizz up and over, frequently and over slight changes, in fact you are so used to reacting like that when you don't have anything to fizz over about you will pick until you uncover/hear of something to get you going.

He will do his best to settle the fizzing over or try and divert it all together but you are determined to respond to most things in this manner.

You don't have enough to occupy you, and occupy yourself by being around others and fizzing up over whatever they are doing, positively or more negatively, however, you are such a good person and you don't really want a fight, you just like to energise yourself through others and shake things up a little. You feel more involved, entertained, and on an even keel if communication is flying back and forward. He is such an emotional sort though, that when he can't keep you on a more even keel, frustration can build and he can flare up with a sustained intensity that can make him unstable. He likes things pleasant and calm. He doesn't mind an active partner, that has definite likes and dislikes etc but he gets lost in all your fluctuations and his confusion as to what you want or trying to achieve can make him feel depressed and unworthy. He has a deep insecurity that he is a failure and is not capable of a loving relationship because he thinks he is missing some essential element in being able to make it work out nicely. He is a little immature emotionally, and he can sulk. He doesn't always know how to relate to the real person and somehow almost relates to a partner as a cardboard cutout and then gets a shock when he realizes you are not the stock standard partner of his unrealisitc ideal. He can't handle pressure or expectations and will drift in occupations most likely although he will start out with much enthusiasm and big plans in the beginning.

You too, are not consistent with occupation, location, interest etc. but will eventually stabilise with this once you are in your own game, probably along the lines of being a beauty rep or something.

You are more likely to be unfaithful within the relationship than he, however he is more likely to make an unplanned departure and you would suddenly find that he has committed himself to a new relationship and is ready to live with them.

In the possible composite (though I haven't actually generated this properly), you barely are able to meet, but if you do it would be through you talking to one of his friends/aquaintances along the lines of 'what's he like, do you think he might like me, can you let him know I like him and see what he says'.

If you were in the same domestic scene you would hardly be able to have a workable situation. There is very little cooperating with meals, washing up, cleaning. You would have a great sexual connection, but then he would be missing when you want to spend the day with him, or he would start out with you and then have to go and see someone about something. You would have similar social interests and he would admire you socially and be proud of your looks and manner. Is he a pretty tall/big guy? You seem small to him and there is something about your surprise at the size of his feet almost like they would get in your way and you would wonder if you would trip over them. And for some reason you would wonder about his hygiene, perhaps to do with what he shares with others and the others he shares things with - for some reason.

posted August 27, 2012 01:47 PM            

you are dead on, in your description of me..in every way. as for him, from what i can tell so far..that is very accurate. he is currently in a crazy relationship that is on the fringe of ending..yet he's trying to hang on. so, from what he's said regarding that relationship - your description is pretty accurate.

his facebook statuses reveal a lot about him..he just recently put something that said, "no wonder i cuddle alone..im just a big f*ck up, f*ck off.." lol, he is a big sulking baby that's for sure. and yes a tad immature. he is 3 years younger than me, too.

yes, he is tall..skinny as hell but tall. and just yesterday i was looking at his feet and was like, wow they're pretty big. he also told me yesterday, randomly, that he had an STD test last year..and i started wondering about how 'clean' (internally and externally) he really is. wow! strange details for you to bring up, considering they seemed trivial but i thought about these things just yesterday.

and yes, i think i will have to get a co-worker to ask him if he likes me, or what he thinks of me, or how he would react to knowing i like him..because he is hard to read around me. i feel like he likes me, but then i feel like he's too wrapped up in his current love affair to really think of me. ya know?