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Topic: HURT SCORPIO MOON... I need a magic wand
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JLyn ~
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posted September 20, 2012 10:27 PM
  
(i just need more advice and open opinions)With my scorpio moon guy/friend were not committed because of his situation but been using the L word for over 6months. it's a very passionate secret love affair we both tried ending it but can't. It's kinda dysfunctional like that. Basically our last "talk" we had about moving on was him laying it down for the first time!! I was shocked cause i've always been the one and him chasing me with phone calls and drunk texts at 3 in the morning. So I figured, ohhhh ookay this really must be it this time since he finally grabbed his balls, but I found myself so upset I acted out and went to a friends house and got all messed up and did a (with clothes on) sexual act that didn't mean anything... We both confessed how tremendously we missed each other and re-connected days later. I felt since we always kept it real with each other it would be best to come clean about what I did when we were "moving on" I confessed it was a terrible mistake and I didnt want him finding out from someone else. He was cool and collective that day but omfG now he's playing head games not texting so much not wanting to hangout and full of excuses. he even went as far as saying he's been hanging out with another girl !!!!! just anything to hurt my emotional pisces moon... Now he always brings what I did up and says how he can't trust me anymore  I continuously tell him to just purge the thought and try to forgive me.. but is that possible for a scorpio moon?? IP: Logged |
Hanneli
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 20, 2012 11:04 PM
he will eventually forgive you for it, but be warned that any time there is an argument in the relationship, it will get brought up either in his mind or verbally to you. the scorpio moon can handle quite a lot of damage but it's like a soldier that is at the bar every night till close, hoping to forget all the bad things but they never can.
i hope that doesn't sound harsh but i have a scorpio moon... and it can be a real pain in the ass sometimes. it's difficult to allow others into our hearts and so when someone lets us down, it really hurts. IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted September 21, 2012 12:52 AM
I agree with Hanneli. I have scorpio moon.  If you care so much for each other then it's not that huge. But I guess he expected you to miss him more and not be as immediate with hooking up with someone else. I suppose even scorpios want to be like a leo lover....remembered and cherished. lol Next time you take a break, discuss what's ok. Also, it seems like you really want to be together. What's stopping you? I think for his ego and hurt feelings just continuously reassure him through words and actions and you'll be fine. tell him you felt bad about etc. He'll let it go eventually...he'll deal with it. It won't be as prominent of an issue. Good luck. IP: Logged |
GirlinSeattle
Knowflake Posts: 51
From: WA, USA
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 21, 2012 01:21 AM
I'm starting to rethink this whole Pisces-Scorpio attraction; it's always this same story over and over again, hahaha. I constantly attract Pisces-influenced people. We (Scorpio moons) forgive, but never forget. This is why that whenever an argument arises, the smallest slight against us that others have committed toward us will be circling our heads over and over and often agitate the situation even more (even if it's completely irrelevant to the issue at hand). It's not even on purpose. I find that this is just a compulsive act. I know that I always want to forgive and just let it go, but it doesn't want to let go. Scorpio moons give/feel their all when it comes to loved ones; I feel everything so intensely that when I feel that a close friend has betrayed me, I become cold, exacting, and resentful. It's not a very healthy trait.The best advice I can give you is that when he brings it up, don't fuel the fire. Just apologize for it, and then move on to the real issue, the core reason why you guys were in the argument in the first place. Stand your ground, but also let him know that you are sincere about your apology, as well. Scorpio moons do not like weakness when it comes to arguments. It's essentially how we loosen our grips on our feelings a little: arguments. It feels that you and him have an intense connection, so it's more than likely he has a lot of pent up feelings about you. You may have been wrong in the past, but he has to know that he's not perfect either. Obviously. And honestly, if he cannot get over that to be with you, then he doesn't sound that great of a catch anyway. Doesn't matter what his moon is in. IP: Logged |
JLyn ~
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posted September 21, 2012 01:29 AM
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Originally posted by Hanneli:
he will eventually forgive you for it, but be warned that any time there is an argument in the relationship, it will get brought up either in his mind or verbally to you. the scorpio moon can handle quite a lot of damage but it's like a soldier that is at the bar every night till close, hoping to forget all the bad things but they never can.
i hope that doesn't sound harsh but i have a scorpio moon... and it can be a real pain in the ass sometimes. it's difficult to allow others into our hearts and so when someone lets us down, it really hurts.
What you said hit home > in every argument it'd be brought up. he most definitely is.
I just don't how to go about this situation, ignore him? cause it's kinda hard to show him love when he's pushing me away with the great wall of china IP: Logged |
Hanneli
Newflake Posts: 23
From: United States
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 21, 2012 01:53 AM
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Originally posted by GirlinSeattle:
The best advice I can give you is that when he brings it up, don't fuel the fire. Just apologize for it, and then move on to the real issue, the core reason why you guys were in the argument in the first place. Stand your ground, but also let him know that you are sincere about your apology, as well. Scorpio moons do not like weakness when it comes to arguments. It's essentially how we loosen our grips on our feelings a little: arguments. It feels that you and him have an intense connection, so it's more than likely he has a lot of pent up feelings about you. You may have been wrong in the past, but he has to know that he's not perfect either. Obviously.
perfectly put. and if he has nothing else on you except that incident, he'll realize soon enough how redundant it is to just repeat one offense as a defense mechanism over and over again. IP: Logged |
JLyn ~
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posted September 21, 2012 01:55 AM
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
it seems like you really want to be together. What's stopping you?
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It's a bag of mess!
He's living with his ex wife w/ 2 teen kids because he's basically using her to get back on his feet (now). They fell out of love and divorced over 14 years ago but every time he moves out and begins his life with someone new, she turns psycho !!! his whole family told me stories. She's that "B@tch That's My Mannnn!!!" banging on his bedroom window at 2 in the morning kinda ******** LoL . Well anyways, this last time he went back to her to "try" one more time but it still didnt work-out and that's when we met. So he's stuck there for another 3months financially
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JLyn ~
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posted September 21, 2012 02:09 AM
GirlinSeattle,I agree you posted some great stuff 
Yeah he does use a few little things against me in arguments, like one time I was running late getting dressed then surprise surprise!! hes blowing up my phone begging me to go outside but I didn't cause I was only wearing a t-shirt with my hair dripping wet !! very petty but apparently I embarrassed him cause his friend was with him IP: Logged |
JLyn ~
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posted September 21, 2012 02:32 AM
I always heard great things about scorpio/pisces moons having this deep connection, they're right.. but I think when the situation pulls them backwards they hurt, then pain turns into emotional pettiness to justify the torment. Big timethen theres that nasty moon square mars that adds to the lashes. Ouch!
but the moon sextile sun gives it aloe.
then here comes venus conj mars/NN/ trine saturn/jupiter/uranus/chiron, back in heaven
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