posted September 24, 2012 10:19 PM            

I've recently fallen for a Pisces man... and, as a Sagittarius with no experience with them, I call on you all to help!

I don't know his birthtime but he's a Pisces Sun, Taurus Moon, Aries Venus AND Mars. I have the suspicions that his ascendant is either a fire sign or at least air sign... he's so chatty and upbeat, it's hard to believe otherwise.

He's so wonderful...ly confusing. In one moment, I see a flash of something yet, in another, he's off in a different world.
Help, he's driving me batty! Doesn't help that I work with the man... and he's my boss? Sigh.

I see him daily and he's such a sweetheart. Sometimes I sense flirting and interest but other times he's so deep into his work, that it's hard to tell. We went out for drinks the other night, for the first time-- lots of laughing, and him touching my shoulder/back, knees-to-knees and close contact. He hugged me when we parted, so all weekend I've been starry-eyed! Ack!

Back at work now... some stares linger a bit longer than I think is normal, but that could just be his sunniness, or me seeing things.

Should I avoid it? Should I go for it? What on earth is happening?!

posted September 25, 2012 12:10 AM            

Hmm, this is what I got:

Sun Conjunction Saturn 3.06 138
Mercury Square Mercury 0.24 -249
Mercury Conjunction Uranus 4.41 77
Venus Trine Mercury 3.58 69
Mars Opposition Venus 1.07 -92
Mars Opposition Mars 0.43 -87
Mars Sextile Uranus 0.55 57
Saturn Conjunction Saturn 2.43 83
Uranus Trine Venus 0.44 73
Uranus Trine Mars 0.20 71
Uranus Conjunction Uranus 0.32 95
Neptune Conjunction Neptune 1.03 80
Pluto Trine Sun 1.48 68
Pluto Square Jupiter 1.21 -77
Pluto Conjunction Pluto 1.06 71

posted September 25, 2012 12:20 AM            

-249 Square Mercury - Mercury

Negative aspect: Their communication styles are very different, so that there are many misunderstandings and annoyances arising from how things were said, what was said, and what was not said. It can be a challenge to solve problems together without getting into an argument. It might be best to think things over separately before turning to each other for support.

138 Conjunction Sun - Saturn

Positive aspect: Here is a couple you can call stable. They will lead their life together quietly, with friendship slowly replacing love. Saturn will dominate the Sun - as is only natural - but the Sun might find this difficult to accept. In any case, as the Sun likes to feel secure, Saturn is a perfect partner.

-92 Opposition Venus - Mars

Negative aspect: A love that is particularly based on physical understanding, a passionate love with all its negative sides: possessiveness, jealousy, aggressiveness. Such a union is unlikely to last, but if it does, there are a lot of hurt feelings and stormy confrontations. The sexual attraction is especially strong at the beginning, but disagreements often have a major impact on the sex life. They end up on opposite ends of the couch frequently.

-87 Opposition Mars - Mars

Negative aspect: Life together, if this happens, will be full of aggression and conflict.

77 Conjunction Mercury - Uranus

Positive aspect: Few clouds in this couple's life, at least on an intellectual level. They have a good intellectual understanding, take pleasure in being together and in discussing and exchanging ideas. Together, they can come up with unique and creative ideas and solutions to problems.

-77 Square Jupiter - Pluto

Negative aspect: Through your relationship, changes in your basic beliefs and personal philosophies are in store. The Pluto person may attempt to change the Jupiter person's belief system or way of viewing life, which can cause friction. Attempts to force one another's opinions on each other should be avoided in order to maintain harmony in this relationship.

73 Trine Venus - Uranus

Positive aspect: Union or love will be very strong, not at all intellectual, but sensual and full of romanticism and originality.

71 Trine Mars - Uranus

Positive aspect: Favorable for union, linking originality to initiative and decision-making.

69 Trine Mercury - Venus

Positive aspect: A relationship which will be agreeable, they will like to speak to each other, have a good intellectual understanding, their tastes will be very similar, they will like to share their feelings with each other.

68 Trine Sun - Pluto

Positive aspect: It's love-at-first-sight, the great passion: they will be drawn to each other like two magnets, they will always have to see and touch each other. Very good sexual understanding, typically very passionate. It must be said that this type of relationship may not last forever, it may not develop into a quiet and tender love. If they part, it is close to impossible to stay friends because of the constant reminder of the passion that once existed. It's all or nothing with them. If they part, one will suffer when the passion of the other dies, it will be a very difficult time to live through. However, if they stay together, there is strength to gain from each other.

57 Sextile Mars - Uranus

posted September 25, 2012 04:57 AM            

you can edit the post and erase it right after i have it copied down

posted September 25, 2012 07:57 AM            

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Originally posted by jupitersgirl:
Go for it! I'm a sag and I know about piscean men (my bf is one). You should be the hunter in this case.

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Oooh, hunting is dangerous

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
post birth data for you and him and i'll give it a go if you dont mind

you can edit the post and erase it right after i have it copied down

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I don't mind at all!

Mine: EDIT
His: EDIT

posted September 25, 2012 08:54 AM            

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3. love stellium (sun conjunct mercury conjunct venus) even 12 degrees apart is ok, also sun opposite mercury, sun opposite venus, sun semisextile/semisquare venus is the same as conjunction. (THIRD BEST)

5. sun conjunct jupiter in composite (RELATIVELY STRONG)

ONE or ALL of the above with a combination of one or all of the following (ONE of the below MUST be present for the realationship to last imo):

1. moon square/opp/sesquiquadrate/semisquare venus in either synastry OR composite with venus aspecting pluto in the composite. (Venus trine pluto is ideal for the least power games). Both aspects must be present, for the strong feelings, though.

2. sun conjunct/square/opp/sesquiquadrate/semisquare (all the hard aspects) pluto with moon in negative aspect to venus in synastry or composite being optional (will make feelings stronger if the love stellium is lacking)

3. The moon aspecting pluto in composite is described to cause very strong feelings. It's true in my experience and from looking at charts. Even the sextile will be felt very strongly. It is a very favorable thing to have. Any of the components listed above will only be enhanced by this in the composite.

4. Double whammies.

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All of the above apply to this relationship.
love stellium with jupiter in it (jupiter-venus-mercury-sun conjunction)

Love of your life, much? All these aspects combined will cause such very strong feelings. As you notice, you have so many from my ideal compatibility list! Actually, you have all except all planets being conjunct in composite. However, because the aspects are all square aspects, there is resistance to enter into the relationship. You are too different to be comfortable and to feel safe. Squares/opp indicate fascination caused by being different. Composite Moon, venus, and sun square pluto. the stellium square the moon, sun opp mars. Yes, one or two squares is great for attraction and chemistry, but all these squares is going to be too uncomfortable. You are too different for things to naturally flow between you. This is a very intense attraction on both sides. Trust me, he likes you back. You have two sextiles and one trine in composite! The number of squares simply outnumbers the amount of flowing aspects. You're too different, it is too uncomfortable though fascination is great. Synastry also does not help to create comfort since it is lacking aspects that cause a nourishing steady foundation such as sun-venus, sun-jupiter, moon-neptune, moon-pluto, sun-neptune, sun-moon, venus-venus, moon-moon, venus-saturn, sun-saturn, mercury-moon, sun-mercury, mercury-mercury.

posted September 25, 2012 11:55 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
from my "ideal compatibility" link in my signature:

All of the above apply to this relationship.
love stellium with jupiter in it (jupiter-venus-mercury-sun conjunction)

Love of your life, much? All these aspects combined will cause such very strong feelings. As you notice, you have so many from my ideal compatibility list! Actually, you have all except all planets being conjunct in composite. However, because the aspects are all square aspects, there is resistance to enter into the relationship. You are too different to be comfortable and to feel safe. Squares/opp indicate fascination caused by being different. Composite Moon, venus, and sun square pluto. the stellium square the moon, sun opp mars. Yes, one or two squares is great for attraction and chemistry, but all these squares is going to be too uncomfortable. You are too different for things to naturally flow between you. This is a very intense attraction on both sides. Trust me, he likes you back. You have two sextiles and one trine in composite! The number of squares simply outnumbers the amount of flowing aspects. You're too different, it is too uncomfortable though fascination is great. Synastry also does not help to create comfort since it is lacking aspects that cause a nourishing steady foundation such as sun-venus, sun-jupiter, moon-neptune, moon-pluto, sun-neptune, sun-moon, venus-venus, moon-moon, venus-saturn, sun-saturn, mercury-moon, sun-mercury, mercury-mercury.

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Ahhh, I knew I wasn't making this up... I thought I knew what it was like to be drawn to someone but, WOW.

It's a shame we're so different, gah!

posted September 25, 2012 07:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Welcome!

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Thank you!

posted September 26, 2012 07:59 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Hmm....it will be hard...can't imagine you abandoning ship on such an ideal compatibility (except that they are squares) because of the strong feelings. I just hope that it gives you peace somehow, knowing that he does indeed like you back. Maybe try to force conversation with him? He must be scared of you because he doesnt know how to read you or how to approach you since u are so different, so maybe knowing what he doesn't....that u BOTH like each other, maybe you should do the chasing.

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It does give me peace, yes... he's so hard to read! We work together and he's *technically* my boss (though he's the youngest of the bunch and he just started v recently) plus his Pisces sun which makes him all the more confusing!

I am reluctant to abandon ship, and I hope he would be too- we already went out once v briefly and it was fantastic. Will do the chasing-- as much as I can in a work environment-- because of this mutual attraction if not because it's in my nature.

Out of curiosity, could you do a brief reading of someone else at work? He showed signs of interest waaaay early on but bad timing kept getting in the way (i'd be seeing someone when he was single, and vice versa). Iwonder if that could be seen in synastry?

His info:

7/xx/x4, buffalo, ny

posted September 26, 2012 11:27 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Sure. I erased your info...
let me have it again?

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11/xx/x5, jamaica, ny 1:17pm

Thank you!

posted September 26, 2012 12:02 PM            

and also copy and paste the compatibility for lovers report from grupovenus.com

thanks

posted September 26, 2012 11:30 PM            

From Grupovenus:

Positions for
Me Positions for
Him
see graphic see graphic
Sun Saggitarius 1° 24' in house 8 Cancer 17° 36' in house 10
Moon Aries 20° 43' in house 1 Saggitarius 6° 7' in house 3
Mercury Saggitarius 12° 48' in house 9 Leo 5° 13' in house 11
Venus Scorpio 17° 42' in house 8 Cancer 24° 7' in house 10
Mars Libra 16° 57' in house 7 Scorpio 14° 13' in house 2
Jupiter Aquarius 11° 11' in house 12 Capricorn 6° 48' in house 4
Saturn Saggitarius 0° 47' in house 8 Scorpio 9° 42' in house 2
Uranus Saggitarius 17° 11' in house 9 Saggitarius 10° 9' in house 3
Neptune Capricorn 2° 11' in house 10 Saggitarius 29° 33' in house 4
Pluto Scorpio 5° 43' in house 8 Libra 29° 18' in house 2
Ascendant Pisces 18° 5' in house 1 Virgo 29° 8' in house 1
Medium Coeli Saggitarius 23° 40' in house 10 Gemini 28° 58' in house 10
North Node true Taurus 9° 9' in house 2 Gemini 6° 2' in house 9
2 Taurus 2° 32' in house 2 Libra 24° 42' in house 2
3 Gemini 1° 27' in house 3 Scorpio 25° 0' in house 3
4 Gemini 23° 40' in house 4 Saggitarius 28° 58' in house 4
5 Cancer 14° 50' in house 5 Aquarius 2° 59' in house 5
6 Leo 10° 1' in house 6 Pisces 3° 24' in house 6
Chapter 1
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other

Me's Sun in Saggitarius and Him's Sun in Cancer

Your natures are so different that you are bound to clash at times. Very often when Me feels the urge to travel, explore, expand, and follow a new star, Him feels just the opposite: the urge to be close to family, to establish roots, to have children and provide for them, to be near close friends. Me's desire for freedom and exploration is often at cross purposes with Him's need for security.

Me tends to also be philosophical and detached about personal matters while Him takes a much more personal, subjective, compassionate, and emotional approach to life. Although in theory your differences can complement each other, and sometimes they do, there are times when you will have to be very creative and imaginative to find ways to meet everyone's needs.

Me's Moon in Aries and Him's Moon in Saggitarius

Both of you are somewhat uncomfortable with emotional neediness, dependency, and feelings in general. Him often intellectualizes feelings rather than experiencing them fully and directly, and may filter personal experiences through a philosophical system that regards certain feelings to be 'positive' and acceptable, and other feelings to be 'negative', unacceptable, and to be avoided. Me may become annoyed with being told how one 'should feel' in a given circumstance. In particular, Him may try to humor or talk Me out of Me's anger.

However, there is also much harmony and compatibility between you on an emotional level. Both of you crave personal freedom and a certain degree of independence. Neither of you wants to be completely 'owned' by another person. You need respect for your individuality and you will respect one another's right to make your own decisions, etc.

Also, both of you enjoy vigorous, competitive play or high- spirited intellectual sparring.

Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together

Me's Mercury conjunct Him's Uranus orb 2° 39'

You inspire each other to develop original, creative ideas. Him, especially, awakens, enlivens, or radically changes Me's ideas and perspective. There is a strong impulsive quality too, and together you tend to make decisions impulsively. This is fun and exciting when the decisions are relatively harmless (for example, suddenly deciding to go to the beach), but care is needed before making more important decisions (for example, suddenly deciding to get married).

Me's Venus trine Him's Sun orb 0° 6'

Yours is a congenial and enjoyable relationship, for you both like, love, and appreciate one another, and make special efforts to please one another. You also share a similarity in tastes and enjoyment of leisure activities and pleasures.

Me's Mars square Him's Sun orb 0° 38'

This is a passionate relationship, but also a rather aggressive and combative one at times. Sex may be a bit rough, crude, or insensitive as well. You stimulate each other both in sexual and non-sexual ways, but you are also inclined to irritate each other. As long as you don't end up fighting and competing with each other, you can accomplish a great deal together. However, the aggressiveness of this relationship is prone to foster anger and hurt feelings - so be careful not to incite hostility in each other.

Me's Pluto square Him's Mercury orb 0° 30'

Your conversations have a deep, probing quality. There is a strong tendency to attempt to coerce your partner to understand your point of view and agree with you. Me may attempt to dominate Him's thinking, or radically alter Him's view of things.

Me's Ascendant trine Him's Sun orb 0° 29'

Him motivates, encourages, and energizes Me's self-expression, and can be very helpful to all of Me's projects and activities. When you are together, you both feel more positive, alive, and vital.

END OF THE SHORT VERSION

The complete version includes:
Chapter 3
Other Themes in Your Relationship

posted September 26, 2012 11:32 PM            

the one with the aspect grid at the bottom

posted September 26, 2012 11:35 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Sorry actually can u post the composite chart from astro.com
the one with the aspect grid at the bottom

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See below:

posted September 27, 2012 10:44 PM            

[ img ] http [/ img ]

take out the spaces, and where it says http in the middle put the URL of the image, then the image will show

posted September 27, 2012 10:52 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
You have to put it in this kind of code

[ img ] http [/ img ]

take out the spaces, and where it says http in the middle put the URL of the image, then the image will show

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Hahaha, finally! Thank you for your patience

posted September 27, 2012 10:54 PM            

and ur too cute! lol