posted September 25, 2012 06:45 PM            

I'm new to astrology but it didn't take me long to figure out something astronomical was to thank (and blame) for the most intense relationship I’ve ever had!!
I've dated LOTS of guys and the guy I'm with now is the ONE in my opinion. He says he feels the same about me. If it weren’t for one huge upset that I recently found out we would be eloping soon.

Here is my birch chart: Female – Dec. 29th 1985 – 1:35pm – Calgary Alberta Canada
Sun, Venus and Neptune in Capricorn
MARS and Pluto IN SCORP,
Moon in Leo,
Merc, Sat and Uran in Sagittarius,
Jupiter in Aquarius
Asc. and Lilith in Taurus.
(Lots of repeats!)
I’ve dated Taurus guys mostly but HE is my first Scorpio. When I met him and was getting to know him he asked me if I believed in horoscopes. I said I did because I am very much like a Capricorn, but honestly, I had no idea just how deep Astrology goes. He told me to look into it because he is a Scorpio THROUGH and THROUGH! Now I see he was so right!
This is his birth chart: Male – Oct. 28th 1986 – 1:30am – Fort Mcmurray Alberta Canada
Sun, Venus, Merc, and Pluto in Scorpio!
Moon in Virgo
Mars in Aquarius
Jupiter in Pisces
Saturn and Uranus in Sagittarius
Neptune in Capricorn
Lilith in Gemini
Asc. In Aries
As you can see, he is VERY Scorpion. I think what attracts me so much to him is my Mars in Scorpio. Mars in Scorpio people are sexual and I read somewhere that we are attracted to powerful, intense, dark and mysterious mates (found on the Astrology Place. Blogspot website). That is very much like me.
ALSO, as you can maybe tell from my chart, I am EXTREMELY loyal and honest. I’m Capricorn through and through when it comes to that. He, being a Scorpio, has a hard time trusting me. I have NEVER even THOUGHT of cheating, yet he is constantly worried. I try to ignore it since I understand why he is like this, but something happened recently that my Mars in Scorpio is having a VERY hard time forgiving…

posted September 26, 2012 09:02 AM            

ALL the planets are conjunct in the composite. trine moon

From my "ideal compatibility" link in my signature

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1. ALL PLANETS CONJUNCT with LOVE STELLIUM in composite --ideal ideal ideal. A feeling of being one person. soulmates! (IDEAL)

2. sun conjunct/square/opp/sesquiquadrate/semisquare (all the hard aspects) pluto [[with moon in negative aspect to venus in synastry or composite being OPTIONAL (will make feelings stronger if the love stellium is lacking)]]

4. Double whammies.

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not sure what u are feeling since i didnt read what u wrote but....clearly a soulmate relationship! Clearly fated. sun inconjunct pluto in composite..love at first sight. Love stellium is true love. The love stellium being conjunct saturn is not great but not terrible. sometimes u can be too serious together. composite venus conjunct uranus can make it hard to stay in touch or keep relationship stable and/or trust each other. stellium square jupiter means you have lots of fun together and make grand plans that sometimes get a lil out of hand, but generally u are successful.

VERY VERY nice synastry as well. the theme of "important relationship" here is very obvious.

Double whammy descriptions from grupovenus

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Sun Mutually Aspects Pluto

This is a very intense and complex relationship! You may feel both deeply attracted and repelled by one another, and somehow unable to avoid one another. You draw out the inner, hidden side of each other and your interactions are invariably intense, direct, and never superficial. Powerful passions, ego drives, and the hidden darker side of your personalities are revealed through your interaction. If either, or both, of you cannot handle feeling so 'exposed', then the relationship will become very tense as you try to resist the intensity of this relationship. You spur and challenge each other to excel and you may become an unbeatable team, working for a lofty goal or very deep, personal, creative expression. Be wary of a tendency to be competitive or jealous of each other, for the fascination that you have for each other quickly turns to envy if you ever feel like you are competing rather than cooperating with each other.

Moon Mutually Aspects Saturn

As mentioned below several times, the feeling of responsibility, dedication, and commitment to each other is very strong. However, this relationship may take on the quality of a training session rather than a romance! You both must strive to refrain from making too many demands on each other, and be more sensitive to emotional appeals and needs. Learn to handle the difficult responsibilities that arise (family, financial, social, etc.) with grace and humor, rather than letting them become heavy and burdensome. Both of you tend to take your relationship, and consequently life in general, too seriously. This is a relationship that may be difficult to leave, both because it is very safe and because there are numerous obligations and duties involved. Take time out to play!

Venus Mutually Aspects Ascendant

The romantic attraction between you is strong. Your initial infatuation with each other is likely to lead to marriage, and even after years of marriage, the sweet romantic quality of your relationship will continue. Not only do you love each other, but you like and appreciate one another as well.

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I did notice a saturn theme as well, though. Moon in negative aspect to saturn in synastry, DW moon-saturn, love stellium conjunct saturn in composite. This all means the relationship can become too dry over time. Be careful. remember to take time out to play!

Despite the saturn, this relationship will def be worth it, especially because of the presence of the love stellium. this is the love of your life!

also be careful comp venus conjunct uranus...gotta give each other lots of freedom to roam free to be yourself and do as u please or else its not gonna work. from astro.com' astro-click partner

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With Venus conjunct Uranus in the composite chart, you will have to keep certain points in mind in order to get the most out of your relationship.
If this is a sexual relationship, it is very likely that your feelings for each other arose suddenly. But no matter how intense the feeling, recognize that any attempt to hold onto this relationship is probably doomed to failure. If you want it to last, you must give each other lots of room to move.
A relationship like this shakes your established thought patterns and gives you both the opportunity to find something new in yourselves.
This relationship may very well change your life. Give yourselves the freedom to go where it takes you.

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BTW sorry if i missed anything, i rarely read the original post bc i am usually in a rush.

posted September 26, 2012 07:10 PM            

Our relationship has hit a wall though. I don't know what it may or may not say about trust issues, but trust is a huge problem for us. Not for me originally, but now that I've found some things out that happened recently I CANNOT trust him!

posted September 26, 2012 07:33 PM            

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composite venus conjunct uranus can make it hard to stay in touch or keep relationship stable and/or trust each other.

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give him time, he's a scorpio. he needs time to test you