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Topic: I need help...
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Odette Knowflake Posts: 2025 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted September 28, 2012 05:29 PM
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Odette Knowflake Posts: 2025 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted September 28, 2012 05:31 PM
One thing I wanted to mention though... Don't worry about my Moon being un-aspected. My Moon is at 19 Cap - His Mercury is at 24 Scorpio.. I don't feel like there is a disconnect on -that- level... although we have problems on many other levels. IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 4934 From: The Sun Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 28, 2012 06:12 PM
What are you looking for? Input on what you should do? What we might do in your case? Anything similar? I hope things clear up, ;'(IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2025 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted September 28, 2012 06:15 PM
I just don't want this to kill both of us. That's all. Maybe I'll just avoid him like the plague. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2025 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted September 28, 2012 06:16 PM
Thanks Scorpy  IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 4934 From: The Sun Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 28, 2012 06:30 PM
quote: Maybe I'll just avoid him like the plague.
Maybe take a break? I dunno... it seems pretty confusing, And yeah any time  IP: Logged |
C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 1490 From: Dorsia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 28, 2012 06:38 PM
Yikes...Well, i don't know if this boils down to astrology. The main question would be: "are you happy?" Doesn't sound as if you are. I don't know if much else needs to be said..  IP: Logged |
C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 1490 From: Dorsia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 28, 2012 06:40 PM
Astro-wise, s-turn is opposing your venus..I've read that even if you do bail from the relationship, you're almost certain to fall right into another one just like it.. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 28529 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 29, 2012 11:57 AM
I'm going to start closing strings permanently that are intentionally started in the wrong Forum.------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
enchantress299 Knowflake Posts: 659 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 29, 2012 01:19 PM
As far as the chart goes...From what I can see and what really pops out to me, is that he's got Uranus and Saturn sitting right on top of your Mars/Neptune/DC conjunction. Your Mars/Neptune conjunction also squares his Mars (which could indicate that you over idealize some aspect of him and your partnership with him or that he's deceiving you in some way). All of that together just sounds like some crazy-making to me. It's both erratic, due to the Uranus, but binding, due to the Saturn, and has a lot to do with sex and attraction, due to the Mars aspects both ways. That kind of synastry can drive people bonkers, in my opinion. I once knew a guy with his Saturn on top of my Venus/Sun/MC conjunction, and I felt like that was suffocating, but this sounds worse because of the planets involved in it. Uranus + Saturn + Mars = suffocating/binding erratic sexuality. At least, that would be the way I would interpret it. Also, his Chiron looks like it opposes your Mars/Neptune conjunction, which means that you could be inadvertently triggering some of his inner wounds. This can cause anyone to be a little crazy in a relationship. On that token, his North Node squares your Chiron (from what I can tell without having degrees) and so where he's going in life might also rub you the wrong way, due to your own inner stuff. That's just what I see astrologically. Not sure that it helps you in any way, but I thought I'd point it out since that was really what popped out to me. On a personal note from me, if you really really cannot stand to be in this relationship, I would get out of it in whatever way you can if I were you. If bouncing around is not your thing, and it's doing you more harm than good, please take that into consideration. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2025 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted October 15, 2012 12:49 AM
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mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 1235 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted October 15, 2012 01:16 AM
(((hug))) for Odette...IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2025 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted October 20, 2012 08:44 PM
awww *HUGS* back mirage  IP: Logged |
Gemini350z Newflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted October 21, 2012 09:27 AM
Sorry you are going through this Odette.I have been going through something similar, so I know how draining it can be. Things will get better!! IP: Logged |