posted October 01, 2012 01:41 AM            

But I find that there is a trend amongst most women of my acquaintance who start off getting close to me and then suddenly begin acting mean and spiteful. Its a constant thread in my life . Is there something on my chart that attracts these types to me? How can I avoid this in future? What is it about me that makes them hate me so much? I find that its when I stand up for myself that these women become especially ugly towards me. I feel as though I am in a school playground again and its open season for bullies.

Please help me get some perspective on this whole thing.....

My chart

posted October 01, 2012 04:30 AM            

Moon sq Mars

posted October 01, 2012 04:42 AM            

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Originally posted by frankie2912:
Venus square Neptune at 0 degrees...Venus is your ruler of the house of relationships..makes sense since Neptune often indicates deception and illusions and since it is squaring your Venus, looks like you have those problems with women and maybe even a lot of your relationships in general.

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This is very true frankie. So am I doomed to have lousy relationships? I think that saying " I do something right, nobody remembers, I do something wrong, no one forgets" Maybe I should find a cave somewhere and live the life of a hermit lol

posted October 01, 2012 04:47 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I saw the Venus square Neptune, but also wondered about the Sun opp. Moon. That's gotta be like egos conflicting in relationships with women right? They feel threatened when you try to assert yourself and you feel railroaded when they are just being assertive, especially with Neptune in your 1st house you may not always see these women for what they are. Do you tend to make friends with emotionally wounded women and once they are strong again they kind of discard you?

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Hannah I dont consciously seek them out. But yes they do seem to be women with problems. And its not just discarding its sometimes downright betrayal. Some of them have come to me and asked forgiveness, I can forgive but I wont go back to being their friend again.

Its like women enjoy putting me down to make themselves feel good. Why do they feel that they can do this to me and nobody else?

posted October 01, 2012 04:52 AM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Yes, all of the above plus the moon squaring mars. Moon opp. mercury as well.

Moon sq Mars

"Although they can be amiable and interesting people, others always seem to sense their boundaries. Something is bound to get them worked up, and it's not always clear what that something will be. Their bluntness can be both appreciated and considered offensive, depending on their audience. They are eager to make a personal impact on those around them. Some of them are too eager in this sense, and they come across as self-absorbed and difficult to stomach. Patience is definitely not their strong point! Their responses are quick, and they are passionate people"

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posted October 02, 2012 12:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Natsukashii:
Hannah I dont consciously seek them out. But yes they do seem to be women with problems. And its not just discarding its sometimes downright betrayal. Some of them have come to me and asked forgiveness, I can forgive but I wont go back to being their friend again.

Its like women enjoy putting me down to make themselves feel good. Why do they feel that they can do this to me and nobody else?

If its me I want to fix this...if it can be fixed....

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From an astrological point of view, Neptune in your first house probably makes you come off or appear too soft.

posted October 03, 2012 12:52 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
From an astrological point of view, Neptune in your first house probably makes you come off or appear too soft.

Also, I know you don't consciously seek them out. It's just what is attracted to you vs. what isn't.

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