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Topic: Thank you friends :)
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PhoenixFire
Knowflake Posts: 867
From: The Crossing
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted October 04, 2012 07:04 PM
  
I'd just like to express appreciation to all who have helped me w advice and readings  last few months were rough, as I seriously questioned my life path and marriage. Many of you were very kind to allow me a safe place to vent and helped so much by providing friendship and insightful readings. I'm very happy to update you all that I've resolved the dilemma with the third person, and am free of all that at last. I don't regret it happening as the whole experience ultimately brought my husband & I closer, as there is new sense of commitment that we both want our relationship to last. We have been working on things and making changes, and it feels much better I feel free now, realizing the feelings for my friend were projections on what was lacking within my life. My relationship w my spouse had turned black & white and the thrill of the friend brought color. Much thinking and soul searching later, realized I do want color but want it to be w my husband whom I still love very much. I'm so grateful to have been free to express myself here amongst friends, which brought much peace in my moments of stress and confusion. Thanks again and much love to all of you IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 5715
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 05, 2012 05:20 AM
this is a nice post I didnt participate, but I wish u all the best just the same ------------------
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EmpressMendez
Knowflake Posts: 1242
From:
Registered: May 2012
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posted October 05, 2012 05:52 AM
I agree with Crow IP: Logged |
ShyVirgo1979
Knowflake Posts: 1201
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Registered: May 2011
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posted October 05, 2012 08:49 AM
Awww that was really sweet what u said I don't think I did any readings for u but just wanted to put my 2 cents in anyways. Marriage can b a lotta work! I was married for 8 yrs (divorced now) so I understand the whole marriage turning black/white and losing its juice so to speak. I admire ur commitment to it. I just shake my head when I c celebraty marriages that fall apart lol ppl think its easier to just give up when things get hard. Duh y get married if ur not gonna honor ur vows ?? Whatever lol good luck to u and sending positive thoughts ur way I just love Linda Land lol IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
Knowflake Posts: 867
From: The Crossing
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted October 05, 2012 01:21 PM
Thank you for the kind words Marriage, long term relationships are hard work. It's almost a miracle we've made it this far... We are a blended family in many ways. An early prior marriage & divorce w children in the background, child w mild asperger syndrome, differing cultures, religion, class, ethnicity and education. Whew. Plus a four year difference and meeting up in early 20s. In this journey I think having strong Saturn contacts, affection and mutual life outlook has been the rock which holds things together. Despite the obstacles things were relatively smooth at first. After the birth of our first/only child together, the differences and stress became a lot. The colors started to fade and we became more friends/team than lovers, prioritizing all else but each other. The marriage placed on back burner in the struggle to find a way and time to do everything. It's not easy but have found new purpose and determination to navigate these currents of life together. I'm very glad the brief distraction w the friend happened. It was a wake up call to how neglected the relationship became IP: Logged |
isabelle_lila
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: france
Registered: May 2011
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posted October 06, 2012 09:07 PM
I'm so happy to heard that Phoenix. I feel like our little group in the reading game thread was as much about tarot as it progress toward friendship & support.Like you the last months have been hard on me for others reasons and I was also glad to found you and the others girls Everybody needs a safe place to vent and even with your real life friends it can be difficult because they also know the other person etc... Sometimes just you meet people at the perfect time. As it was for you or for me. Now I want to say : Hourra ! one is free, now the next one please !  I understand your feelings to want to say thanks because to tell you the same Thank you PhoenixFire. You have been a great great great help. I don't think you realise how much I will put my email adress here so whatever happened, we can keep in touch and when you will have it, I will edit my post. Plus, by email, I can ask you more question 
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isabelle_lila
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: france
Registered: May 2011
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posted October 06, 2012 09:08 PM
my email Isabelle IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
Knowflake Posts: 867
From: The Crossing
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted October 06, 2012 09:15 PM
Thank you, Isabelle I'm glad we became friends and am so happy to have lindaland and a tarot/friend circle. I will email you today, so you may have my email address too. Do you have a Facebook profile? If so, please email me the link so I may send a friend request. Lindaland has a group Facebook page too IP: Logged |
isabelle_lila
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: france
Registered: May 2011
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posted October 07, 2012 12:18 PM
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Originally posted by PhoenixFire:
Thank you, Isabelle I'm glad we became friends and am so happy to have lindaland and a tarot/friend circle. I will email you today, so you may have my email address too. Do you have a Facebook profile? If so, please email me the link so I may send a friend request. Lindaland has a group Facebook page too
I will erase my adress and yes I have a facebook account IP: Logged |
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