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Topic: My world just got turned upside down...insights please
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LionFish Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Yakima, WA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 07:27 AM
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Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 927 From: Silent Hill Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 06, 2012 07:58 AM
Post a composite, too.That synastry looks very...passionate. IP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Yakima, WA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 08:13 AM
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Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 927 From: Silent Hill Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 06, 2012 08:26 AM
Okay, I will try to keep this short but can go into a bit of detail if you like.It will be kind of hard to keep a safe distance with him because you have a stellium there, with Sun-Venus-Mercury, and that in itself can spell indefinite closeness between two people. But also, this can be platonic. However, those trines from Mars showing the physical energy of the relationship, are anything BUT platonic. Same with that Moon squaring the stellium, and trining Pluto. Uranus is not making it an easy situation either, as this can spell an electric attraction and I imagine in worse cases, an affair. But it also means that there are outside forces that keep the relationship from being a typical, stable one. Things are on and off, hot and cold, you're one place he is somewhere else. Distance. I feel like an emotional relationship is sort of inevitable should you welcome him back, but it may not be stable...you had more stability with your fiance, from what I remember seeing in your other composite that I never got to do. IP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Yakima, WA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 08:45 AM
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LionFish Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Yakima, WA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 06:45 PM
While re-reading this I felt the need to make it clear, I have no intention of ever leaving my fiance for this person... Which is why I needed to know if it's gonna take superhuman willpower to stay "just friends" bc I really don't have it with this person (willpower that is.) And while in the short term I can say no and remain faithful, well, I've already screwed that up once. I was also in a really toxic relationship at the time though..Circumstances changed, maybe my reaction to CSH will to?Ugh. IP: Logged |
Lily Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 07:04 PM
It's a very strong Synastry! I can see your attraction all over the place. The composite is also strong. You won't be able to keep it platonic. There are transits showing an affairs. Neptune is on the moon and squaring sun- mercury, then Will square Venus. There's also mars square Neptune in composite, showing an affair. You may be ale to be platonic once t. Nep moves away from all of that, but that isn't for years. IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 1542 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 07, 2012 01:43 AM
I watched the Notebook today, I'm biased lolIP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Yakima, WA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 07, 2012 07:05 AM
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soren Knowflake Posts: 51 From: vancouver, bc, canada Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 07, 2012 08:11 AM
I find it interesting that no planet is really compatible except for venus (leo and aries). sometimes you like a person cause they are so different or something, idk. anyway i dont know if a relationship that passionate could really work, like its an explosion in a short while but any longer than that it probably wouldnt work. a slower and more stable relationship would probably be more convenient and worthwhile. such explosions might be too stressful and draining when you are ready to settle downIP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Yakima, WA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 07, 2012 08:27 AM
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LionFish Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Yakima, WA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 07, 2012 08:24 PM
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Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 1182 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 07, 2012 08:44 PM
Could you take a break from your fiance? I mean tell him you're confused and want to give him your all so you need to be sure of a couple things? It would be fair to yourself, your fiance, and CSH if you were upfront than to have this muddle and hang over your head for the rest of your life forever with what ifs. I don't think I've ever told someone to break it off with someone they love. But well, you have to be sure you don't end up marrying the wrong person, that could be CSH or your currect fiance. Who knows unless you figure it out....in real time, in real life and not on linda land? haha IP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Yakima, WA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 08, 2012 12:58 AM
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Lily Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 08, 2012 04:31 AM
Can you post the charts with your Fiancé? IP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Yakima, WA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 08, 2012 04:54 AM
My fiance and I :
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LionFish Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Yakima, WA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 29, 2012 08:44 AM
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