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AriesKat
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posted October 11, 2012 10:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im not sure if this is the section for tarot readings or natal chart readings but I need help with either. It seems like any attmept at happiness when is comes to love just wont happen, shoot even sex. Like i just keep getting oppositions from the people im interested in, constant mind games and rejection. Like I cant get anyone to commit to me, when they do, they lie about the commitment because all they really wanted was sex, or the casual situations there are still games and bs. WTF? I have posted on this before in the astro section and still didnt get a clear answer, and it just seems like with every passing week it gets worse. im tired of being alone im tired of being rejected by people i like, what am i doing wrong? this has been my story my whole life, always getting dumped and played, lied to. Im always meeting guys who are always mind ******* me or they attmept to, its wierd because i have a twin and he hasnt gone through half of what I have and im assuming our charts are the exact same. I am always sitting on the sidelines watching people fall in love time and time again. If its my personality i can handle that truth but I have no issues making female friends, and i already have a ton of gf's so my personality can be that bad and I am attractive and I am independent. My taurus guy friend who I have a slight crush on told me two nights ago that I seem like i dont need anyone and that I need to show im more vulnerable. The thing is is that I am vulnerable and I do need someone, so im really sad people see me that way. I have issues showing that side of me because people have taken advantage of me, i guess i need to find a balance. SO i am just wondering if I have a chance at happiness in this lifetime. My mom keeps saying your not meeting the right guys , which is true but now im starting to feel like Its me, because every situation turns to **** . I didnt always let this get to me, up until like 3 years ago, now im really depressed over this, i am struggling internally, i havent had any serious relationships and im 7months into being 26 ill be 27 in 5 months and still nothing. im crying as i type this because im so freaking hurt behind all this, can someone read my chart or give me a tarot reading, or give me insight on what im doing wrong, its greatly appreciated.

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AriesKat
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posted October 11, 2012 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Heres my chart

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AriesKat
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posted October 11, 2012 10:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And here it is with transists

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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted October 11, 2012 11:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey AriesKat,

I'm sorry life sucks for you right now, and believe me, I feel your pain. I have an 8 degree Aries Rising so our charts are pretty similar, especially since my birthday is about 7 months before yours. The whole Uranus conjuncting your Ascendant/Rising is a tough transit from what I've been told, all about breaking out of convention and shedding anything that feels restrictive, with extreme independent streak and unpredictability. I'm feeling the call of freedom and feeling like nothing of the old me defines who I am right now anymore, which scares the living beejeebus out of me. You are also still experiencing the Saturn transit of the 7th house of relationships, which I can also attest to being a doozy of a transit. It pares away anyone who is not being an equal partner/close friend, and this tears you up, but is entirely necessary.

Pluto is sitting on your Mars on your MidCoeli (cusp of 10th house), which to me would indicate you are having major power struggles related to your career, and being forced to find new ways to channel your passion/anger/drive. Your image may be going through the wringer, professionally speaking, and it is teaching you what you are made of and what is worth standing up for in the long-term.

Lots of Love and Light ,
Virgo-Aries Artist (Kat)

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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted October 11, 2012 11:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
FYI, 3 years ago was when Saturn moved into Libra and therefore began transiting your 7th house of partnerships...

May be worth looking more into that

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Lazyscarecrow
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posted October 11, 2012 11:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am about a few years younger than you and most likely a lot less "established" in life but I feel your pain all the same. About the lack of serious relationships and general illusions in the love life. And there's no Pisces, Uranus, or Neptune afflictions in my chart to blame for it.

I just want you to know that if you are attractive and independent, you are basically the perfect woman for a relationship. And you are confident, which shows by how you recognize these qualities in yourself. While this in itself won't guarantee Mr.Rights will come flocking out of the wood works, I am just saying that you don't need to change a damn thing about yourself. You are an Aries, don't you know that the females of your sign are born naturals at seducing the other sex, and positive attention in general?

No, I disagree that you need to make yourself more vulnerable because by this post, that vulnerability is already there. And I am not saying it is a bad thing at all. It's just if you open yourself this way too soon or too much, it could invite sociopaths and sleazes. You will know when it is the right time to open up. Trust me, I very vulnerable myself. It hasn't done much of anything to change my own love life.


I could do a tarot reading for you, but there are a few cards missing, therefore the reading may not be 100% accurate, but maybe I will pick the right cards. Do you have a question or would you just like a general love life reading?

Also, I could do a regular chart interpretation with transits, but I am not as great with transits as I am with natal and synastry or composites.

Well, if I couldn't help, my heart goes out to you.


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AriesKat
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posted October 12, 2012 02:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Virgo-AriesArtist:
Hey AriesKat,

I'm sorry life sucks for you right now, and believe me, I feel your pain. I have an 8 degree Aries Rising so our charts are pretty similar, especially since my birthday is about 7 months before yours. The whole Uranus conjuncting your Ascendant/Rising is a tough transit from what I've been told, all about breaking out of convention and shedding anything that feels restrictive, with extreme independent streak and unpredictability. I'm feeling the call of freedom and feeling like nothing of the old me defines who I am right now anymore, which scares the living beejeebus out of me. You are also still experiencing the Saturn transit of the 7th house of relationships, which I can also attest to being a doozy of a transit. It pares away anyone who is not being an equal partner/close friend, and this tears you up, but is entirely necessary.

Pluto is sitting on your Mars on your MidCoeli (cusp of 10th house), which to me would indicate you are having major power struggles related to your career, and being forced to find new ways to channel your passion/anger/drive. Your image may be going through the wringer, professionally speaking, and it is teaching you what you are made of and what is worth standing up for in the long-term.

Lots of Love and Light ,
Virgo-Aries Artist (Kat)


Thanx a bunch!! All these things definitely ring true for me.

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AriesKat
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posted October 12, 2012 02:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
I am about a few years younger than you and most likely a lot less "established" in life but I feel your pain all the same. About the lack of serious relationships and general illusions in the love life. And there's no Pisces, Uranus, or Neptune afflictions in my chart to blame for it.

I just want you to know that if you are attractive and independent, you are basically the perfect woman for a relationship. And you are confident, which shows by how you recognize these qualities in yourself. While this in itself won't guarantee Mr.Rights will come flocking out of the wood works, I am just saying that you don't need to change a damn thing about yourself. You are an Aries, don't you know that the females of your sign are born naturals at seducing the other sex, and positive attention in general?

No, I disagree that you need to make yourself more vulnerable because by this post, that vulnerability is already there. And I am not saying it is a bad thing at all. It's just if you open yourself this way too soon or too much, it could invite sociopaths and sleazes. You will know when it is the right time to open up. Trust me, I very vulnerable myself. It hasn't done much of anything to change my own love life.


I could do a tarot reading for you, but there are a few cards missing, therefore the reading may not be 100% accurate, but maybe I will pick the right cards. Do you have a question or would you just like a general love life reading?

Also, I could do a regular chart interpretation with transits, but I am not as great with transits as I am with natal and synastry or composites.

Well, if I couldn't help, my heart goes out to you.



thanx for your time

I am open to whatever info you can give

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Lazyscarecrow
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posted October 12, 2012 05:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I will pull some cards for you later tonight.

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AriesKat
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posted October 15, 2012 07:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
I will pull some cards for you later tonight.

Hey ladyscarecrow, were you able to pull those cards?

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Lazyscarecrow
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posted October 15, 2012 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by AriesKat:
Hey ladyscarecrow, were you able to pull those cards?

Oh crap, soooo sorry AriesKat ... got carried away by life (errands, work, daily distractions) and I completely let it slip. I am currently apart from my cards.

I won't forget this time, I will be back with them soon. Your patience is much appreciated, I understand if you hold this against me though. >.<

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AriesKat
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posted October 15, 2012 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Oh crap, soooo sorry AriesKat ... got carried away by life (errands, work, daily distractions) and I completely let it slip. I am currently apart from my cards.

I won't forget this time, I will be back with them soon. Your patience is much appreciated, I understand if you hold this against me though. >.<


NO prob!

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Lazyscarecrow
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posted October 16, 2012 10:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I did a basic 3 card reading. I pulled:

King of Wands

The Sun (reversed)

The devil (reversed)

Take my interpretation as loosely as you please. I feel like there was a suitor, or is a suitor and he is fiery, sure of himself, probably sees himself as noble. Or this could simply be your desire for someone who carries these traits. Maybe it even signifies you wanting a relationship despite all the illusion you have been through, this is your goal. The Sun is your need to express yourself, and perhaps through doing this you will be the center of attention, and you will attract someone. But the Devil can indicate that you will be put into situations of temptation. Maybe this admirer is enigmatic, and at the worst can embody the traits you are trying to break a habit of attracting. He is very attracted to the light in your personality, your spirit. And this may be a possible sensual connection. HOWEVER you must take things VERY slowly and be careful, the Sun means very good things, and I believe that if you temper any relationships that rush too quickly into the physical and sensual, you will get what you want. Do not lower your standards or act out of desperation.

The last card I just pulled now is the Queen of Swords. This represents a woman who is forthright with what is on her mind, blunt even. Is she you? Or a female figure? I think this points to making good decisions, as well.

If it didn't ring right with you, let me know. Good Luck.

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AriesKat
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posted October 22, 2012 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
I did a basic 3 card reading. I pulled:

King of Wands

The Sun (reversed)

The devil (reversed)

Take my interpretation as loosely as you please. I feel like there was a suitor, or is a suitor and he is fiery, sure of himself, probably sees himself as noble. Or this could simply be your desire for someone who carries these traits. Maybe it even signifies you wanting a relationship despite all the illusion you have been through, this is your goal. The Sun is your need to express yourself, and perhaps through doing this you will be the center of attention, and you will attract someone. But the Devil can indicate that you will be put into situations of temptation. Maybe this admirer is enigmatic, and at the worst can embody the traits you are trying to break a habit of attracting. He is very attracted to the light in your personality, your spirit. And this may be a possible sensual connection. HOWEVER you must take things VERY slowly and be careful, the Sun means very good things, and I believe that if you temper any relationships that rush too quickly into the physical and sensual, you will get what you want. Do not lower your standards or act out of desperation.

The last card I just pulled now is the Queen of Swords. This represents a woman who is forthright with what is on her mind, blunt even. Is she you? Or a female figure? I think this points to making good decisions, as well.

If it didn't ring right with you, let me know. Good Luck.


Thanx so much for the reply...I dont know how all this relates to my life. I am blun, as far as partners are concerned I dont have anyone

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