posted November 02, 2012 01:11 AM            

I'm really not good at interpreting these charts, but I've read your posts about this Gemini guy and since no one else is responding just thought I'd say what jumps out at me..

First of all your venus and jupiter on his moon/vertex in 7th is very nice. Indicates there are genuine feelings of warmth/love between you and he sees you as someone he could really be compatible with. But there is also saturn there making things maybe a little more restricted

Your sun in his 8th house showing his feelinsg are strong and maybe unsettling for him (or you). He doesn't necessarily want to share you. BUT, your sun is conjunct his uranus. This may not be a "conventional" relationship, and even though you might be very attracted to his "differentness", you might also find him to be too unpredictable, or off and on.

Your mars conjunct his neptune shows there might be a lot of very nice fantasizing, but when it comes down to trying to act out what you want with him you may find him to be very evasive or illusive. Then your mars is also opp his sun and venus, so there's a lot of attraction, but there could also be a lot of combative energy. You are mars, so you're likely to feel that more.

Jupiter conjunct chiron is very powerful, maybe you feel like he "heals" you in some way, like you feel very good around him and can let go of the past

His mars conjunct your NN is nice, but NN synastry can also be difficult. You have a lesson to teach him, but he might not be ready to learn it yet. Either way the pull is still strong and you can help each other grow

Also, his mercury, sun, and venus are in your 12th house. I'm sure you've read about this but basically you might not trust him, or he might not trust you. You probably have a deep spiritual bond, but something always seems to prevent it from seeing the light of day. I've had really good and really bad 12th house synastry, so it doesn't make things impossible, just something to be aware of and indicates you should be careful about how much you "hide" from each other

Anyway sorry this isn't at all a full analysis, just hoping to offer a little input and hope everything works out!

If you want to post the composite chart that would be helpful to see as well

posted November 05, 2012 12:49 AM            

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Originally posted by kennedy80:
Thank you so much for taking the time to do that. Overall, do you think the pull is stronger on my end or his end?
I tried to post the composite chart - wouldn't let me for some reason, thank you anyway!

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Hi, sorry for the delayed response.. I think it's really hard to say who the pull is stronger for (I don't consider myself very good at interpreting synastry)

You have a lot of planets in his 7th/8th house, so I think he definitely has an attraction to you, but with 3 of his personal planets in your 12th house... That could go either way imo. I've had synastry like that where I was way more interested in them than they were with me, but also vice-versa.

I guess just trust your gut and if you aren't getting the stability/respect that you need, then just know you don't have to put up with it. Although I know that can be easier said than done lol

posted November 05, 2012 10:20 AM            

Ok here's the composite..

I can see why it would be an ongoing connection.. Sun, mercury, venus, moon, all in 4th house, that definitely shows an emotional connection. Sun conjunct Saturn in composite is very binding, even if you would rather it not be..

Neptune is trining the Leo planets, which I think would feel nice, maybe idealistic but still nice. But the squares from Uranus close to the descendant maybe makes things on and off or hot and cold.

Mars conjunct Pluto, maybe a lot of attraction and energy but also arguments? Since it's in 6th house, maybe it's hard to work as a team in mundane day to day activities...