posted December 26, 2012 10:22 AM            

I live in a country where it is common to hire help and I have been blessed with my helper Aida ..who has been my rock for three years. She is only 23 but in her short life has experienced much sorrow and pain. She is a staunch Christian who doesnt do drugs and alcohol but had the misfortune to marry a man who made her HIV positive, lost her first born son and her brother. I trust her completely she lives on my property and has full and complete access at all times. Her husband also lives on the property with her

I live alone in the main house

She left a few days ago to spend Xmas in her country but her husband stayed behind as he could not get time off work.

I had initially not felt comfortable to have him remain on the property when she left but I relented after she pleaded with me

I live in Johannesburg a crime capital if there ever was one. Last night although he had keys he forced open the electric gates to the property exposing it to the road. I live alone and spent the night in fear as he refused to bring the keys he had to the gate back. I managed to get someone to get the gate up and running this morning

I had informed the police and the security company about it and the security company patrolled the area intermittently during last night

So he returns this morning with a different set of cops saying I treat his wife very badly ( I dont and she will be the first to tell you I adore her) he also said to them that he doesnt live on the property.( also a lie) He took his passport from his room on the property and then returned later with a truck unnanounced to take move all their stuff out. This was his decision

I know that Aida knows nothing yet. She has not been receiving my smses and the mobile phone reception in her country is poor at best.

I know that when she finds out she will plead to be taken back...but her husband is a loose cannon who does not respect me simply because I am a woman. My question is, would it be wise to take her back? He is part of the package deal and as they are married I do not want to cause issues between them by allowing her to stay but not him. He wont change this is just the final straw. It looks like he thought I would beg him to stay but I called his bluff

Should I take the other helper suggested by a friend? Should i take them back? Is this man now out to get me and should I be careful?These are the questions I have

posted December 26, 2012 10:28 AM            

Please post a horary chart, so people can read it

posted December 26, 2012 10:34 AM            

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Originally posted by crys:
Hello,

Please post a horary chart, so people can read it

Thank you

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posted December 26, 2012 11:27 AM            

She is mercury in your 7th house(contracts, commitments of all kinds)is in exile- a no answer.
You are moon (also mercury, but mercury is also she, so i took moon as your lord).
Moon is in your first house(you are concern about the problem)and is peregrine- a no answer.
Moon opposite mercury, this is a no
Moon makes an applying aspect to mercury- so a yes
Moon is moving forward to mercury so yes.
It seems you (moon) will make a step towards her (mercury).
I think it's 50-50% if you will take her back it will be difficult at least for a while, until situation will be solved
Moon and mercury in angular houses-a yes.

Hopes there will be more oppinions about your problem.

posted December 26, 2012 11:40 AM            

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Originally posted by crys:
Hi, so she is a 4th house(home, family) matter, right?

She is mercury in your 7th house(contracts, commitments of all kinds)is in exile- a no answer.
You are moon (also mercury, but mercury is also she, so i took moon as your lord).
Moon is in your first house(you are concern about the problem)and is peregrine- a no answer.
Moon opposite mercury, this is a no
Moon makes an applying aspect to mercury- so a yes
Moon is moving forward to mercury so yes.
It seems you (moon) will make a step towards her (mercury).
I think it's 50-50% if you will take her back it will be difficult at least for a while, until situation will be solved
Moon and mercury in angular houses-a yes.

Hopes there will be more oppinions about your problem.

Take care

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Hi Crys really appreciate this, but Im a bit confused, I guess its my stress levels, lol

yep this is definately a home matter and she and I are like family

I have already smsed her but it shows no delivery...I have a feeling she will reach out

posted December 26, 2012 11:00 PM            

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Originally posted by crys:
As far as i see it is a maybe.
You are not bug me at all, don't worry.

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posted December 27, 2012 04:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Tofu addict:
As an addition I had a look at the 6th house, as she is your employee.She is Mars , in your 8th house, is the significator on 0 degrees, a crisis degree. Also you find the Node in the sixth. All not good points.
He would be the 7th of the 6th house, which gives him Venus as a significator, there has been an opposition between Moon, you, and Venus, him, that is the event that happened. I see no future aspects.
Mind that your main significator Mercury , out of bounds. So you might be inclined to go to extremes. Mercury also in detriment as is Jupiter ,retrograde, your co-significator., but they are in Mutual reception.
The last aspect of the Moon is an opposition with Mercury, both significators of you, you are obviously very conflicted about this situation
Your Mercury is conjunct the fixed star, Ras Alhague, not a star with a great reputation.
Like you said they come as a package. I would call it quits.
The chart gives more negatives than positives.

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