posted December 27, 2012 10:46 AM            

Iam so sad over my situation. I dont know what to do anymore.

My guy broke up with me over a dumb fight. It wasnt even a fight really but his reaction was to tell me that he was finished with me. Harsh words. We havent spoken in about 18 days. So yeah we didnt even talk on christmas either

I cant believe it would be over just like that, and at this point I honestly dont even know if i should call or text him.

Tarot reading please.

Will he ever contact me again?

Can JM and M resolve their current issues and still move forward together?

Will JM be open to hearing from M?

posted December 28, 2012 03:27 AM            

Before I start with the last two questions of the reading, I want to ask, who is JM? and M? Just to give me an idea of who to ask for

In answer to 'Will he contact me again'

Eight of Swords with 9 of Coins - Ace of Wands - The Sun with Two of Coins

Now while shuffling, I immediately thought "YES" so that's pretty much answered it but for some background, I think what he wanted most of all was space, I think he felt really trapped in whatever you had going on and wanted to breathe a little. He will come back with a fiery energy about him and it may not be taken so well by you who feels abandoned without any contact and lost in a way, there will be issues that need to be resolved. In the end I think this will be resolved with you finally moving on with the relationship and having that butterfly feeling you used to have with him, you'll finally just be able to have fun and be yourselves. He feels pressured at the moment, quite lost like he's got the weight of the world on his shoulders. Have you got his number or anything? Maybe it would be wise for you to make the first move as I feel all is not lost with this.
I feel like you should give it two days/weeks, now I'm thinking weeks really but just in case, two stands out here as well as a decision as indicated within your past reading.

I know it won't be easy with you with him just going off like that, you're feeling hurt, abandoned and him doing that over some little argument seems really harsh but the main advice I'm getting is to look at this situation with compassion, find out what his true feelings were at the time.

posted December 28, 2012 10:44 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by AshSkye:
I remember seeing a thread on the divination part of this forum about this reading you did, all swords?
From what I remember, what I saw was a cold dark energy between you, the dark aura of the queen of swords, now there will be a decision coming of some sorts and in the end I think whatever was meant to be will serve you both well in the long run.

Before I start with the last two questions of the reading, I want to ask, who is JM? and M? Just to give me an idea of who to ask for

In answer to 'Will he contact me again'

Eight of Swords with 9 of Coins - Ace of Wands - The Sun with Two of Coins

Now while shuffling, I immediately thought "YES" so that's pretty much answered it but for some background, I think what he wanted most of all was space, I think he felt really trapped in whatever you had going on and wanted to breathe a little. He will come back with a fiery energy about him and it may not be taken so well by you who feels abandoned without any contact and lost in a way, there will be issues that need to be resolved. In the end I think this will be resolved with you finally moving on with the relationship and having that butterfly feeling you used to have with him, you'll finally just be able to have fun and be yourselves. He feels pressured at the moment, quite lost like he's got the weight of the world on his shoulders. Have you got his number or anything? Maybe it would be wise for you to make the first move as I feel all is not lost with this.
I feel like you should give it two days/weeks, now I'm thinking weeks really but just in case, two stands out here as well as a decision as indicated within your past reading.

I know it won't be easy with you with him just going off like that, you're feeling hurt, abandoned and him doing that over some little argument seems really harsh but the main advice I'm getting is to look at this situation with compassion, find out what his true feelings were at the time.

Good luck

---

posted December 28, 2012 10:47 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by AshSkye:
If you're still offering tarot in exchange, I'd like to know about this new man coming into my life soon, what will the relationship be like? what's he like?
Only if you're upto it

---

posted December 28, 2012 11:04 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
I drew 10 of wands, 2 of wands, five of cups reversed ,judgement, chariot reversed.

I can see that in the past there has been many instances of your egos clashing and there were some struggles as both of you were trying to 'one up' one another. It could be that there was a difference in communication styles, or that each of you were not willing to compromise as much as you should have to make this relationship run more harmoniously. Sometimes daily responsibilities just get too much and this stress ends up spilling onto the other person? Right now there's almost a standstill as he is trying to sort out things in his life. He is staying silent because he wants to evaluate just how things should be and whether this relationship is worth another shot. He's also feeling alittle overwhelmed and closed in and stressed so he feels he needs to take some time out..However I see that this break is but a lesson for both of you. You're meant to take this time away from each other to learn things and learn what's important. You're meant to learn what you SHOULD prioritise, and what you should put down so to speak (the pride, the ego clashing) and really learn to speak more openly and honestly to each other.
I see in the future, it will still be alittle up and down, and there might be some mini rollercoasters you have to face before everything truly runs smoothly...But there WILL be progress, and new wonderful things will develop slowly if you guys learn what's important. I feel things could look up, it'll just take some time. I feel the guy will contact you within a month and when he does, he'll be alittle hesitant and reserved about how he's really feeling...You need to take it slow.

---

Thank you Haplesschild. I do feel that maybe perhaps some boundaries have been pushed. But nothing extreme. More like I've been pushing and insisting for more time together. We haven't said any harsh words to each other. No insults, yelling or name calling. We don't fight like that. But I have to admit I've felt like a bit of a nag altho he hasn't pointed it out I've felt it for myself. It's been a frustrating time for us lately and I was shocked and hurt when he broke up with me. It's been about 19 days now since that horrible day he called it quits, and it hurts me that not even the Christmas holidays could reverse his anger and stubborn ways to reach out. I do agree that space is what he needs so that's why I haven't reached out, it's been hard because I do want to call or text him. But at the same time I want to respect his decision. I hope he does reach out to me soon but with new years comming up this weekend I don't want to get my hopes up.

posted December 29, 2012 02:58 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by AshSkye:
If you're still offering tarot in exchange, I'd like to know about this new man coming into my life soon, what will the relationship be like? what's he like?
Only if you're upto it

---

Who is this next new guy coming into ashskye's life?

The wheel of fortune, Queen of cups reversed, Justice.

I believe this next new guy will revive your heart and spirit but will feel like a soulmate. I personally believe that the wheel of fortune is about letting go of your past to move on to the next phase. This next guy will force alot out of you. His prescence in your life will force you to evaluate where you have been and where you are going. It will force you to take different steps and methods to relating to him and men in general. A new approach will be needed to be adopted by you in order to keep the flow going naturally. Its karma at its highest. He will represent your accumulation of the different men that have had an influence in your life. All the seeds you have sowed in the past will come bearing fruit with this man. He will represent what you need at that moment, so be open to chance meetings. Serendipity. Karma in a flash.

What will the relationship be like? What will he be like?

The fool, The 10 of pentacles reversed, The page of cups

The relationship and him will be the same. A happy go lucky guy. An eternal optimist who has had his share of bad luck, dissapointments, setbacks but it has not left him jaded. He will be a breath of fresh air. And perhaps a bit younger than you, but with a wise soul. He is a quick learner, funny and very intelligent. Perhaps likes to travel or has travel plans for the future. But travel and mobility will be important.

I personally dont see the next guy being your forever soulmate but he will be life changing for you. He will help you unpack your past baggage and look at things alot differently. His influence will help you find your destined path to your ultimate soulmate. He will help transform you.

What do you think? I hope you like your reading. Iam trying to be more indepth. If you want my own take on the traditional meanings of the cards let me know.

posted December 29, 2012 12:47 PM            

quote:

---

I know he loves me. I know there is not anyone else

---

posted December 29, 2012 08:34 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Soo, then..what's the problem?

[QUOTE]I know he loves me. I know there is not anyone else

---

posted December 29, 2012 11:31 PM            

I don't want to say that there's another woman, but Snake being the focus on this whole thing seems to me that is it. There's someone else interfering in the relationship. I also see there might be some financial problems in the mix as well. This kind of doesn't fit, but it seems it's also part of the issue on why there might be another woman involved. In the future I see that you will find out and things will start making sense and become more clear.

In the past I can see how you two were very close, but it was something unofficial. Everyone knew about it, but it wasn't really an official relationship. I see deep and very strong feelings in the PAST between you both, but someone somewhere made the wrong turn/choice and the relationship just fizzled in a way.

Is redpearl3's love interest in love with her?

So, like I said in the previous question it seems in the past he had deep feelings for you. Now it seems like things are more towards friendship. He's being distant and aloof because he wants freedom. He likes being free and doesn't feel comfortable being confined. I believe that's the main issue between you both. You're ripe and ready for the commitment, marriage, etc while he isn't there just yet. By these cards I'm not sure he will be ready for that any time soon. It might take years for him to transform his views and ways..

Sorry If I'm off. I just started reading with this method. But don't be afraid to let me know if it doesn't make any sense.

Also I want to ask, do you guys live far from one another??

posted December 30, 2012 12:16 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Okay. I hope you don't mind I asked - What's the problem between redpearl3 and her love interest?

I don't want to say that there's another woman, but Snake being the focus on this whole thing seems to me that is it. There's someone else interfering in the relationship. I also see there might be some financial problems in the mix as well. This kind of doesn't fit, but it seems it's also part of the issue on why there might be another woman involved. In the future I see that you will find out and things will start making sense and become more clear.

In the past I can see how you two were very close, but it was something unofficial. Everyone knew about it, but it wasn't really an official relationship. I see deep and very strong feelings in the PAST between you both, but someone somewhere made the wrong turn/choice and the relationship just fizzled in a way.

Is redpearl3's love interest in love with her?

So, like I said in the previous question it seems in the past he had deep feelings for you. Now it seems like things are more towards friendship. He's being distant and aloof because he wants freedom. He likes being free and doesn't feel comfortable being confined. I believe that's the main issue between you both. You're ripe and ready for the commitment, marriage, etc while he isn't there just yet. By these cards I'm not sure he will be ready for that any time soon. It might take years for him to transform his views and ways..

Sorry If I'm off. I just started reading with this method. But don't be afraid to let me know if it doesn't make any sense.

Also I want to ask, do you guys live far from one another??

I hope you find your prince charming soon..

---

Super in depth. Thanks. Still no communication from him

Honestly I don't believe there is another woman. From your reading I can gather that perhaps its me. I don't believe he trust me completely. Trust is hard for him. Don't ask me why as Iam not too clear why he doesn't fully trust me. In general I think it's his heavy scorpio influence.

He is very business minded but money is not an issue on his end. I struggle a little but Iam pretty resourceful and have never needed him to help me out or anything like that. From my understanding for a long time he wasn't doing much of anything to prepare for a more serious chapter in his life until I came along. He has been dealing with personal issues along with a more ambitious workload. He is trying to be more in control of his weaknesses and be a more serious business man. Be more responsible and mature.

We have always lived in the same city.

Can you please let me know which cards you pulled? And maybe use our first name initials for better energy. JM for him and M for me.

posted December 30, 2012 12:39 AM            

The second question
Key+Garden+Dog+Mountain+Coffin

I don't need the initials. He doesn't want a relationship, but I wouldn't say he's "done" with you as long as you keep going back to him.
It will be a vicious cycle all over again. Okay, business man then the Fish makes sense there. Snake traditionally means betrayal, mistrust..some bad cards in the first set.

Ring+Snake = Continuous betrayal/relationship dishonesty, cheating

posted December 30, 2012 12:53 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
The first question
Clouds+Ring+Snake+Fish+Mice

The second question
Key+Garden+Dog+Mountain+Coffin

I don't need the initials. He doesn't want a relationship, but I wouldn't say he's "done" with you as long as you keep going back to him.
It will be a vicious cycle all over again. Okay, business man then the Fish makes sense there. Snake traditionally means betrayal, mistrust..some bad cards in the first set.

Ring+Snake = Continuous betrayal/relationship dishonesty, cheating

Good luck..

---