posted January 01, 2013 06:12 AM            

Feeling a bit nostalgic.

Am I ever going to see my best friend from elementary again (in person)? At what age? Will we be friends again?

posted January 01, 2013 08:01 AM            

I think you can be very close again if you really want to and work it out right. Almost as if there were differences that will have to be buried if this is to work. Is your friend based elsewhere? I think you're feeling bitter about the way you drifted apart, and now seems like you're generally prone to ruminating on your past hence this nostalgia, nothing seems to excite you enough so you choose to dwell on your past, you might also be feeling kind of austere, a bit tough, as if affections were restricted in a way. Patching up might require an action, a gesture, an effort. But your hope to see your friend again one day might be fulfilled

Queen of swords - 6 swords - 2 cups - high priestess - 2 wands - ace of swords - emperor - 4 cups - knight of pents - 2 pents

posted January 01, 2013 11:13 AM            

Still wish i could know more info...
that pretty much tells me what i already know. :/ darn.

Sc0rpiorising, ur welcome! i am looking forward to it.
Do you mean what happens when there are no saturn aspects at all? Or just when there are no saturn afflictions?
EDIT: hey sc0rpiorising, i have an idea. Can you change the question that you ask to "Will she take the initiative to try to see me?" and also was wondering when this would happen? years? weeks? days? etc.

posted January 01, 2013 11:26 AM            

Here's what I get from your situation..
I feel like it may have been an abrupt severing of the friendship, like you are not really sure what happened...it also seems like you will see them again , I keep getting 4. SO I'm thinking either four weeks, or the month of April. I am feeling like it will be April. I also feel like I need to tell you that your friend has been going through a LOT of stuff the past few years, and in order for the two of you to rekindle the frindship, honesty is required. I do think you will have the opportunity to rebuild your frindship.

posted January 02, 2013 12:16 PM            

but now you also have to copy n paste the compatibility for lovers report from grupovenus.com (remember, paste the whole thing)

posted January 02, 2013 12:24 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
you are welcome

but now you also have to copy n paste the compatibility for lovers report from grupovenus.com (remember, paste the whole thing)

Now I'm lost...I can't really navigate that website!

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posted January 02, 2013 12:26 PM            

I will just copy & paste.

Compatibility Report for
Stephanie
And Steve

Positions for
Stephanie Positions for
Steve
see graphic see graphic
Sun Taurus 18° 57' in house 12 Capricorn 8° 27' in house 9
Moon Pisces 9° 38' in house 10 Taurus 18° 35' in house 1
Mercury Taurus 14° 15' in house 12 Capricorn 12° 45' in house 10
Venus Gemini 28° 26' in house 1 Aquarius 10° 25' in house 11
Mars Virgo 1° 34' in house 4 Scorpio 24° 4' in house 8
Jupiter Virgo 0° 30' in house 4 Aries 20° 9' in house 1
Saturn Virgo 20° 20' in house 5 Saggitarius 25° 18' in house 9
Uranus Scorpio 23° 45' in house 6 Saggitarius 27° 35' in house 9
Neptune Saggitarius 22° 8' in house 7 Capricorn 7° 44' in house 9
Pluto Libra 19° 37' in house 5 Scorpio 11° 57' in house 7
Ascendant Gemini 9° 31' in house 1 Aries 17° 1' in house 1
Medium Coeli Aquarius 14° 55' in house 10 Capricorn 9° 2' in house 10
North Node true Leo 25° 23' in house 4 Pisces 26° 54' in house 12
2 Cancer 1° 58' in house 2 Taurus 23° 37' in house 2
3 Cancer 22° 19' in house 3 Gemini 18° 4' in house 3
4 Leo 14° 55' in house 4 Cancer 9° 2' in house 4
5 Virgo 14° 21' in house 5 Leo 1° 29' in house 5
6 Libra 24° 53' in house 6 Virgo 1° 18' in house 6

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Chapter 1
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Stephanie's Sun in Taurus and Steve's Sun in Capricorn

Both of you are very practical people, with good common sense. Your grounded and realistic approach to issues makes you very compatible philosophically and intellectually. Over time, the two of you may become too complacent and conservative, and focus too much on mundane affairs or narrowly focused mental interests. Take time for sheer fun and enjoyment and do not become too serious.

Stephanie's Moon in Pisces and Steve's Moon in Taurus

Though you have very different emotional natures, you complement and harmonize with one another very well.

Stephanie is sensitive, imaginative, sympathetic and emotional, and is often somewhat ungrounded and impractical. Steve is also a nurturing, sympathetic person, but very well-grounded, solid and reliable - a rock for Stephanie to lean on many times. Both of you have a very peace-loving, easygoing, somewhat passive side, and you both seek a tranquil home atmosphere, free from competition and conflict.

You also share a love of the natural world; gardening, plants, and animals. Music is also a shared love or interest of yours.

The two of you are likely to fare best if Steve takes care of the mundane organization and practical affairs of your household.

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Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Sun Mutually Aspects Moon

The two of you are drawn to each other like magnets, and you may find that you keep bumping into each other even if you are not trying to. If you are not married yet, then there is a good chance that you will in the future because the attractions between you are extremely powerful. You understand and appreciate each other to an exceedingly high degree, and you are likely to have felt an instant connection when you first met each other.

Stephanie's Sun conjunct Steve's Moon orb 0° 21'

If the two of you are not married, there is a high probability that you will marry some day! You have a natural affinity for each other, feel very comfortable together, and can experience a very nourishing and intimate closeness. Even if your personalities are very different, you understand each other very well and you are truly friends as well as lovers. If you have children, you will work well together as parents and Steve, in particular, will prove (perhaps to a surprising degree) very devoted to the family. Steve also helps, supports, and accepts Stephanie, who gains much confidence and energy when the two of you are together. There is a deep, mutual appreciation of each other.

Stephanie's Mercury opposition Steve's Pluto orb 2° 17'

Your conversations have a deep, probing quality. You uncover hidden aspects of yourselves and, in general, you find that you can share at a much deeper level than you can with most people. If you encounter a topic where you strongly disagree with each other, you will both hammer on this issue until it is resolved or until death - whichever comes first!

Stephanie's Venus opposition Steve's Uranus orb 0° 51'

This is an unusual relationship! The relationship seems to follows its own, unpredictable course that neither of you can control. At least life isn't boring! Sexual attraction to each other is aroused suddenly and unpredictably, but then it subsides just as quickly and unexpectedly. If your relationship is a permanent one, you will find that periods of intense sexual attraction come and go in waves, and you both will have to be able to adjust to these unpredictable changes. Steve, in particular, may be erratic, inconstant, or unreliable toward Stephanie, perhaps unwilling to make a commitment or to keep promises.

Stephanie's Uranus conjunct Steve's Mars orb 0° 18'

You feel energized and get into a dynamic, sometimes impatient and reckless mood together. You enjoy engaging in exciting or daring activities together. You get impatient with each other and can easily get into lots of arguments and feelings of irritation and annoyance with each other. If you find each other at all physically attractive, then your sexual responsiveness to each other is very direct and even aggressive at times.

Stephanie's Moon sextile Steve's Sun orb 1° 11'

You are drawn to one another because you instinctively understand each other. There are strong feelings of belonging, closeness, and acceptance between you. You blend and merge with one another very easily and a strong mutual interdependence is likely to develop very quickly. Steve, especially, feels affirmed and strengthened by Stephanie's support and 'backing'. Because of the deep affinity between you, you are more motivated and more able to overcome any problems or differences that arise in your relationship.

Stephanie's Moon sextile Steve's Neptune orb 1° 54'

You feel extremely comfortable with each other, and it is not surprising that you have become close friends. The intuitive rapport for each other is very strong, and you connect strongly on a deep, compassionate, almost mystical level. You also work well together in artistic, musical, and humanitarian areas.

Stephanie's Moon trine Steve's Pluto orb 2° 19'

You have a very deep appreciation for each other's innermost feelings. This is not a superficial relationship. From your first meetings, you found that you could reveal to each other your deepest concerns, fears, and drives. At the least you are close friends. This deep appreciation and rapport is also conducive to a long-lasting marriage.

Stephanie's Mercury trine Steve's Mercury orb 1° 30'

You solve problems and think about issues with a similar perspective and you are able to communicate clearly to each other. You enjoy talking to each other, sharing ideas, and learning from each other, and you are able to plan, design, and develop ideas jointly in a very successful manner.

Stephanie's Saturn trine Steve's Moon orb 1° 44'

There is a mature, stable, responsible tone to your relationship that makes you feel secure with each other. There is a great deal of trust and respect for each other. As you spend more time together, you will find that your tastes, priorities, and sense of what is really important in life becomes very compatible. If you marry and have children, you will work together well as parents, especially when difficulties and 'minor crises' arise.

Stephanie's Ascendant trine Steve's Venus orb 0° 54'

Romantic attraction is strong and you both deeply admire and appreciate each other. Romantic or sentimental gestures, such as bringing home flowers, come naturally to both of you and this love affair is very important to both of you - and could possibly lead to a long-term relationship or marriage.

END OF THE SHORT VERSION

The complete version includes:

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Chapter 3
Other Themes in Your Relationship
Stephanie's Sun in Steve's 1 house
Steve's Sun in Stephanie's 8 house
Stephanie's Moon in Steve's 12 house and
Steve's Moon in Stephanie's 12 house
Stephanie's Mercury in Steve's 1 house
Steve's Mercury in Stephanie's 8 house
Stephanie's Venus in Steve's 3 house
Steve's Venus in Stephanie's 9 house
Stephanie's Mars in Steve's 6 house and
Steve's Mars in Stephanie's 6 house
Stephanie's Jupiter in Steve's 5 house
Steve's Jupiter in Stephanie's 11 house
Stephanie's Saturn in Steve's 6 house
Steve's Saturn in Stephanie's 7 house
Stephanie's Uranus in Steve's 8 house
Steve's Uranus in Stephanie's 7 house
Stephanie's Neptune in Steve's 9 house
Steve's Neptune in Stephanie's 8 house
Stephanie's Pluto in Steve's 7 house
Steve's Pluto in Stephanie's 6 house

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Stephanie's Moon sextile Steve's Mercury orb 3° 6'
Stephanie's Mercury conjunct Steve's Moon orb 4° 20'
Stephanie's Mercury square Steve's Venus orb 3° 50'
Stephanie's Venus opposition Steve's Saturn orb 3° 7'
Stephanie's Mars trine Steve's Uranus orb 3° 59'
Stephanie's Saturn square Steve's Saturn orb 4° 58'
Stephanie's Neptune conjunct Steve's Saturn orb 3° 10'

posted January 02, 2013 08:55 PM            

Moon is afflicted by mars in composite which means you will have arguments. Nagging and misunderstandings will be a problem. You have good moon aspects in synastry, that is very nice and probably helps to intensify feelings.

Unfortunately I see this as being no good...
There isn't enough good stuff to outweigh the negative. There isn't strong enough a foundation. I think you will find that this i s just a passing attraction, even though it may seem rather passionate right now (comp. sun sesquiquadrate pluto=passion and love at first sight), but those uranus problems your feelings will come and go. You will like each other one day and not feel all that much the next.

Let me know what you thought about all that lol. take care

posted January 03, 2013 04:33 AM            

I've had venus afflicted by uranus in synastry with two guys in the past. We both really liked each other, but the feelings were strong one day and there was no attraction the next day. It was pretty frustating. The description for that aspect in grupovenus says that attraction comes in waves, and comes and goes. So that confirms both of our experiences with this aspect
I just had to ignore those two guys even though i still really liked them. It was too frustrating to deal with that. I figured that if i wasn't attracted to them consistently, then that meant i didn't like them enough to go out with them. So now we both, you know treat each other as friends when we see each other, but generally avoid each other outside maybe sometimes liking each other's stuff on facebook. It's like we both came to a silent understanding that the attraction wasn't strong enough to pursue a relationship. Sucks because i also wouldve loved to somehow have stayed friends with them, and i do miss them. but you just cant be friends with someone you're attracted too. I wish you could trust me lol.

posted January 03, 2013 12:41 PM            

Out of the two guys i mentioned, one i had composite moon square mars and sun square pluto like you do with your guy, so that one i'm sure is more similar to your situation. There was a strong sexual attraction, and like you said, that intense gaze. He would stare me down all the time, like make super super intense eye contact from far away and hold it. But, for me it was a bit different because WE BOTH felt the attraction at first sight thing at the exact same moment and right away. Yeah i had the urge to make the relationship physical, but i'm sure for you its an even stronger attraction bc of the DW sun-moon aspects. I had that DW with another guy, and abs nothing else going on except for venus trine mars and composite moon sextile pluto....And he was so freaking hot i cant even describe! So i can just imagine how hot u must think he is. must make it even more frustrating that it comes and goes. Anyway, about the guy, yes i thought he was hot, and there was always always sexual tension between us. We would even turn towards each other when talking and completely face each other as if we were about to do something. But it just never got to that point, bc it just didn't feel totally "right" for me. There was something about his looks that turned me off. There was a lot of flirting for sure, and EVERYONE and i mean everyone noticed. A two of my friends saw me hanging out with him on campus a couple of times and they were like, "so who's that guy i saw you talking to the other day, you two seemed pretty into each other, whats that all about?" And people would also give us "aww they are so cute" embarrassed/shy looks. lol. if you read the aspect description for sun sq pluto ull see it says its hard for people to not notice the passion between you (link is in my sig--most important aspect descriptions).