posted January 03, 2013 02:47 AM            

Apologies for delayed response... Had a very nice day off and then got caught up w my kiddos

First off, lots if hugs your way and feel free to contact me anytime for readings or a listening ear marital stress can be very overwhelming & draining. Sometimes, taking a little break to think or just be is very helpful. Not sure if you have children, if so that adds more... Challenging to listen to ourselves & obtain clarity when going through daily life, as mom/wife/etc. Wishing you all the best and hoping soon your hearts desire is clarified.

The reading: I feel you are a gentle person w much love to give and are feeling disappointed in that things are happening very fast around you. It seems like the current conflicts came a bit as a surprise to you or him. One of you was feeling things were great, while the other suffered in silence. It seems there is a major difference in personalities & managing conflict. I do feel he does care about you but is being apathetic on how to resolve this. Almost like a burden on to you to be the one to do most of the work. There is a lot of emotion and a sense of giving up, not knowing what to do, not knowing if something should even be done or if it is too little too late.

Not enough clear communication at all. Confusion and murkiness, neither truly understands where the other is coming from. Disconnect and fear, I don't pick up on reason being lack of caring more like lack of connection. You have lost touch w yourself and he has withdrawn further into himself. He feels alone and doesn't know why. You feel brushed aside but it is hard to express this to him. If marital counseling is an option, would def recommend it as truthfully it feels despite the current turmoil there is caring to be found and hope. He comes across as a good man, a little rigid but w positive intentions... At a loss of how to make himself understood when he doesn't even comprehend what is going on. Like a feeling of being distracted and not noticing your boat is sinking until the water has reached your neck.

Meanwhile you are going through major self discovery and change. The relationship holds much meaning/feeling but your inner self is changing so fast... Feels like you have outgrown it at times, especially when you see him and think... He is a stranger almost. Changes are going to keep coming and the moment of making a final stand is rapidly coming... I give if a couple months at the most by the feel of these cards.

Sometimes people are able to follow a script and keep playing their roles, due to fear of rocking the boat... Living through the motions, not truly happy but too afraid to leave. In this situation, it feels like you are indeed strong enough to break it off rather than remain in an unhappy union (if this is your choice/realization). I just don't see you as staying if after all is said/done, all opportunities expired, you aren't happy. You feel to be a person w a joy of living, and will most likely opt for bringing the waves of color/passion back into your life, with him in a renewed partnership or by yourself.

The cards is hexagram spread in order: 3 of cups, 6 pentacles, 7 of cups, the chariot, king of swords, 5 of cups, death.

My question is what are his feelings for me?

posted January 03, 2013 06:45 AM            

Please excuse me barging in like this: Phoenix Fire, your readings are really impressive. I'm afraid I'm in darkness and confusion with a relationship and need help. Have tried asking in tarot threads and received vastly conflicting advice which has been more confusing. Some say I am being deceived and others say all is well. Please could you do a reading for me. In return I can only ask for blessings for you. You could send me an email so I could reveal my misery - astrokeen00@gmail.com. Or else use this forum.

PS. I posted this message first in another thread where you'd done a reading for andstuff and then saw this thread here. You may see this request twice.

posted January 03, 2013 01:29 PM            

My secondary email is phoenixfirefire19@gmail.com. feel free to email me and I'll forward this to my primary account (can't post it here as my name easily identifies me).

Astro keen, feel free to email me. Ill do my best to complete these tonight. An finding for best connection/detail, 2 or 3 readings max a day is best.