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Topic: Pisces Sun, Aries Venus Man
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ErinSJ
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From: London
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 05, 2013 02:29 AM
  
Hi guys,I've met this guy recently that I'm pretty into. He's a Pisces with a Venus in Aries & I'm a Scorpio with a Venus in Scorpio. The first thing I noticed about this Pisces was that he was slow to show his cards to the point where I didn't realise he was at all interested in me until he came out and said it! Everything was fine (or so I thought) and we opened up to each other, but now he's completely gone cold. Not sure what I've done to upset him, but I feel like he's completely shut me out, which is tough since I really like him. Anyone had an experience like this, or could shed some light on this situation? Our Planets:
Him
Ascendant not sure, I have a strong feeling its Scorpio
Sun Pisces
Moon Cancer
Mercury Pisces
Venus Aries
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Leo Me
Ascendant Aries
Sun Scorpio
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Scorpio
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Leo Oh and his Sun and Mercury sit in my 12th house. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 2859
From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 05, 2013 03:34 AM
Hello ErinSJ! Welcome to LL  Venus in Aries in a mans chart
shows he is attracted to independant women. Moving to Personal Readings  ------------------
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ErinSJ
Newflake Posts: 7
From: London
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 05, 2013 03:37 AM
Thank you, Lalalinda.I didn't see this forum, I'm so used to lurking around Astrology 2.0 - my apologies! IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted January 05, 2013 05:31 AM
IMO, I'd be alittle wary of him if I were you. His placements do not make for a very stable loyal partner. The cancer moon is nurturing yes, but can be insecure, in combo with Pisces, makes him washy washy and manipulative. Pisces mercury will make him alittle shifty at times, the Venus in Aries is easily bored, and all this in combo with the Gemini mars (makes one flirty) suggests he wont be the consistent type. Just be careful. Pisces aspects don't go well with Gemini, too much mutable makes him alittle slippery.
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Haplesschild*
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posted January 05, 2013 05:32 AM
OH and it's pretty common for Pisces and cancer placement people to go MIA lol.. Dont know why, the water men aren't very consistent when it comes to communication.IP: Logged |
happyaskings
Knowflake Posts: 46
From: Dallas, TX, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 05, 2013 10:51 AM
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happyaskings
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posted January 05, 2013 10:53 AM
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happyaskings
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posted January 05, 2013 10:59 AM
I'm just going to tell you up front that you should mirror his actions. Do not call him, do not text him. Let him come to you.
I am FED UP with all the disappearing acts I see coming in and out of these forums. These boys need to MAN UP, start treating women with care and respect, and stop being such jerks.
This is a HIM problem not a YOU problem (and same goes to any other ladies dealing with this right now).That said, I dated an Aries Venus Gemini Mars guy for three years. He never ignored me, but those placements combined with a Leo Moon and Aries Sun made him constantly need to be chased (any kind of attention, really) and he got restless a lot. He was a pain in the butt for me but I think the right person for him will actually have a lot of fun. Imo, the water in your guys chart might actually help balance him out and make him more sensitive...although right now he is being quite the opposite. Astrology doesn't excuse being a butthead. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted January 05, 2013 12:20 PM
I've actually dated a guy with similar placements, the water doesn't make them more sensitive to you,, just super sensitive to themselves. And really selfish.IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmainec
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posted January 05, 2013 03:45 PM
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ErinSJ
Newflake Posts: 7
From: London
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 05, 2013 05:39 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
IMO, I'd be alittle wary of him if I were you. His placements do not make for a very stable loyal partner. The cancer moon is nurturing yes, but can be insecure, in combo with Pisces, makes him washy washy and manipulative. Pisces mercury will make him alittle shifty at times, the Venus in Aries is easily bored, and all this in combo with the Gemini mars (makes one flirty) suggests he wont be the consistent type. Just be careful. Pisces aspects don't go well with Gemini, too much mutable makes him alittle slippery.
Thank you for your response. I'm a little worried - with all the water I have in my chart and the fact that my Mars is one of my dominant planets, won't I always attract guys with these kinds of charts? Don't tell me I'm doomed! Lol. I hoped his Venus in conjunction with my Ascendant and with his Sun, Moon and Mercury trining my Sun, Moon and Venus it'd be okay :-/ IP: Logged |
ErinSJ
Newflake Posts: 7
From: London
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 05, 2013 05:41 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
OH and it's pretty common for Pisces and cancer placement people to go MIA lol.. Dont know why, the water men aren't very consistent when it comes to communication.
I have to point out that he hasn't gone MIA, he's just gone cold, as in he shuts me out emotionally. It's weird. IP: Logged |
ErinSJ
Newflake Posts: 7
From: London
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 05, 2013 05:49 PM
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Originally posted by happyaskings:
I'm just going to tell you up front that you should mirror his actions. Do not call him, do not text him. Let him come to you.
I am FED UP with all the disappearing acts I see coming in and out of these forums. These boys need to MAN UP, start treating women with care and respect, and stop being such jerks.
This is a HIM problem not a YOU problem (and same goes to any other ladies dealing with this right now).That said, I dated an Aries Venus Gemini Mars guy for three years. He never ignored me, but those placements combined with a Leo Moon and Aries Sun made him constantly need to be chased (any kind of attention, really) and he got restless a lot. He was a pain in the butt for me but I think the right person for him will actually have a lot of fun. Imo, the water in your guys chart might actually help balance him out and make him more sensitive...although right now he is being quite the opposite. Astrology doesn't excuse being a butthead.
Thank you for responding! He hasn't disappeared, he's still very much in the picture but its like he refuses to show me anything real. He's putting on a really big facade at the moment and acts like a five year old. He told me that he thinks the conversation we had was "too soon", yet he continues to spill his heart and wants to know everything about me, then pulls his guard completely up again. It's ridiculous and tiring. Astrology definitely is no excuse for being a butthead! Lol. In comparison to your guy, I wouldn't say this one likes being chased, but he does like to be sure he won't get rejected before he shows his hand. And yes he is very sensitive, but a prick at the same time. IP: Logged |
ErinSJ
Newflake Posts: 7
From: London
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 05, 2013 05:50 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
I've actually dated a guy with similar placements, the water doesn't make them more sensitive to you,, just super sensitive to themselves. And really selfish.
What do you mean by sensitive to themselves?
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ErinSJ
Newflake Posts: 7
From: London
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 05, 2013 05:51 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Welcome!
Why, thank you!
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Haplesschild*
Knowflake Posts: 355
From:
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 05, 2013 06:02 PM
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Originally posted by ErinSJ:
What do you mean by sensitive to themselves?
As in concerned about their own feelings and often it's a double standard with you walking on eggshells while they can say and do whatever to you.
So yes, alot of them with similar mixture of placements do tend to be pricks.
He's ignoring you bc I expect he needs space and water sign men do this sometimes just because. Don't know why, might be for power trips? IP: Logged |
LionFish
Knowflake Posts: 289
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted January 06, 2013 04:47 AM
I think hapless hit it on the head here. I'm a female pisces aries venus and IMO he wants to hear about your feelings for him but not give too much of himself. I've even done similar things myself...just because I don't want to talk about MY feelings doesn't mean I don't want to hear about yours. Its not a bad sign unless it persists for an extended amount of time. If he says it was too early to have the convo but keeps you talking about your feelings its entirely possible he got scared. Scared that you might change your mind or that he might...he might just be trying to build his confidence in the relationship before he pursues it further. IP: Logged |
happyaskings
Knowflake Posts: 46
From: Dallas, TX, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2013 04:54 AM
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Originally posted by ErinSJ:
Thank you for responding!He hasn't disappeared, he's still very much in the picture but its like he refuses to show me anything real. He's putting on a really big facade at the moment and acts like a five year old. He told me that he thinks the conversation we had was "too soon", yet he continues to spill his heart and wants to know everything about me, then pulls his guard completely up again. It's ridiculous and tiring. Astrology definitely is no excuse for being a butthead! Lol. In comparison to your guy, I wouldn't say this one likes being chased, but he does like to be sure he won't get rejected before he shows his hand. And yes he is very sensitive, but a prick at the same time.
Nah, he needs to chill out with that mess. Again, my advice is to mirror him; when he opens up, you open up; when he shuts down, you shut down. If it starts showing event he tiniest sign of becoming manipulative WALK AWAY! IP: Logged |
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