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Topic: 10 of swords after break up?what does it mean?
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evangeliana
Newflake Posts: 20
From: istanbul, Turkey
Registered: Oct 2012
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posted January 13, 2013 09:44 AM
  
me and my boyfriend broke up 2 months ago, I know he feels bad and whenever I pull a card for his feelings towards me, this card appears, what does it mean?IP: Logged |
seeker3030
Knowflake Posts: 662
From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 13, 2013 09:57 AM
I would say it means he feels helpless and defeated by the break up. I think he feels it was somehow beyond his control (might sound odd if he initiated or agreed to the break up but feelings are illogical little rascals!) and I'd also say he sort of feels like the 'victim' of the situation. He's hurt and feeling very bad about you I think. I hope you two manage to sort things out - it's clear you're still interested in some way because you wouldn't be asking that question of the Tarot otherwise so maybe you should contact him and send an 'olive branch' of some sort?? Good luck  IP: Logged |
ShyVirgo1979
Knowflake Posts: 1428
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Registered: May 2011
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posted January 13, 2013 10:03 AM
Ooo I kept getting this card during my divorce a few yrs ago. He realizes its like THE END and may feel as if he has been betrayed. Not saying that's how it really is, just saying it may be how he feels. I got to experience what this card means and it wasn't pleasant.IP: Logged |
evangeliana
Newflake Posts: 20
From: istanbul, Turkey
Registered: Oct 2012
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posted January 13, 2013 12:17 PM
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Originally posted by seeker3030:
I would say it means he feels helpless and defeated by the break up. I think he feels it was somehow beyond his control (might sound odd if he initiated or agreed to the break up but feelings are illogical little rascals!) and I'd also say he sort of feels like the 'victim' of the situation. He's hurt and feeling very bad about you I think. I hope you two manage to sort things out - it's clear you're still interested in some way because you wouldn't be asking that question of the Tarot otherwise so maybe you should contact him and send an 'olive branch' of some sort?? Good luck
that' really what you wrote! I tried to contact him 3 times but he said ''no'' I know I said so many things that hurt him, and whenever I pull cards for him, sometimes 9 of swords appears too. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
Knowflake Posts: 450
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 13, 2013 03:55 PM
What exactly did you say to him? I think you should leave him alone. Obviously you hurt him so give him space to move on.IP: Logged |
Junethird
Moderator Posts: 3132
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 13, 2013 04:10 PM
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Originally posted by evangeliana:
that' really what you wrote! I tried to contact him 3 times but he said ''no'' I know I said so many things that hurt him, and whenever I pull cards for him, sometimes 9 of swords appears too.
Painful realization  I understand swords to mean communication. And words are the force of your words. Your last exchange, fght were like daggers to his heart, the memories are still fresh, and he is not weeping for you necessarily but more for the pain of being hurt. He is licking his wounds, so give him lots of time to heal. One/two months before checking in on him. Respect his need for space and his "no" decision. IP: Logged |
evangeliana
Newflake Posts: 20
From: istanbul, Turkey
Registered: Oct 2012
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posted January 13, 2013 08:40 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
What exactly did you say to him? I think you should leave him alone. Obviously you hurt him so give him space to move on.
he was angry with me and had stopped to talk to me for 5 days,I said f** you and like that, and broke up with him, then 4-5 days later I wanted him to come back because I said these hurtful things when I was made as hell he managed to made me get angry too much, and before this event I never said even a little rude word to anyone and him IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 13, 2013 08:56 PM
Well if you only said fck you when he went silent for 5 days I think he's being alittle too sensitive (though of course you shouldn't have said that anyway).Just back off, if he wants to talk he will. IP: Logged |
evangeliana
Newflake Posts: 20
From: istanbul, Turkey
Registered: Oct 2012
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posted January 13, 2013 09:32 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Well if you only said fck you when he went silent for 5 days I think he's being alittle too sensitive (though of course you shouldn't have said that anyway).Just back off, if he wants to talk he will.
I didn't sat only f**, I broke up with him, I told him that it's over, and it will never be again, also 4 of swords is appears beside 10 of swords
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Leap Year Pisces
Knowflake Posts: 474
From: Bronx, NY, USA
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted January 13, 2013 09:36 PM
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Originally posted by evangeliana:
I didn't sat only f**, I broke up with him, I told him that it's over, and it will never be again, also 4 of swords is appears beside 10 of swords
Those 2 cards are CLEAR indications to give him space. Give it to him before you damage his feelings more. Maybe you can work on your temper while he licks his wounds. ------------------
I am a child of Karma. IP: Logged |
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