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RosieRIOT
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From: Johannesburg
Registered: Jan 2013

posted January 29, 2013 01:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RosieRIOT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Please can someone help me??
Ths is the most unstable up and down relationship I have ever been in, we argue continually, I break up with him and he won't leave me alone after break up & I always end up going back to him.
This time I haven't though, and he doesn't leave me alone. If I don't respond to his messages he will call me until I answer.
I know how unhealthy this is, which is why I stay away. Problem is we live in a fairly small town so I bump into him continually.

ME:
Sun 15°03' Cancer
Moon 26°51' Scorpio
Mercury 09°37' Cancer
Venus 02°19' Cancer
Mars 00°40' Leo
Jupiter 26°55' Aries
Saturn 15°50' Sagittarius
Uranus 23°52' Sagittarius
Neptune 06°22' Capricorn
Pluto 07°02' Scorpio

HIM:
Sun 07°16' Aries
Moon 17°55' Gemini
Mercury 18°02' Aries
Venus 18°15' Aries
Mars 09°15' Taurus
Jupiter 10°17' Aquarius
Saturn 27°44' Scorpio
Uranus 17°57' Sagittarius
Neptune 03°35' Capricorn
Pluto 03°57' Scorpio

ANYONE WITH ANY IDEAS?? ANY COMMENTS ON HOW TO HANDLE THIS?? Or maybe explain to me so that I have a better understanding of this behaviour?

Thank you so much
xxx

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RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake

Posts: 6313
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Registered: Oct 2010

posted January 31, 2013 05:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Post composite from astro.com extended chart selection

and copy n paste compatibility for lovers report from grupovenus.com. dont edit any of the descriptions out and include the list of aspects at the end.

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Aries23Degrees
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Posts: 28
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012

posted February 01, 2013 08:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Well, in my opinon make up/break up/make-up/break-up are Pluto-Venus stuff.

I noticed that your Venus forms a trine to his Pluto and your Pluto forms a tough opposition to his Mars.

You have Venus -Pluto aspects by trine and a Neptune-Venus by opposition: Your relationships will always have a sense of drama and intrigue and, with the Neptune opposition , they can have a strongly addictive effect; even if they are not productive at all.

I found it odd that a moon in Gemini would behave in such a fashion; especially with the opposition with Uranus??? Hmmm..... This can have the effect of making someone unpredictable and emotionally erratic(blow hot and cold).

He also has the charming sextile of Moon and Venus...Yummy! This makes a person a sweet talker and a "seducer".

I realized that this "can't let you go" behaviour is instinctive Mars opposing the obsessive "you'll always be mine" Pluto.

Neptune also trines Mars and can make him quite irrational and relentless in his pursuit; no matter how warped his intentions are i.e He'll do anything in the name of love etc.

Do you still love him? Venus-Neptune opposition can hang on for dear life to a relationship that is toxic; even to their own demise. how do you feel for him?

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RosieRIOT
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From: Johannesburg
Registered: Jan 2013

posted February 03, 2013 01:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RosieRIOT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks that all makes a lot of sense. Ah trying to move on with my life. I can't take this anymore. NOT WORTH IT! Where in RSA arr you from?

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starmoon
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Registered: Sep 2011

posted February 03, 2013 02:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sometimes you don't even need a chart to understand that a relationship isn't going to work. your signs across most of the important planets are just not compatible with this person. you have way too much water in your major planets and he has too much fire. you'd do much better with someone more empathetic and and introspective than you would with a fire/air sign. although you might find yourself drawn to those types because they are different, your own placements show a greater need for a more romantic and caring partner. any fights/push-pull or etc. with this person are just basic incompatiblity between all major signs between you. too many initial/base differences mean it won't last or that if it does, it'll be a constant struggle with the partner to communicate/fix things

sun: cancer and aries
moon: scorpio and gemini
mercury: cancer and aries
venus: cancer and aries
mars: leo and taurus

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