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Topic: Help please! Anyone who knows their stuff!
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RosieRIOT
Newflake Posts: 5
From: Johannesburg
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 30, 2013 01:28 AM
  
Please can someone help me??
Ths is the most unstable up and down relationship I have ever been in, we argue continually, I break up with him and he won't leave me alone after break up & I always end up going back to him.
This time I haven't though, and he doesn't leave me alone. If I don't respond to his messages he will call me until I answer.
I know how unhealthy this is, which is why I stay away. Problem is we live in a fairly small town so I bump into him continually.
I really am struggling to let go...ME:
Sun 15°03' Cancer
Moon 26°51' Scorpio
Mercury 09°37' Cancer
Venus 02°19' Cancer
Mars 00°40' Leo
Jupiter 26°55' Aries
Saturn 15°50' Sagittarius
Uranus 23°52' Sagittarius
Neptune 06°22' Capricorn
Pluto 07°02' Scorpio HIM:
Sun 07°16' Aries
Moon 17°55' Gemini
Mercury 18°02' Aries
Venus 18°15' Aries
Mars 09°15' Taurus
Jupiter 10°17' Aquarius
Saturn 27°44' Scorpio
Uranus 17°57' Sagittarius
Neptune 03°35' Capricorn
Pluto 03°57' Scorpio ANYONE WITH ANY IDEAS?? ANY COMMENTS ON HOW TO HANDLE THIS?? Or maybe explain to me so that I have a better understanding of this behaviour? Thank you so much
xxx
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happyaskings
Knowflake Posts: 88
From: Dallas, TX, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 30, 2013 01:41 AM
With these types of questions I always try to take astrology out of the equation. That said, I also have Moon in Scorpio and Venus in Cancer and I KNOW how hard it is to let go of someone you care about so much, especially after investing so much time and energy into them.
Ultimately, you have to decide what is best for you and realize that you deserve better than an up-and-down relationship that is a constant battle.
I've dated a few Aries (all of them had Venus in Aries too, strangely...perhaps I really do have a type!) and they don't like to lose. This unfortunately means that if you don't want to deal with this anymore, you're just going to have to stay strong and stick to your guns! The more time goes on the easier this will be.Best of luck! Remember you DESERVE to be in a healthy loving relationship and don't ever settle for anything less. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
Knowflake Posts: 615
From:
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 30, 2013 02:09 AM
He's calling because you haven't blocked him. Block him on everything and if he somehow still manages to contact you, change your number.When you see him around town just act casual and like he's invisible. Gemini placements HATE being ignored, so that's why he keeps on calling. If he cared enough, he probably would have respected your space. I've experienced this in the past, the only way to get them to leave you alone is to cut them off completely, and don't budge. Stay strong  . And WOW...Everything you guys had were squares, I can imagine you guys must've found it hard to see eye to eye with anything? IP: Logged |
RosieRIOT
Newflake Posts: 5
From: Johannesburg
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 30, 2013 02:32 AM
You are both right, thank you so much 
You have given me a lot to think about! Yes I will do just that & bloock him! xxxIP: Logged | |
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