posted February 09, 2013 05:13 PM            

thank you Hera , Cerdwen , lalaLinda for your advise and suggestions in this matter
i hope you all can help me find something best!

posted February 09, 2013 05:44 PM            

Moon is not yet in Cancer, but still in Gemini; however it has an applying sextile to Sun in 7th house, which I like.

Mars and Venus each in domicile, and out of sign conjunct each other, of course also conjunct Sun.

Packed 7th house.

Venus sextile Neptune in 5th house.

posted February 09, 2013 07:03 PM            

Im not sure how comfortable you're with marrying during a Mercury rx(it's your choice) but I like this chart personally:
(will add more later).

posted February 09, 2013 07:37 PM            

if all do agree that the bad mercury aspect thing wont effect us much or it can be over shadowed by a good date ,can i pls request my final dates during the pre and post retrograde shadow atleast , just to be safe.. or do you rule against it?.. pls advise.
incase it is fine then for the final dates left can i pls request for the best ones between

posted February 09, 2013 08:34 PM            

"Do's when Mercury is Retrograde
• Reassert your vows and devotion in your love life or married life. Take time to be along with your loved one this partner. But do not initiate any new moves.

• Do take time to mend fences with your partner during this retrograde period. Get rid of past resentments and try to make amends with him/ her. Reconciliation would work well in this period.

• Patience need to be exercised when Mercury goes retrograde. In case there had been a previous break-up with partner now is the time to extend an olive branch.

• You could rekindle a last flame. Look up for some lost love in your life when Mercury goes retrograde.

• You can revisit your ideas of pleasure this time, like your favourite hotspot, your favourite hideout or a coffee shop you used to frequent with your loved one.

Don'ts when Mercury is Retrograde
• At any cost make sure you do not get married during Mercury retrograde dates. Because this is the time when promises get broken easily, and thing go awry. Though everything would seem smooth between you and your partner, something creepy might get in, hence maintain caution.

• Do not pursue a new love route. It would land you in troubled waters. Though it might seem right enough ultimately it would turn into a total failure when Mercury goes direct. You would not get a correct picture of relationships when Mercury is retrograde as things seem blurred.

• Do not try to break up with your loved one when Mercury is retrograde. Divorce proceedings are to be strictly avoided and stalled. Else it would be a big strain for you both mentally ,physically, emotionally and financially."
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so thats why my initial request was plss no nasty retrograde periods
Lalalinda im sorry you are running out of dates but 3rd november has retro peak too

i am fine with more in april or march or june

i promise i wont forget this

posted February 09, 2013 09:24 PM            

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Originally posted by fullmoon11:
sorry to ask the same question again.. but does 11th feb or 13th feb look good for wedding?.. anyone?

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posted February 09, 2013 09:45 PM            

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Originally posted by fullmoon11:
birdy i have no idea all i know is mercury and venus retro are bad and apart from that i trust you guys here because i personally dont know any experts.. this website is quite old and i was a fan of linda goodmans books so this place is all i have!.. trusting you guys completely with my date apart from that i was looking forward to 11th feb because it was a numerology date 1 wedding..and thats a good number for marriage.. lol i know you may think i am a bit koko i just want to be safe and the rest is upto the universe.. waiting for your reply

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posted February 10, 2013 02:50 AM            

You were able to keep the Rulers of the Asc.& Desc. conjunct in both charts, nice

Let's call this #4 & #5
What do you think fullmoon?

I tried again for February but didn't want Mercury Stationary Rx with Mercury going Rx on the 23rd, not a good choice.

I went over April 15th and 16th again
What made me so uncomfortable was Lilith.
We don't want that little B any where near the Moon and I couldn't get it out of orb without activating other harsh aspects.

Since we're not using the November date we have room for one more, what do you say?

Hera, where are you Sweetheart? Any ideas?
Share with us please because right now I'm a little stumped.

I'm going to go look at August, it is out of range with our dates, but what the hey.

I'll be back

edited to add: I do like #4 but it's Rx so were looking for 2 more charts.

Thanks Ladies

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posted February 10, 2013 03:47 AM            

It's an April 9th birth
(Linda Goodman's birthday)
and it is a little out there but I managed to get the Rulers of all 4 angles conjunct
(ok, it is a little wide)

posted February 10, 2013 05:08 AM            

lalaLinda Hera
Ceridwen Birdy
Thank You!

this is the Grand Finale..!! Drum rollsssssssss... now we are nearing the end!
This has been fun!..

posted February 10, 2013 05:34 AM            

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Originally posted by lalalinda:

Hera, where are you Sweetheart? Any ideas?
Share with us please because right now I'm a little stumped.

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To be honest, Lala, I am stumped too. I have been following the thread but don't know what to say. I looked at the April 9th and I noticed Mercury is unaspected (only makes aspect to Asc and Lilith).. that's not good, I think. Plus, there is too much Uranus action.. though I loved the New Moon forming.

I looked again at the April 14th chart. I think of all the charts, this is the one I like best. I changed the hour a bit and came up with Cancer Asc/ Cap DC which is one that I personally like. The Moon is conjunct Jupiter in the 11th and there's a Sun-Venus-Mars conjunction in the 10th. Saturn, ruler of DC is placed in the 4th and well aspected. There's a quincunx between Asc and DC ruler and I wish I could come up with something better but every chart has *some* flaw to it..

What do you guys think?

posted February 10, 2013 06:20 AM            

As for the chart of 21st april.
Stellium of Sun, Venus, Mars in Taurus in 7th house, and also meaning the chartrulers are grouped around Sun. Plus Moon, even tough in Virgo, is having a beautiful trine to Venus (and Sun of course as well).
Also sextiles Saturn, so this Moon might take some tension out of the Venus-Saturn-opposition (which I do not like that much of course).

At the same time Venus and Saturn relax the opposition of Moon and Neptune. So there might be a good balance between overflowing overromanticism (which can be unrealistic at times) and a strong realistic and serious vibe on the other hand. Also Moon in 11th house seems good for teaming up and also be friends.

Venus trine Pluto looks nice as well.

The 2nd march one looks good, though Moon is in Scorpio in fall I think. And maybe it is a bit too much Pisces there, esp. with Venus conjunct Neptune. NOt sure how workable that is on a worldly level.

With the 9th april chart I lke the triple conjunction of Sun-Venus-Mars, also in Aries. Well, it certainly looks hot and spicy.
But to be honest to me it looks more like the chart of a passionate affair than a marriage. I am missing aspects of Saturn to personal planets or personal planets in earth signs or an emphasis of earth houses or the 7th house at least to introduce a more committed vibe.

About the 14th april chart Hera modified.

Still like the Sun-Venus-Mars-conjunction, though Venus is still in Aries.

I am wondering about the Yod of Saturn and Pluto to Moon-Jupiter in Gemini. Is it a binding factor or one of non-understanding?
Always a question with quinkunxes.

posted February 10, 2013 02:26 PM            

I have this natally and trust me, it can ruin everything, the hurt and disappointment is so unfair and not necessarily because of the Bride or Grooms actions but as a result of life.

Do we have 5 charts yet?
I think we do, we have been over our time frame thoroughly and with so many talented Astrologers I'm confident we haven't missed anything. What do you say fullmoon?
Are you satisfied?

posted February 10, 2013 04:07 PM            

i appreciated the time, effort and advise.. Thank you for being honest about the bad aspects in all these dates too.. i know i cant get a day that is completely flawless!.. looks like mission impossible!
i will decide later on which date i finally pick or any advise on finaly selection is also most welcome

ok so Yeay!!..finally I got 5 dates for $50
can you pls reply how do i send the amount? the address pls..?