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Topic: Synastry between me and J.
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hannaramaa
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posted February 15, 2013 01:16 PM
  
I was wondering if we have long-term contacts in this synastry? He's a gentleman I met online and I wondered what the chances of sexual attraction were based off this. Sometimes I can't tell if he likes me or if I'm his friend. We've talked everyday for the past month though. I feel a pull towards him and feel as though it's binding but I wondered if he saw it the same way too, or what.I'm on the outside, he's inside.  IP: Logged |
andstuff
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posted February 15, 2013 04:06 PM
His Pluto is conjunct your Vertex, which is coolThere is a possibility of moon conj Neptune, depending on his exact birth time, beautiful spiritual connection Sun trine Venus - not bad either, and Venus trine Venus is good in that you share the same mechanics of romance But upon the whole no crazy mars aspects, no crazy mars-Pluto, nothing overloaded w sex. And I'm approximately no expert at all IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 15, 2013 04:14 PM
He does remind me of some friends I have here, both energetically and our connection as well. Vertex conj. Pluto has to be powerful but who feels it more? Vertex? IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted February 15, 2013 04:25 PM
just imo, there are no sexual/romantic overlays in this synastry chart. the only thing of interest is that his venus falls in your 8th house and that it's sitting right on your DSC sign of Sagittarius. there's nothing here aside from that, at least nothing that shows a connection between two people. it doesn't mean a relationship won't happen, but certainly isn't destined or fated, etc. and in the long run will likely fade. you just don't have enough common points between the chart(s) to hold the interest of each otherIP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 15, 2013 04:31 PM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
just imo, there are no sexual/romantic overlays in this synastry chart. the only thing of interest is that his venus falls in your 8th house and that it's sitting right on your DSC sign of Sagittarius. there's nothing here aside from that, at least nothing that shows a connection between two people. it doesn't mean a relationship won't happen, but certainly isn't destined or fated, etc. and in the long run will likely fade. you just don't have enough common points between the chart(s) to hold the interest of each other
Yeah it doesn't feel sexual at all although that doesn't mean we stay clear of the topic... but I think we could be friends in the long-run. Pooh. He's cute too...
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Lazyscarecrow
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posted February 15, 2013 04:38 PM
I think that he thinks you're pretty. When someone's planets fall in my 2nd house somewhere... on a physical level, they appeal to me.His Moon is square your inner planets. He has to feel some type of way about you. There's a push pull dynamic, because while his Cap Moon is refined, your Aries is dynamic and forward. That can have a certain effect on him, can't say if it is negative or positive though. As for everyone else saying there is a lack of romantic stuff, meh. If Venus does not touch Sun or Venus does not touch Mars, then you look to the 7th house ruler, 8th house and 5th house. In this case his Sun is opposite your 7th house ruler, which also happens to be the ruling planet of his Sun. I think he represents an ideal boyfriend for you, or partnership. Your 5th house ruler Venus receives a trine from his Saturn, I think. This is not bad. This means he brings a more serious air, his feelings about you are true or he feels you are stable. Your 8th house ruler receives a sextile from Mercury and.... Pluto. Imo, that's still pretty deep. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 15, 2013 05:19 PM
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I think that he thinks you're pretty. When someone's planets fall in my 2nd house somewhere... on a physical level, they appeal to me.His Moon is square your inner planets. He has to feel some type of way about you. There's a push pull dynamic, because while his Cap Moon is refined, your Aries is dynamic and forward. That can have a certain effect on him, can't say if it is negative or positive though. As for everyone else saying there is a lack of romantic stuff, meh. If Venus does not touch Sun or Venus does not touch Mars, then you look to the 7th house ruler, 8th house and 5th house. In this case his Sun is opposite your 7th house ruler, which also happens to be the ruling planet of his Sun. I think he represents an ideal boyfriend for you, or partnership. Your 5th house ruler Venus receives a trine from his Saturn, I think. This is not bad. This means he brings a more serious air, his feelings about you are true or he feels you are stable. Your 8th house ruler receives a sextile from Mercury and.... Pluto. Imo, that's still pretty deep.
He does bring a more serious air! You're right. I like everything you wrote lol. It's nice and hearts and flowery, haha. Also, he does represent an ideal boyfriend for me however I don't think I'm his ideal for a girlfriend. I do know he thinks I'm pretty/cute though. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted February 15, 2013 07:05 PM
Hanna check out the soulmate thread, I just did ya reading  .Hope it proves useful and relatively accurate eventually aye. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 15, 2013 08:37 PM
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Hanna check out the soulmate thread, I just did ya reading .Hope it proves useful and relatively accurate eventually aye.
Thank you - I saw it!  Speaking of the synastry though - how do we affect each other in general? And why are we sometimes on the same page and sometimes not? Are there aspects indicating we bring some kind of relief to one another? IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
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posted February 15, 2013 09:07 PM
^I can try and answer the last two questions. Your Mercury seems well aspected, which is good. Aside from the sextile from your Saturn/Neptune, which is also beneficial, your Sun and Mars inconjuncts his Mercury. This can point to marked differences in communication. Sometimes something one of you might say could go over the other's head. It could simply mean that your interests are different. Sun is your 3rd house ruler and Mars is your 11th house ruler, so yes I think sometimes there is miscommunications or you might like or be interested in different subjects. Your Aries stellium on his Jupiter is the comforter here. He is very inspirational to you. And you are to him. So while you may not always sync in interests, you two are comfortable with each other (on an energy/spirit level). Oh snap, I just realized his 7th house ruler and your 7th house ruler are in aspect!! That's actually very good. I think to ask how you affect each other mutually is a big, broad question. Or maybe I am just dense.  I also feel like that could be more accurately answered with a composite, but I'm not sure if it is too soon for a composite. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 15, 2013 09:47 PM
We've been talking for a month. For me personally, it feels like we are growing close but he has that Capricorn moon and what else so he could just now be warming up. He kind of ended our conversation tonight on a weird note...I want to explain it but don't want to sound tedious. What not-so-great aspects are there? Yes, you're right we definitely have different interests!! I mean his interests seem so off the wall to me and they don't have anything to do with one another, so it's hard getting a handle on what he likes. IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
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posted February 15, 2013 10:16 PM
You could never come off tedious. At least not to me. But explain only if you wish.Mars opposite Saturn is somewhat problematic, but it is his 12th house ruler and your 11th house ruler. That's hard for me to interpret, but it doesn't speak of abuse romantically. You don't have to worry about him abusing you, which is a Mars-Saturn issue in some romantic relationships. However, this is an aspect to pay attention to as your relationship unfurls. I think you'd have to find out how it affects you before I say anything wrong. Moon opposite Pluto is very potent, and I'd just be concerned about intense, obsessive feelings and power struggles. It's not an aspect of coldness though. at most there might be an intermittent type feeling from his side. Not looking hard enough maybe, but I see nothing that stands out in terms of "bad" aspects in the synastry. IP: Logged |
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posted February 15, 2013 11:33 PM
I've also noticed NN conj Juno, might manifest itself as a good dynamic in marriageIP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 16, 2013 12:32 AM
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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
You could never come off tedious. At least not to me. But explain only if you wish.Mars opposite Saturn is somewhat problematic, but it is his 12th house ruler and your 11th house ruler. That's hard for me to interpret, but it doesn't speak of abuse romantically. You don't have to worry about him abusing you, which is a Mars-Saturn issue in some romantic relationships. However, this is an aspect to pay attention to as your relationship unfurls. I think you'd have to find out how it affects you before I say anything wrong. Moon opposite Pluto is very potent, and I'd just be concerned about intense, obsessive feelings and power struggles. It's not an aspect of coldness though. at most there might be an intermittent type feeling from his side. Not looking hard enough maybe, but I see nothing that stands out in terms of "bad" aspects in the synastry.
Sometimes we have long conversations and sometimes we don't. We keep in touch every day though. Today he was kind of opening up and then it's like he got embarrassed (but you know he's a guy so he's not going to say that) and just cut it short in a weird way. No matter who I'm texting, if they don't want to text anymore then they simply don't text back. Cool. Today he said something (during our convo), then I didn't reply and he goes "Sigh." which usually means he has something on his mind. So I said I was listening, then he said "Naw, I'm good. I think ima go though. You have a good night" I said "Mkay." And he goes "K bye." and I thought he was being playful, so I said "Lol GOOOO. You have a good night too." and he just says "Yep."
What?
WHO ENDS A CONVERSATION THAT WAY! IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
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posted February 16, 2013 01:07 AM
Ohhh. Well I've experienced that from Sag men too. I think it's just something they do. Mr. play it cool, I guess. Honestly, most Sag men I know will walk off mid-conversation if distracted or disinterested, so at least it is not that bad. However, it is not unusual for them to communicate in a vague or awkward kind of way. I'm not excusing his behavior at all, just don't think you did anything wrong or anything, it's really just him.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 16, 2013 01:46 AM
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Ohhh. Well I've experienced that from Sag men too. I think it's just something they do. Mr. play it cool, I guess. Honestly, most Sag men I know will walk off mid-conversation if distracted or disinterested, so at least it is not that bad. However, it is not unusual for them to communicate in a vague or awkward kind of way. I'm not excusing his behavior at all, just don't think you did anything wrong or anything, it's really just him.
That's the first time he ever ended it that way though. He was in an emo mood. Speaking of, Sags are flirts huh?! How do you know they actually LIKE you and aren't flirting for the sake of it? IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
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posted February 16, 2013 03:48 PM
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That's the first time he ever ended it that way though. He was in an emo mood. Speaking of, Sags are flirts huh?! How do you know they actually LIKE you and aren't flirting for the sake of it?
Oh yes, Capricorn-influenced Sags have gloomy moods from time to time... He has Moon/Venus there, right? You did the right thing by just letting him kinda sulk off. In my experience if you pressure them to open up they get p!ssy or just brush it off. Sometimes they are flirts, other times they are just really interested in people and their interest can look like flirtation. How to know when they ACTUALLY like you? When they pick on you, lol. They will also give very sincere and sweet compliments, but mostly just play with you. I think it will be obvious when they like you a lot, though. Fire signs love to pursue so he may do so, his Capricorn may wait it out however.
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posted February 16, 2013 04:00 PM
Hello.Long term he is only interested in you as a friend as your dsc falls on his 11th house. His venus and mars are in detriment in both cap and libra. your saturn conjuncts his venus which gives you the impression that he is careful and reliable in love affairs. Even if he was to make a move it would be too slow, shy and self conscious for your liking for you natal sun, venus and mercury in aries. Your moon in his venus triplicity makes it "easy" feeling of emotional commonalities. For example like stablity and wanting to ground yourselves. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 16, 2013 04:45 PM
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Hello.Long term he is only interested in you as a friend as your dsc falls on his 11th house. His venus and mars are in detriment in both cap and libra. your saturn conjuncts his venus which gives you the impression that he is careful and reliable in love affairs. Even if he was to make a move it would be too slow, shy and self conscious for your liking for you natal sun, venus and mercury in aries. Your moon in his venus triplicity makes it "easy" feeling of emotional commonalities. For example like stablity and wanting to ground yourselves.
You could be right. His energy reminds me of a couple of significant friends I have. Even though I'm attracted to him, I think I'd be okay with friends. I'm not a mover/shaker Aries though, I'm one of the calmer ones. So slow and shy might work for me as long as it's obvious - unless that's what you meant in that it won't be? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 16, 2013 04:55 PM
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Oh yes, Capricorn-influenced Sags have gloomy moods from time to time... He has Moon/Venus there, right? You did the right thing by just letting him kinda sulk off. In my experience if you pressure them to open up they get p!ssy or just brush it off. Sometimes they are flirts, other times they are just really interested in people and their interest can look like flirtation. How to know when they ACTUALLY like you? When they pick on you, lol. They will also give very sincere and sweet compliments, but mostly just play with you. I think it will be obvious when they like you a lot, though. Fire signs love to pursue so he may do so, his Capricorn may wait it out however.
Meh... I feel kinda down about it. We're friends, you know but I'm more attracted to him than him to me I think. He doesn't pick on me...he's always like "tell me something about you!" Lol. I guess 'cause he can't find out what he wants to know through creeping. Yeah he has Moon in Capricorn, Venus in Sag but I agree! I had a Sag sun, Capricorn moon female boss and not only was she crazy but she was THE MOST depressing, mental person I've ever been around. Openly saying she wanted to die, wanted to be run over, die in her sleep, I mean it was awful. Ironically she adopted her son who's an Aquarius sun, Cancer moon so it's like they're astrologically parallel. He's not that severe though. Nor am I saying "Ah yes ALL Sag/Capricorns are like this."
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northvirgo
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posted February 16, 2013 04:57 PM
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You could be right. His energy reminds me of a couple of significant friends I have. Even though I'm attracted to him, I think I'd be okay with friends. I'm not a mover/shaker Aries though, I'm one of the calmer ones. So slow and shy might work for me as long as it's obvious - unless that's what you meant in that it won't be?
Ah yes, your moon is exalted in Taurus and your natal ars is detriment in the hidden house of sorrows and undoing in gemini, I would still stand by that you need to get excited butterflies in your stomach kinda deal with a man who is more forthcoming to get your own energy moving. Essentially he doesnt give you that extra needed "caffeine" jolt. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 16, 2013 05:30 PM
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Ah yes, your moon is exalted in Taurus and your natal ars is detriment in the hidden house of sorrows and undoing in gemini, I would still stand by that you need to get excited butterflies in your stomach kinda deal with a man who is more forthcoming to get your own energy moving. Essentially he doesnt give you that extra needed "caffeine" jolt.
Maybe so. Does he really have Mars in Libra? I thought it was in Scorpio all this time. I don't know his real birth time so the houses could be off. IP: Logged |
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posted February 16, 2013 05:36 PM
Me thinks you are right, but in early degress of scorpio is has not gathered enough power to manifest scorpios true sway.IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
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posted February 16, 2013 05:40 PM
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Me thinks you are right, but in early degress of scorpio is has not gathered enough power to manifest scorpios true sway.
Interesting you should say this...
And also Hanna I apologize for taking focus from your thread, I just had a side question for northvirgo.
Would you say the same for one who has Sun in Leo at 0 degrees or Moon in Aries at 29 degrees? I would ask you to see my natal chart (on a separate thread) and help but do not want to impose. Thank you. IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
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posted February 16, 2013 05:45 PM
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Meh... I feel kinda down about it. We're friends, you know but I'm more attracted to him than him to me I think. He doesn't pick on me...he's always like "tell me something about you!" Lol. I guess 'cause he can't find out what he wants to know through creeping. Yeah he has Moon in Capricorn, Venus in Sag but I agree! I had a Sag sun, Capricorn moon female boss and not only was she crazy but she was THE MOST depressing, mental person I've ever been around. Openly saying she wanted to die, wanted to be run over, die in her sleep, I mean it was awful. Ironically she adopted her son who's an Aquarius sun, Cancer moon so it's like they're astrologically parallel. He's not that severe though. Nor am I saying "Ah yes ALL Sag/Capricorns are like this."
He doesn't pick on you? Oh. I guess that just must have been the Sag men I've run into. They would always make fun of something I said, height, etc but turn around and say sappy stuff. Maybe your Sag is a bit different, I do find it to be a start that he is curious about you and seems to like to chat. I only say not to pressure them because Sags mostly like things on their terms, like giving affection or talking, but he could be different. Your boss sounds.... interesting. :| I've found Sags can either be happy go lucky or... woe is me, but I think they only get that way when they aren't allowed a certain amount of freedom and such. IP: Logged |
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