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Topic: Soon will be my birthday! Solar Return!!!
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strongwoman
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posted March 17, 2013 09:00 AM
  
Hello,Soon it will be my birthday I'm wondering about my solar return 2013/2014 year. At the moment I don't have a job but I'm thinking to go to live abroad to Norway. I have a boyfriend in Norway, he wants a baby. How it will be with the carrer? Will I get married? Will I have a baby? Is it the wright time to move abroad to Norway? The solar return chart is here:
http://i1309.photobucket.com/albums/s636/mergyte666/SR2013jpg_zpse1cd4597.jpg I need some answers. Could someone help me? Thank you in advance. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted March 17, 2013 10:01 AM
Happy upcoming Birthday! 
I think it's a good year for you to find a job and move out!
work = 6th house = Pluto in there
career = 10th house = a whole stellium there! Sun, Venus, Mars and Uranus.. whoa, I think you'll get a career boost!
and moving abroad = 9th house = Neptune & Mercury there - Neptune = sea, maybe you'll have to cross an ocean or a sea to get there (well if it's Norway, sounds plausible  ) and of course Mercury = movement.
Natally, Venus rules both your 6th and 10th houses, and in SR chart she's in your 10th, conjunct your Sun.. I think this year your identity (Sun) will be tightly tied to your job/career (Venus)! Looks good to me. 
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 17, 2013 10:06 AM
Oh and about the baby.. could be, SR Saturn in the 5th conjunct natal Jupiter. And Venus rules your 5th house of children, too.. It's on your natal IC.. family? Creating a family? Time will tell!IP: Logged |
strongwoman
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posted March 17, 2013 10:14 AM
Thank you very much!!! I'm glad you answer me And what about my private life? I tried to find some information on internet about solar return. I found out that it's not good that Saturn in the 5th house of SR it could be difficult to get pregnant or I could loose a baby  Is it right? And I'm thinking about marriage. Also I found on internet that stellium in the 10th house could be status quo changed did I understood wright? quote:
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Happy upcoming Birthday!
I think it's a good year for you to find a job and move out!
work = 6th house = Pluto in there
career = 10th house = a whole stellium there! Sun, Venus, Mars and Uranus.. whoa, I think you'll get a career boost!
and moving abroad = 9th house = Neptune & Mercury there - Neptune = sea, maybe you'll have to cross an ocean or a sea to get there (well if it's Norway, sounds plausible ) and of course Mercury = movement.
Natally, Venus rules both your 6th and 10th houses, and in SR chart she's in your 10th, conjunct your Sun.. I think this year your identity (Sun) will be tightly tied to your job/career (Venus)! Looks good to me.
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 17, 2013 10:21 AM
Well, it's hard to tell, because the same placement can manifest in various ways.
Saturn in the 5th could simply mean that you won't have much time to have fun this year (you may be too busy working, for example) or it could mean that more responsibility is on the way for 5th house matters - and that involves children.. so who knows, it may be the year you give birth to a baby. Or it may be the year you're so focused on your job that you won't have time/desire to make a baby.Oh and please! Don't take everything you read on the internet at face value. There are so many different interpretations possible, just because one of them is negative doesn't mean it's going to happen to you.
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strongwoman
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posted March 17, 2013 10:29 AM
I understand that but I tried to get some information and one was possitive the other negative. I'm very interested in astrology and trying to know how it works on me personal What about marriage? If the 10th house is responsible for social status ans thius year I will have stellium in the 10th house. Does it mean that there is possibility to get married?
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Well, it's hard to tell, because the same placement can manifest in various ways.
Saturn in the 5th could simply mean that you won't have much time to have fun this year (you may be too busy working, for example) or it could mean that more responsibility is on the way for 5th house matters - and that involves children.. so who knows, it may be the year you give birth to a baby. Or it may be the year you're so focused on your job that you won't have time/desire to make a baby.Oh and please! Don't take everything you read on the internet at face value. There are so many different interpretations possible, just because one of them is negative doesn't mean it's going to happen to you.
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 17, 2013 10:34 AM
Gosh, I probably should have told you that I'm not a professional and this is all just hypothesis.But your SR Jupiter falls in your natal 7th house, the house of close relationships and marriage. And considering that Jupiter is your ASC ruler, I'd say personal relationships are a main focus for you this year. Whether it'll lead to marriage or not, I cannot say.. Maybe someone else will chime in and share their thoughts with us, tee hee. IP: Logged |
strongwoman
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posted March 17, 2013 10:57 AM
Anyway I'm very thankful to you
Here is my boyfriend solar for 2013:
http://i1309.photobucket.com/albums/s636/mergyte666/SR2013NOR_zps31fff78e.jpg I could see his SR moon conjunct natal Jupiter. I found out that there is big posibility to be a father. I'm I wright? quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Gosh, I probably should have told you that I'm not a professional and this is all just hypothesis.But your SR Jupiter falls in your natal 7th house, the house of close relationships and marriage. And considering that Jupiter is your ASC ruler, I'd say personal relationships are a main focus for you this year. Whether it'll lead to marriage or not, I cannot say.. Maybe someone else will chime in and share their thoughts with us, tee hee.
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lalalinda
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posted March 17, 2013 11:32 AM
Hello strongwoman! Welcome to LL  happy birthday  ------------------
"For all those who believe, expect a miracle.”
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strongwoman
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posted March 17, 2013 11:37 AM
Thank you very much!!! Glad you answered to me. I'm so glad.What could you say about my solar return? I'm trying to get the answers to my questions quote:
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Hello strongwoman! Welcome to LL happy birthday
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 17, 2013 12:08 PM
You're welcome!
I've never heard about SR Moon conjunct natal Jupiter possibly making someone a father, but could be.
I do notice that he has Uranus in the 5th natally and in his SR Uranus is also in the 5th. Usually it points to an "accidental" conception of a child. I think there is potential in both your charts for conception: your SR North Node is in the 5th house and your natal 4th house and 5th house rulers are widely conjunct in the SR chart, possibly pointing to a pregnancy; and his SR 4th and 5th houses have planets in them, meaning family and children could be of a strong interest for him this year. Hope this helps.
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strongwoman
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posted March 17, 2013 12:28 PM
Thank you very much for the answer it helps me very much Anyway I have so much questions Very interesting:"he has Uranus in the 5th nataly and in his SR Uranus is also in the 5th. Usually it points to an "accidental" conception of a child".Does it mean that he could have a baby with any wowan? As far as we know that man could have many women at the same time I'm just interesting. Because there is a big posibility that he could have a baby not only with me Jusl like a assumption QUOTE]Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
You're welcome!
I've never heard about SR Moon conjunct natal Jupiter possibly making someone a father, but could be.
I do notice that he has Uranus in the 5th natally and in his SR Uranus is also in the 5th. Usually it points to an "accidental" conception of a child. I think there is potential in both your charts for conception: your SR North Node is in the 5th house and your natal 4th house and 5th house rulers are widely conjunct in the SR chart, possibly pointing to a pregnancy; and his SR 4th and 5th houses have planets in them, meaning family and children could be of a strong interest for him this year. Hope this helps. [/QUOTE]
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 17, 2013 12:36 PM
Oh gosh, well, I hope not
Maybe it's like.. he didn't plan on it, but it happened. I haven't actually thought about it happening with another woman than you. Are you guys together officially? He does have Venus in 12th natally which could point to secret affairs but fortunately not everyone will behave the same way. And Mars in Cancer + Moon in the 7th would make someone quite loyal, in my experience at least!
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strongwoman
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posted March 17, 2013 12:43 PM
That's what I mean That he could have secret affairs. He's a pilot and he's travel a lot. We are not together officially yet what's why asked will I get married this year? Because he wants so much a baby and I don't want to have a baby not in a marriage. I'm affraid that he could have a baby not only with me quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Oh gosh, well, I hope not
Maybe it's like.. he didn't plan on it, but it happened. I haven't actually thought about it happening with another woman than you. Are you guys together officially? He does have Venus in 12th natally which could point to secret affairs but fortunately not everyone will behave the same way. And Mars in Cancer + Moon in the 7th would make someone quite loyal, in my experience at least!
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 17, 2013 12:47 PM
Oh dear, if that ever happens, dump his a$$ and don't look back! If he doesn't want to marry you, then don't give him a child. That would be nonsense. IF that is what you want! You deserve commitment! So, no matter what the stars say.. insist on your right to be treated well, okay? Good luck to you, girl!IP: Logged |
strongwoman
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posted March 17, 2013 01:06 PM
It was the worst scenery what could happened. But I'm positive I think he loves me and I love him. So everything will be ok What do you think about our composite chart?
http://i1309.photobucket.com/albums/s636/mergyte666/Synastry_zpsaec5374b.jpg quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Oh dear, if that ever happens, dump his a$$ and don't look back! If he doesn't want to marry you, then don't give him a child. That would be nonsense. IF that is what you want! You deserve commitment! So, no matter what the stars say.. insist on your right to be treated well, okay? Good luck to you, girl!
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 17, 2013 01:16 PM
It looks quite good, the only thing that can be bothersome is Sun opposite Uranus, which can mean an unstable relationship or with many ups and downs, but actually in your case it probably means a relationship where a lot of freedom is required (he travels a lot, you can't see each other very often, for example) so it's kind of an unpredictable energy.The other thing is Mars square Neptune, which could mean that one or both of you are hiding things from the other or acts without the other's knowing/permission. I wouldn't say it necessarily means cheating but that's a possibility. Also, with Moon in 12th, feelings can be kept unexpressed or hard to express, so try your best to talk about how you feel and express your needs/desires. Mercury/Venus in the 1st and Sun in the 2nd are good for the sense of "togetherness", and Mars and Vertex on the DSC would make you want to put your energy on being together and creating a relationship. Careful not to make promises you can't deliver though (Jupiter afflicted) cause you're bound to get too excited about something and then feel let down. Take it slowly and act reasonably, that's my advice.
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strongwoman
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posted March 17, 2013 01:39 PM
Thank you for your advance 
Actually I don't like uranus in all my relationships it was a barrier for long term relationship Here is our synastry:
http://i1309.photobucket.com/albums/s636/mergyte666/SynastryKS_zpsecf3bb63.jpg Again moon conjunct Uranus, Uranus opposite Sun. I don't like these aspects! quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
It looks quite good, the only thing that can be bothersome is Sun opposite Uranus, which can mean an unstable relationship or with many ups and downs, but actually in your case it probably means a relationship where a lot of freedom is required (he travels a lot, you can't see each other very often, for example) so it's kind of an unpredictable energy.The other thing is Mars square Neptune, which could mean that one or both of you are hiding things from the other or acts without the other's knowing/permission. I wouldn't say it necessarily means cheating but that's a possibility. Also, with Moon in 12th, feelings can be kept unexpressed or hard to express, so try your best to talk about how you feel and express your needs/desires. Mercury/Venus in the 1st and Sun in the 2nd are good for the sense of "togetherness", and Mars and Vertex on the DSC would make you want to put your energy on being together and creating a relationship. Careful not to make promises you can't deliver though (Jupiter afflicted) cause you're bound to get too excited about something and then feel let down. Take it slowly and act reasonably, that's my advice.
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 17, 2013 03:22 PM
I agree with you, Uranus prominent in relationships usually means they won't be stable or long-term. And you guys have some Mars/Saturn afflictions which can lead to frustration/anger in the couple. Some of your planets fall in his (huge) 12th house, he may want to keep your relationship secret.. or take advantage of you, so be careful! Of course I don't know what is going on between you so it may mean something else completely, like a strong psychic connection and deep emotions.His Moon on your ASC conjuncts your Uranus and squares his own Pluto, so I'm thinking his emotions/feelings have a great impact on you and your self-esteem. Be careful not to become too overwhelmed with the way he makes you feel. Anyways, if something doesn't feel right, trust your guts and follow your intuition. It will help you make the right decision. ~ IP: Logged |
strongwoman
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posted March 17, 2013 03:48 PM
My intuition is saying that's something is wrong with my relationship. With the help of astrology I'm trying to get answers what's wrong. I think he is unfaithful to me or has other woman somewhere in other country. Does his sun, venus, mercury, chiron in the 12th house makes him unfaithful? He said he's affraid to fall in love. For me it's very strange because he wants a baby very much. And why he's affraid to get married? His MC in Capricorn and saturn here. quote:
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I agree with you, Uranus prominent in relationships usually means they won't be stable or long-term. And you guys have some Mars/Saturn afflictions which can lead to frustration/anger in the couple. Some of your planets fall in his (huge) 12th house, he may want to keep your relationship secret.. or take advantage of you, so be careful! Of course I don't know what is going on between you so it may mean something else completely, like a strong psychic connection and deep emotions.His Moon on your ASC conjuncts your Uranus and squares his own Pluto, so I'm thinking his emotions/feelings have a great impact on you and your self-esteem. Be careful not to become too overwhelmed with the way he makes you feel. Anyways, if something doesn't feel right, trust your guts and follow your intuition. It will help you make the right decision. ~
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 17, 2013 04:54 PM
12th house is definitely not very good for honesty and faithfulness especially since he told you that he is afraid of falling in love. Darling, you should find yourself a guy who's not afraid of loving and who can be there for you. Not a commitment-phobic guy who probably cheats on you (trust female intuition..). Just do what's best for YOU. Take care of yourself, everything else doesn't matter.IP: Logged |
strongwoman
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posted March 17, 2013 05:06 PM
Thank you for your honest answer I really appreciate that. You know I have Venus trine Saturn natally and he is 21 years older than me (all my exboyfriends were older than me. I thought finally I found my MAN but it looks NOT... I'm and I was faithfull in all my relationships but all my boyfriends were not... Very strange.Here is my natal chart: http://i1309.photobucket.com/albums/s636/mergyte666/natal_zps38163474.jpg quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
12th house is definitely not very good for honesty and faithfulness especially since he told you that he is afraid of falling in love. Darling, you should find yourself a guy who's not afraid of loving and who can be there for you. Not a commitment-phobic guy who probably cheats on you (trust female intuition..). Just do what's best for YOU. Take care of yourself, everything else doesn't matter.
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posted March 17, 2013 06:42 PM
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strongwoman
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posted March 20, 2013 08:37 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
12th house is definitely not very good for honesty and faithfulness especially since he told you that he is afraid of falling in love. Darling, you should find yourself a guy who's not afraid of loving and who can be there for you. Not a commitment-phobic guy who probably cheats on you (trust female intuition..). Just do what's best for YOU. Take care of yourself, everything else doesn't matter.
I just wanted say yesterday we broke up. He said we could be only good friends. I'm too perfect woman to him. He's afraid that I will leave him because of the other man. Afraid to fail in relationships. I think he is in love still with his previous ex-girldfriend. And I think he will never be married. Now he is in a very tough situation his sister died. I suggested to help him but he refused and end the relationship. Thank you for your help it was very valuable for me to understand my situation clearly.
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