posted March 18, 2013 08:39 AM            

^Thank you very much.

posted March 18, 2013 09:16 AM            

I did a reading with regular playing cards asking if you're wasting your time waiting for him to open up to you.

Black = No & Red = Yes

5 of Clubs: No
7 of Hearts: Yes
Queen of Spades: No
King of Diamonds: Yes
4 of Diamonds: Yes

It means "most likely, yes". These cards seem to indicate that you (Queen of Spades) will have to take the initiative with him (King of Diamonds) in order for things to work between you two. You will always have to be the more 'aggressive' one, or active. He's just that sort of stable, calm, grounded individual (King of Diamonds+4 of Diamonds). He's practical and you can definitely count on him to always be there for you, but you want the romance & emotions (7 of Hearts+Queen of Spades), while he's more somber, calm, grounded & like you mentioned, shy (King of Diamonds+4 of Diamonds). You will most likely always have to be the one to initiate the 'romance' side of the relationship (5 of Wands+7 of Hearts). So yes, it seems that things will not change in that sense, but he's really into you. The Queen of Spades & King of Diamonds are facing each other, so it means you two understand each other, or have the ability to. However, it clearly shows you are unhappy with the 'emotions' displayed, or the lack of affection. It seems you're thinking about breaking up with him, but he's not thinking about it at all - he's more of a practical sort of guy & doesn't openly show affections it seems with the 4 of Diamonds following him. Have you tried speaking to him about how you really feel about it? I believe he will hear you out & make an effort to try & 'fix' things, or maybe he feels 3 months is still too early in the relationship to really open up. I'm shy in the beginning of relationships usually, so I know where he's coming from. Give him some time .

I hope this helps! I don't really need a reading now, but in the future if I meet someone I will most likely want to see what you can say about it. Hopefully I can ask for one then .

Good luck, you look adorable together!

Additional information for reading..

Clubs+Hearts: Creativity, service to others & good luck
Hearts+Spades: Physical/emotional healing
Spades+Diamonds: Energy block
Diamonds+Diamonds: Great success

5+7: Activity+Improvement = You want emotions to develop faster.
7+12: Stagnation in regards to emotions
12+13: Receptivity+Action = Some sort of imbalance, you want more action he wants more 'calm'. He's taking a slower pace.
13+4: Action+Foundation = He's the type of man who likes stability, he's practical and very grounded. He's not the type to have his head up in the clouds. Very reliable & stable.

5 of Clubs+7 of Hearts: You need to, or will always be the one to have to act first in regards to emotions and feelings here. You are right, he's too shy to initiate anything, but he does like you. The 5 of Clubs indicates you can make things better if you don't mind putting the effort in regards to expressing more emotions and affections. You are confident enough to get what you want from him.
King of Diamonds+4 of Diamonds: A business man, a practical man, a man who likes a sturdy foundation & stability, practicality. It seems he wants things to become more solid + stable between you two before he can 'open up'. He's slow to act.

posted March 18, 2013 09:20 AM            

To EmpressMendez, oh my god!!! So very accurate! Girrrrrl you said you were inexperienced at this? That's spot on. Yes that is exactly how he is and he even said he wishes he were more emotional and less practical.

posted March 18, 2013 09:29 AM            

Wow, I didn't even know he was Aqua & the stellium Lunae mentioned..no wonder he's that way! Definitely, yes he's like that for sure. Aww but you two look cute together.

posted March 18, 2013 09:36 AM            

I alpreciate it so much, really do. Ask me for a reading any time!!

And i know, we do look cute together, and i do love him. Gotta do what makes me happy though. It is a basic need of mine, of my personality and my natal chart. I need that other person to be the assertive one. I feel inadequate in the role of assertive

Since we have a very tight love stellium though, we will most likely keep being friends like we have been since i brokeup with him. Yes i already did break up w/ him :/ :/
But Bc of tight LS it'd be too hard to let him go.
I want to keep him foreva
We will stay friends. I hang out at his house and starbucks lol and we text everyday, but we are friends! No cuddling no kissing. I love LStelliums for this reason! Lol

posted March 18, 2013 09:59 AM            

Emotions, love and sex in Aqua :P. Omg, my ex has Venus in Aqua they like cold girls who don't display too much affection -_-. He hates clinginess..I'm aqua rising so it isn't too hard to act aloof, but still..I have Venus in Libra..so I need more than what he offers (he is very practical though, which is something I love in a man)

And yes the stelliums in composite work like glue like you say. I remember the reading you gave me about me and my ex, and you were right we are soul mates (he had progressed venus conjunct sun and sextile jupiter among other aspects when we first got together and I had progressed venus sextile sun & others as well) We are still living together, but not too sure what's truly going to happen between us in terms of romance yet. But of course we still get along like friends, etc. I don't regret anything with him and he will always be a part of my life (especially since we have kids), but I mean it in a friend type of way as well .

posted March 18, 2013 10:16 AM            

He is very affectionate though!!!!
We were alwayyys holding hands, stroking each oters arm or hand, and almost always tried to be as close to each other as possible physically. To the point where we he'd/i'd put his/my forehead on his/my cheek chin on shoulder and we'd practically be sitting on each others lap. Im sure if we could be kissing 24/7 we would also.
He just never makes any eye contact.
Or has that much facial expression.
He is very very sweet .. Pisces, cancer rising
And has no problem with clinginess...he is clingy himself. I think big differences there b/w aqua sun and aqua in other placements.

posted March 19, 2013 10:47 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
My very best wishes for all the happiness in the world. I congratulate the guy lucky enough to win your heart, for you are a sweetheart and a true gem.

I'm sorry I have no ability to contribute.

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Your comment hit home for me. I keep coming back to it when I'm sad. He is cold and mean with me sometimes, but your comment makes me happy .