posted March 18, 2013 01:27 PM            

I've heard that Pisces and Virgo are compatible for each other, if both are willing to compromise and adjust to each other's differences. So I've known this guy for 6 months and we became exclusive 3 months ago. We're on the rocks now cause I had mental breakdown from having an abusive relationship with Scorpio guy and currently on the recovery. Plus I lost my job 2 months ago. So, please bear with me, I would wanna make this guy happy but I need to understand more about this guy and what I should do.

I've been really depressed for the last 1.5 month. But, this Virgo guy is such a sweetheart. He’s been supportive all the way , he wants to make me happy and would like to help me get through with it.

He doesn't express his feelings a lot, which is understandable. I do think he's insecure that I would go back with my ex, he often saw my phone if it rings or when a message comes in. He once picked up my phone when it rang. We’ve had deep discussions before we became exclusive 3 months ago which is happened often when he’s drunk. The second month we met, he said, "I'm afraid you're gonna dump me.". But, when he's not drunk, he often said, "I like u a lot. but I'm not in love with you.". I get confused because from his action and effort in trying to make me happy, i do feel like he is in love with me.
He took me on a trip because he knew i was depressed last month. He let me pick whatever I wanna do on my birthday. When I told him regarding my relationship with my abusive ex, i was crying because I'm scared it would happen again to me and he cried with me. I told him that he shouldn't be responsible for my depression and he said, "You are my responsibility. I wanna make you happy. I like u alot and there's a lot of things i wanna see from you.". He’s sober when he said that.

Another time (sober) he said this, "I think you're not the one i wanna spend the rest of my life with." I asked why he's still with me. He said, "because i'm hoping I would fall in love with you." So, my questions are:

1. I'm really confused about this Virgo guy. Which one should I go? The words when he's drunk or sober? Should I follow his words or actions? Maybe he's covering up his feelings? I don't understand this part. Do you think he’s in love with me but are shy to admit it?

2. He has Sun Sign 00 Deg Virgo. His birthday falls on August 23. He said he’s Leo but I think he’s very Virgo. He’s very analytical, patient, neat, tidy, organized, punctual, he worries a lot but never said anything, a bit OCD, reserved but at the same time he’s very outgoing. Do you think he’s a Leo or a Virgo because he has zero deg in his sun sign...

3. He's been quiet and doesn't talk to me often or joke with me the last time we met. But, he's talkative when we're out with his friends. Is it because of his work (he's a workaholic)? What are the signs that a virgo guy losing interest with you?

3. Do you think we are compatible for each other based on our Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Mars in our birth chart? Also, I need your guidance regarding our differences in our planets... I have the exact birth time for both.

Rising Sign: 05 Deg Cap (Me) – 02 Deg Sag (Him)
Sun: 18 Deg Pisces (Me) – 00 Deg Virgo (Him)
Moon: 11 Deg Libra (me) – 27 Deg Libra (Him)
Mercury: 03 Deg Aries (Me) – 23 Deg Virgo (Him)
Venus: 21 Deg Aries (Me) – 11 Deg Leo (Him)
Mars: 25 Deg Aries (Me) – 11 Deg Scorp (Him)