so communication in chart b is more inspired etc.. simply because they are of the same generation or are there any aspects that make it this way? the attraction as well..it is because of the same generation of is it because there are aspects that make it this way? thanks really for your help, hope to hear from you
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Originally posted by Geocosmic* Valentine:
Hello Astrolog,From my perspective, both of these synastry charts suggest that the couple could be married. When I first looked at this post I automatically assumed that you wanted to know which person would be better for you to marry, I wasn't thinking of this as a test to see if I could guess which couple was married.
Anyway, when I drew up the charts I tried to see which comparisons seemed like a better marriage and the truth is, it depends on what the person doing the choosing is really like and what they are really into.
There is one comparison that seems like it has more potential for extremely difficult tensions. There is love in both synastry charts but if Person A marries Person B in Chart A, there is greater potential for Person B to brutally depress Person A's sense of self-worth, A's finances, possessions and actions. There's also the potential of damaging deception within the relationship. Person B would seek to hide and/or seriously suppress person A.
There's no way for me to truly judge. This could be something that Person A doesn't truly mind, person A might need or want this, but that is what I see in the synastry of Chart A.
In Chart B, the couple is born in the same year. There is a generational aspect that usually suggests lots of break ups, but because they both have this aspect, they may both already be dealing with it along with the entire generation born within that 2 to 3 year period so there would be no real problem with it. I'm speaking of the Saturn-Uranus square. This usually suggests breaking away from the old to get to the new.
With the comparison in Chart B, the couple would have more in common simply because they are of the same generation. It looks like communication would be so much more inspired, exciting and innovative. There is attraction. There is still the deception and suppression possibility factor but the brutal control is not there.
Almost every marriage deals with some confusion or each person has their own secrets so not to worry. So, if it was a choice, I'd choose for the couple in Chart B to be married.