posted March 31, 2013 05:15 AM            

What is missing from Starry her current relationship? 10 of pentacles. I can see the passion is out of the relationship. It’s very safe and grounded, but it is too predictable for you. It feels too much routine.
What actions can Starry take to make this better/get the ‘oomph’ back in? Knight cups reversed – Exaggerate the qualities of your partner. Go back to that first stage when you first met her, the pink glasses phase’. That’s the energy that’s needed.
For the new girl:
What is the type of connection/contact Starry & New girl have? 3 wands reversed. Does this new girl live further away from you? Keywords that came to mind? Disruptive – instant fire felt, but perhaps short-lived – puts your world & what you have done (& lived) so far upside down.

What are the feelings between you? You feel as she can for fill everything on all levels. The feelings are warm and intense on all levels and it looks like she resonates with who you embody. So I’m not surprised you feel like she can offer you a lot. (Are you are very nurturing person? This card also popped out for you as a significator at the beginning of the reading).

What potential does this relationship have? 3 swords reversed – healing effect. Can remove ‘old pains’. Is there a ‘click’ on this level. Do you share similar old hurts?

What would be the best possible outcome of this relationship if Starry would continue the contact? 9 swords: It will give you insight in what it actually is what you are doing. Very confronting.
What overall relationship advice can the cards give Starry currently? High Priestess: She is asking you to go ‘inside’, to consult yourself and attain your inner knowledge. Perhaps you could meditate more on the ‘why’-question. This is no time to start moving or taking actions, but to think it over first.

EDIT: not sure if I made this clear enough, but the new girl potential exists mostly of swords (not so good). So I would (for now) advice against it in taking more actions. Cause I fear dissapointment & more issues rising. But you said you already decided to work on your LTR. Seems wise.
By te way: there is always free will & things change during the course of time. If it keeps playing in your mind try another reading in 3-4 weeks to see what energies are going round in your (love)life at that point.
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I kept it with my first impressions when the cards popped up & didn’t adjust it.
Please let me know how this feels for you & also if I’m of somewhere.
Bye

posted April 02, 2013 02:30 AM            

Very cool your GF knows. Wish you luck with the situation. Looking at the 9 of swords it can also be that in a few weeks time you will start thinking: What am I doing?? Why am I willing to give up my current relationship? (the confronting bit)I'm not completely sure of this though. Time frame of my reading is around 3-4 weeks.
Please keep me updated!

posted April 16, 2013 08:57 AM            

My GF and I broke up temporarily and I met the other girl. She flew in to see me last weekend. We had a great time together. I feel like I love both of them

I decided to work on things with GF and have gone back. I have not talked to other girl in 2 days and I do miss her. But the thought of hurting someone I do love and the upheaval I would cause my life- it was safer and more practical for me to stay.

I was curious if this was the best decision and wondering if I will ever cross paths again with the other girl.

posted April 21, 2013 03:31 AM            

Can you let me know how you are feeling about this now. I'll see if I can ask some more questions for you. As for if it was a 'good' or 'bad' decision: I think there is no such thing. You made the decision and regardless of it was 'good' or 'bad' it will bring you to a next level of understanding. So just rely on that process too. That will most likely bring you more insights and to new decisions.

posted May 02, 2013 10:03 AM            

Well, I am back with my GF. Still talking to other girl though. Finding it hard to stay away. Ugh. I guess my questions would be....

I can go two ways, which is the path towards the most happiness for me, with A or with K.

What are the motives of A.

What am I meant to learn with this situation.

posted May 03, 2013 12:56 PM            

Well, things have been getting better in my relationship. I actually ended things with the new girl yesterday and have a sort of renewed feeling about my relationship with my gf. We both want to work on us.

I'm not sure I understand the cards. Was the ending meaning the new girl or my relationship with girlfriend? :/