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KarkaQueen
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posted April 01, 2013 04:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My mom keeps having dreams about a man named N and me. Its alerting and dangerous dreams. Is it only built up out of her fears/ignorance or what?

I need clairfication, as we dont even think about him in the first place but those dreams keep popping up for her

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curiouswoman
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posted April 01, 2013 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
would you mind writing down the entire dream so we may help decipher it. everything you can remember about him?

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KarkaQueen
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posted April 01, 2013 08:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
would you mind writing down the entire dream so we may help decipher it. everything you can remember about him?

lol its embarassing, do you have a private email of some sort

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lotus_flower
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posted April 01, 2013 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lotus_flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Not sure if I am good at dream intepretation!!

The dream is too embarrassing to write down here??

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KarkaQueen
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posted April 01, 2013 10:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lotus_flower:

Not sure if I am good at dream intepretation!!

The dream is too embarrassing to write down here??


Yeah o_O Do you have any private, personal contact

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curiouswoman
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posted April 02, 2013 12:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
curious.woman@rocketmail.com do not quote will delete

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Twirl
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posted April 02, 2013 02:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Karka,

In general the dream symbolism will come up for the dreamer. So in this case it wouldn't be about you, but about your mum. This man in her dreams represents an aspect of her and would reflect her internal processes.
You in the dream of your mum are also a part of your mothers symbolism world. General meanings are: the dream is about her relationship with you, you represent something specific to her (a specific quality), or it represents a part of herself she should take proper care of and isn't doing (the 'bad man')
Hope this helps a bit

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KarkaQueen
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posted April 02, 2013 04:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow Twirl, thats interesting. Hmm

Curiouswoman sent

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rhia
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posted April 04, 2013 01:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rhia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry for the slow reply, I've been away.

I had a go using tarot:

What does the dream mean?

Seven Wands
High Priestess
Three Wands

The trigger for the dream seems to come from a subconscious issue she has. She is going through some internal conflict (probably not aware of it) where she feels as though everything is moving forwards and she is struggling to keep up. Things are probably fine on the surface/ in her conscious mind and I think she feels as though your home environment is loving and safe. Her focus is on doing things well on a day-to-day basis and this gives her comfort.

I am inclined to think that the issue revolves around her feeling a bit helpless because you are growing up so quickly and she can see you becoming more independent. She knew that it would happen eventually but it was always far off in the future, but it is starting to become more of a reality. I don't think she has really identified this feeling, or if so she has been ignoring it or glossing over it as something to think about when the time comes. She worries that things will change and you will need her less and be out in the big bad world with all the dangers etc that entails. You have probably had your ups and downs in the past (haven't every mother/ daughter) but you've still always been there and relied on her.

Why is she having the dream?

Six of Swords
Six of Wands
Two Pents

As above really, I think she feels as though although things haven't always been easy she has brought you up well and all in all things are quite good at the moment. This brings with it the concern about things changing - it won't be like this forever and you will go out and forge your own path in the future. These thoughts are just starting to gain momentum in her mind. She knows that it is inevitable, but she will worry about it nonetheless.

I don't think his relevance in the dreams is of him as a person, more representative of something she fears you might face or a choice you might make which she feels powerless to prevent. Change. Maybe in the dream she felt powerless to stop whatever happened between the two of you?

All in all, I think it's mainly down to her feeling powerless because she knows she can't protect you forever, and this 'attack' from him is symbolic of all the things she can't protect you against. Her subconscious is highlighting this.

I'd be interested to hear other people's interpretations

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KarkaQueen
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posted April 04, 2013 01:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow. Excellent, I'll totally tell her.

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KarkaQueen
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posted April 04, 2013 01:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BTW Rhia, I think there will be nothing bad happening between me and him, even in genral. do u agreE?

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rhia
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posted April 05, 2013 04:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rhia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
BTW Rhia, I think there will be nothing bad happening between me and him, even in genral. do u agreE?

Nah I don't think so, I think his role was symbolic rather than predictive. Never say never though!

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KarkaQueen
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posted April 05, 2013 08:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by rhia:
Nah I don't think so, I think his role was symbolic rather than predictive. Never say never though!


ok. thx

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