posted April 10, 2013 11:54 PM            

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Originally posted by KayEvans:
Oh my goodness.. this is so crazy accurate, it made my mouth fall open as I was reading it! This reading makes much more sense than the last one, although I can definitely see the similarities between them now that I've compared the two. I did actually mention something about my friends who were visiting from out of town, who are in a band..and I told him to check them out, so he knows it was a group of guys. He has trust issues, maybe what I would call a hindrance for him, due to a reoccurring theme in his past relationships. I usually avoid mentioning other guys to him so he won't get the wrong idea, but maybe that did something?
I have been thinking about giving an ultimatum regardless of how level-headed and logical I'm trying to be about it all right now (hard for me somewhat since I'm a Scorpio!). I've also been giving him his space and am trying to give him a chance to contact me.. but I'll be in the same area as him very soon, so I've decided that I will just call him then if he hasn't contacted me by that time.
I feel like I'm rambling now, but I want to give you some good feedback! Anyway, I'm glad to her that if I want it I can have it, because like you said, the heart wants what it wants.. but my intuition agrees with what you've said about being careful. You saying that resonated with me in a way that brought some thoughts to the surface that I may have been avoiding confronting. I'm a trusting person, and knowing that he isn't the most trusting person right now means that there would definitely have to be some changes in my behavior or friendships. I'm not a flirt unless I like a guy, but I'm getting a sense of more basic habits that could potentially be an issue. I don't feel like he is a controlling person, but yeah.. I'll make sure to be cautious if we end up together.
The only thing I'm a little foggy on is the final card in relation to the fool. I'm good at picking up on manipulation though, so I'll try my best to keep an eye on that. I think I will know what's going on sooner than later, so I can update you on here or privately if you're interested! Send me your email if so.

Thank you again so much for taking the time to do this! I think you have great skills and I'm happy to have been able to help you test out your new deck Lots of love and light to you, Becca!

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posted April 10, 2013 11:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
Hi Becca,

I would love to have a reading from you. Please let me know if you can fit me in and I'll post a question. Thank you.

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posted April 10, 2013 11:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I would love for you to read for me too Becca if and when that's okay for you.

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posted April 11, 2013 12:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
Becca, thank you for offering to read for those who've asked for your help here. Could you please read about me and J. He is my soulmate, but I've been told he's only in my life for a limited time!!

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Thank you very much Becca. See above.

posted April 11, 2013 02:27 AM            

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Originally posted by beccathelion:

Hi Jessica, what would you like? I might be a bit tardy in getting it to you, but I'm happy to pull some cards

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Thank you for offering, I really like how you read

I would like to ask you about my love life and the man who is in it. My initial is S

posted April 11, 2013 12:49 PM            

i would like to know what major is coming up between me and R ? the readings are showing up tower moment for us in coming future and i am not sure why would that happen . we have been in a long term relationship for years now . i hope i am not bothering you with my request. please do let me know.

posted April 12, 2013 04:49 PM            

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Originally posted by beccathelion:
hey littlecloud -- what would you like me to read?? I'm happy to do so.

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posted April 12, 2013 07:28 PM            

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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
thank you

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No problem. Hope it was even remotely accurate and sorry it took so long. I am still learning a lot about not only how to read, but how I read as well. So much fun! I appreciate you giving me the chance to experiment on you

posted April 13, 2013 01:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
Could you please read about me and J. He is my soulmate, but I've been told he's only in my life for a limited time!!

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So, the question posed was what is going on with J and Astro.

Current situation: 10 of Wands
Complimenting/conflicting factor: 8 of Wands
Root cause of situation: 10 of Swords

Relevant past: Empress
How querent feels about situation: King of Cups
Immediate present: 5 of Pentacles

How querent feels/wants to feel about self: Knight of Wands
Environment surrounding situation: 4 of Swords
Advice: Ace of Cups
Probable future outcome: Ace of Pentacles (with clarifying card of 3 of Swords (r))

So for me, this is an extremely bizarre feeling spread. I apologize in advance if stuff is off... cause this is just awkward. I even feel a little uncomfortable. Is that how you and J are right now by any chance? I think instead of their being like... two separate representations (I clearly know who's who in the spread), I sort of am wondering if you guys got bundled together. Do you spend all of your time together? Glued to the hip? Or at least does one of you let your thoughts be consumed so much by the other person, it's like... you are them? Idk. Anyway. Sorry if this is totally off.

The 10 of Wands with the 8 seems to me like somebody (I think you) is doing quite a lot to hedge bets and make sure this "loss" that's coming (represented by the 10 of Swords) is well-prepared for, if not avoided altogether. It's like the burden being "lifted" in the 10 is directly at odds with the perceived speed of 8. This is related to the 10 of Swords which is the endings/"give up" card. So it's a like a flurry of activity, maybe even that's where the weirdness is coming from. Like, we gotta be together RIGHT NOW cause it might end. And I don't mean that in a negative way, and am not trying to make a judgment call on its rightfulness or wrongness -- that's just how I am feeling it right now

In the past, the Empress suggests there was some considerable strength, poise, and balance that's perhaps missing now. A connectivity and balance. The King of Cups I think is what's making me think there's this joint... sort of joint energy to all this. The King of Cups is how you feel, but I get the sense this is J. Emotional, but calm. Rules by the heart, a people-pleaser to a degree. Loves to make people laugh. A Libra maybe? Or a lot of Libra in his chart? The reason I say I feel like the Empress' energy has fallen away is because of the 5 of Pents in the immediate present. To me, it's what's taken hold: helplessness, sadness, pain without anyone to help.

How you feel is the Knight of Wands, I think. This jives with the 10 and 8 from earlier for me. You are taking action. You are being proactive and going after what you want and making sure things are being tended to. No time for rest, which I think is another reason why this spread feels wonky to me: the environment surrounding the issue is the 4 of Swords, which is begging for rest. And not only rest, but recuperation. It's probably frustrating for you to feel like you are doing all this work, but nothing is changing? I get that sense that it's the feeling like you're chipping away at a brick wall with a spoon in regards to this issue.

The advice is the Ace of Cups: just start over. Stop worrying. Just go back to how it was when you guys met, really channel what it is that you adore about each other. Deep breaths. Hard resets. You can't worry about a future you can't predict (and things change so much, I don't think anyone really can with 100% accuracy. Not even 70%, to be honest.) Just focus on loving the hell out of J, and let everything else become secondary. As a result... the Ace of Pentacles (two Aces are awesome!!!) There will be prosperity and new beginnings, especially in regards to the self... new beginnings and prosperity that ISN'T a result of heartbreak, as represented by the 3 of Swords reversed. Lots of renewal and good will coming your way.

I think this spread is really asking for a step back. A reset. Get back to the energy of the Empress and the Ace of Cups. The fear and anxiety and "preparedness for the end," needs to be less focuses on. It's time to enjoy the moment. I don't see anything bad coming down the pike at all. I see challenges, as is the case with all Ace cards, since the represent the beginning of new cycles... but I think these are good things, and if anything, you are a set for awhile. Hope this helps, and again, sorry if it's absolutely bonkers. Lots of love.

posted April 13, 2013 01:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I would like to ask you about my love life and the man who is in it. My initial is S

If the question is too general, please do tell

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Current situation: Queen of Pentacles
Complimenting/conflicting factor: the Star
Root cause of situation: Wheel of Fortune

Relevant past: 2 of Pentacles
How querent feels about situation: Temperance
Immediate present: 3 of Wands

How querent feels/wants to feel about self: Page of Swords
Environment surrounding situation: the Tower
Advice: 9 of Swords
Probable future outcome: Queen of Wands (with clarifying card of Knight of Swords)

Alright, Jessica! Thanks so much for your patience. So the Queen here... you want a family don't you? Or are you starting to nest and really looking to settle down. Where usually I get balanced control, earth mother types, with this Queen, the way she's looking at the pentacle in her arms, near her belly... I think you are ready to make an investment in your future, and the investment is the kids, the house, etc. However, the Star crossing tells me you aren't so driven for these things (thirsty for them) that you still trust your intuition and know the value of waiting. You're really letting the Universe take the reins, and I see that with the Wheel of Fortune. You know what you want, but you aren't too strong-willed to circumvent the great goods.

The 2 of Pentacles... a decision in the past, directly related to career. However, I read pentacles as doing work on ourselves too. I think maybe this is indicative of your decision to start getting ready for a change into domesticity. Were you in business before? An accountant or something big with numbers? Anyway, you feel balanced and good about this situation: Temperance. You aren't going to rush it, and you aren't going to force anything with this man. Can I just say I'm really proud of your steadfast and maturity with all of this? I feel like I want to take advice from you on how to lead a more fulfilled and calm life. The 3 of Wands, again, just reinforces for me that you've made the decision, you've started the work, and you're planning for the future.

Here's where things get a little trickier. You feel like you are the Page of Swords right now... and he shows up when something's a little off. He's not like the Knight who goes barreling after the truth with guns ablazin'. He shows up when he feels maybe there's some deception... he feels the situation out. Even more so, the Tower is in the environment position, what's surrounding you and this man. The Page says to me you already know what I'm going to say, at least on some level: be careful. I don't know what it is; the cards of deception and players and even more detrimental actions are present... but I get pretty big warning bells with this guy. Even more with the advice card as the 9 of Swords. Where usually I would tell you to take a step back and stop worrying... here I think you need to start. Keep yourself up at night. Figure out who this guy really is and what's his endgame. There's something wrong, either with him or his finances. Maybe a guy who depletes bank accounts? I don't know. I keep getting numbers and math over and over and over. Something with money and accounts.

The outcome is the Queen of Wands with the clarifying card of Knight of Swords. I think once you start down this path of sort of heavily vetting this man, you'll start to realize you need to establish yourself strongly. Put your foot down, back away, and embrace being the Queen for awhile. Mingle. Be fun. Be free. These feelings will come back tenfold as a result of the Knight of Swords (who I mentioned earlier goes after the truth as hard as possible.) However, this could also mean that once you go after the truth, you realize that his issues aren't a problem for you, or at least not something that's a deal breaker, and you decide to stick around for a bit longer. However, this Queen is also extremely perceptive and can innately feel danger and knows how to squash it. I truly get the sense that something is going to come out, and you are going to be able to walk away... being able to find the man you are really supposed to be with sooner rather than later.

posted April 13, 2013 02:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Britannia:
hi becca
can i sit for a reading as well if you can accomodate please ?

i would like to know what major is coming up between me and R ? the readings are showing up tower moment for us in coming future and i am not sure why would that happen . we have been in a long term relationship for years now . i hope i am not bothering you with my request. please do let me know.

best
britannia

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posted April 13, 2013 02:55 PM            

I don't know if it's still possible to have a reading from you, if not it will be another time

If yes, I would like to know how things can improve between me and F (my ex). Not necesseraly in a romantic way, could be in a friendship way. People have said to me that I should reach to him. So I don't know what to expect.

Thank you.

posted April 13, 2013 05:09 PM            

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So, the question posed was what is going on with J and Astro.

Current situation: 10 of Wands
Complimenting/conflicting factor: 8 of Wands
Root cause of situation: 10 of Swords

Relevant past: Empress
How querent feels about situation: King of Cups
Immediate present: 5 of Pentacles

How querent feels/wants to feel about self: Knight of Wands
Environment surrounding situation: 4 of Swords
Advice: Ace of Cups
Probable future outcome: Ace of Pentacles (with clarifying card of 3 of Swords (r))

So for me, this is an extremely bizarre feeling spread. ..Or at least does one of you let your thoughts be consumed so much by the other person...

So it's a like a flurry of activity, maybe even that's where the weirdness is coming from. Like, we gotta be together RIGHT NOW cause it might end....

In the past, the Empress suggests there was some considerable strength, poise, and balance that's perhaps missing now. A connectivity and balance. The King of Cups I think is what's making me think there's this joint... sort of joint energy to all this. The King of Cups is how you feel, but I get the sense this is J. Emotional, but calm. Rules by the heart, a people-pleaser to a degree. Loves to make people laugh. A Libra maybe? Or a lot of Libra in his chart? The reason I say I feel like the Empress' energy has fallen away is because of the 5 of Pents in the immediate present. To me, it's what's taken hold: helplessness, sadness, pain without anyone to help.

How you feel is the Knight of Wands, I think. .... I get that sense that it's the feeling like you're chipping away at a brick wall with a spoon in regards to this issue.

The advice is the Ace of Cups: just start over. Stop worrying. Just go back to how it was when you guys met, really channel what it is that you adore about each other. Deep breaths. Hard resets. You can't worry about a future you can't predict (and things change so much, I don't think anyone really can with 100% accuracy. Not even 70%, to be honest.) Just focus on loving the hell out of J, and let everything else become secondary. As a result... the Ace of Pentacles (two Aces are awesome!!!) There will be prosperity and new beginnings, especially in regards to the self... new beginnings and prosperity that ISN'T a result of heartbreak, as represented by the 3 of Swords reversed. Lots of renewal and good will coming your way.

I think this spread is really asking for a step back. A reset. Get back to the energy of the Empress and the Ace of Cups. The fear and anxiety and "preparedness for the end," needs to be less focuses on. It's time to enjoy the moment. I don't see anything bad coming down the pike at all. I see challenges, as is the case with all Ace cards, since the represent the beginning of new cycles... but I think these are good things...,

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Thank you so much Becca. You've given a very insightful reading. I've selected bits above which really hit home. It is me who is the one putting heart and soul into this. We live in neighbouring countries and can't meet very often. I am kinda preparing myself for a break up since I've been told often that this relationship will be short lived, which of course then becomes self-fulfilling. You are absolutely spot on for pointing out that the "preparedness for the end, needs to be less focused on" .
Yes, J has an Libra Asc. You said that you get the sense that the King of Cups is J. And then you mentioned that helplessness, sadness, pain had taken hold. Is it J who is feeling the fear and sadness or is it just me? Since we have a strong telepathic link, I could in fact, be communicating that to him.

posted April 13, 2013 08:07 PM            

Have you the time to read for a newb here? I'd appreciate it!

If you have, should I continue paying no mind and being neutral to MRW? He. is. confusing. I'm at a loss how to interact with him when he comes up to me... I've observed inconsistencies. And, anything with BM? I'm trying to open myself, vibe with others (gender regardless), to form quality friendships.

My initials are GG.

posted April 14, 2013 02:36 AM            

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Current situation: Queen of Pentacles
Complimenting/conflicting factor: the Star
Root cause of situation: Wheel of Fortune

Relevant past: 2 of Pentacles
How querent feels about situation: Temperance
Immediate present: 3 of Wands

How querent feels/wants to feel about self: Page of Swords
Environment surrounding situation: the Tower
Advice: 9 of Swords
Probable future outcome: Queen of Wands (with clarifying card of Knight of Swords)

Alright, Jessica! Thanks so much for your patience. So the Queen here... you want a family don't you? Or are you starting to nest and really looking to settle down. Where usually I get balanced control, earth mother types, with this Queen, the way she's looking at the pentacle in her arms, near her belly... I think you are ready to make an investment in your future, and the investment is the kids, the house, etc. However, the Star crossing tells me you aren't so driven for these things (thirsty for them) that you still trust your intuition and know the value of waiting. You're really letting the Universe take the reins, and I see that with the Wheel of Fortune. You know what you want, but you aren't too strong-willed to circumvent the great goods.

The 2 of Pentacles... a decision in the past, directly related to career. However, I read pentacles as doing work on ourselves too. I think maybe this is indicative of your decision to start getting ready for a change into domesticity. Were you in business before? An accountant or something big with numbers? Anyway, you feel balanced and good about this situation: Temperance. You aren't going to rush it, and you aren't going to force anything with this man. Can I just say I'm really proud of your steadfast and maturity with all of this? I feel like I want to take advice from you on how to lead a more fulfilled and calm life. The 3 of Wands, again, just reinforces for me that you've made the decision, you've started the work, and you're planning for the future.

Here's where things get a little trickier. You feel like you are the Page of Swords right now... and he shows up when something's a little off. He's not like the Knight who goes barreling after the truth with guns ablazin'. He shows up when he feels maybe there's some deception... he feels the situation out. Even more so, the Tower is in the environment position, what's surrounding you and this man. The Page says to me you already know what I'm going to say, at least on some level: be careful. I don't know what it is; the cards of deception and players and even more detrimental actions are present... but I get pretty big warning bells with this guy. Even more with the advice card as the 9 of Swords. Where usually I would tell you to take a step back and stop worrying... here I think you need to start. Keep yourself up at night. Figure out who this guy really is and what's his endgame. There's something wrong, either with him or his finances. Maybe a guy who depletes bank accounts? I don't know. I keep getting numbers and math over and over and over. Something with money and accounts.

The outcome is the Queen of Wands with the clarifying card of Knight of Swords. I think once you start down this path of sort of heavily vetting this man, you'll start to realize you need to establish yourself strongly. Put your foot down, back away, and embrace being the Queen for awhile. Mingle. Be fun. Be free. These feelings will come back tenfold as a result of the Knight of Swords (who I mentioned earlier goes after the truth as hard as possible.) However, this could also mean that once you go after the truth, you realize that his issues aren't a problem for you, or at least not something that's a deal breaker, and you decide to stick around for a bit longer. However, this Queen is also extremely perceptive and can innately feel danger and knows how to squash it. I truly get the sense that something is going to come out, and you are going to be able to walk away... being able to find the man you are really supposed to be with sooner rather than later.

Sorry to be so negative, but I get an extremely clear "be careful" with this. And it's not the kind of sweet chiding that comes from a mom, it's a thunderclap kind of "watch out." In the end, we all have the choice, and this is not a "no go" by any means, but it definitely is a flag to take note of as you move forward. Anyway, I hope this helps at all. Lots of love, and if I can do anything else for you, please let me know

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Thank you so much Becca!

Yes, I do want a family,and yes,I'm not the type to rush into anything if my intuition is telling not to go for it. You are spot on.

As for the second part of your reading, I believe you've picked up the time when I wasn't settle financially in my life. Now am definitely more comfortable in my skin. You are also spot on that I'm not the type to force anything on this guy. Thank you for the compliment (''Can I just say I'm really proud of your steadfast and maturity with all of this? I feel like I want to take advice from you on how to lead a more fulfilled and calm life.'') Anytime Becca

The third part of the reading doesn't resonate with the current situation TBH
I believe you picked up on someone I thought was gone.'' I keep getting numbers and math over and over and over. Something with money and accounts. '' He is a banker, that explains it TBH with you, every time I request a general reading with any tarot reader or psychic, he pops up in the reading as the man in my life. My intuition also tell me he is around.The reason I asked you about the man in my life was I wanted to see if you pick it up too.He is someone who has serious issues communicating his feelings.I have a strong feeling he's been hurt in the past and I came into his life as something he didn't expect.

However the last part of the reading,the outcome, resonates well with the situation.You are right, his issues are not mine, that's why I decided to stand still letting the universe to step in to take the reins.I do not consider this reading negative at all Becca! I would say, despite the complexity of my situation you got the essence of it pretty much right!