posted April 06, 2013 08:28 AM            

Anyway, so I decided to do a reading about M & see our potential to be together either this, or next month. My question is focused on that. I believe this is spot on. I love this spread..

Current situation – 10 of Swords rx = We aren't talking at all.

How you see M – King of Pentacles rx (yes he is obsessive and possessive, very sexual maybe too much) = Of course I am attracted to him. I see him as the type that I want to be with for a long time, but he's ungrounded and unreliable. At times I feel that he just doesn't know what he wants, but I contribute to that (too personal to explain).

Your hopes for the relationship – 6 of Pentacles rx = I hope that he gives more, shares more of his time, overall communicate more (briefly explaining things no time for full on interpretation, lol)

What may be holding you back from pursuing the relationship – 9 of Swords rx = Fear, anxiety, insecurity

How M sees you – Queen of Wands

M's hopes for the relationship – 2 of Swords (I hate this card) = To make a rational decision.

What may be holding M back from pursuing the relationship – Lovers rx = He has a girlfriend, duhh :3 [yes, he told me]

What is the future potential for the relationship – Queen of Pentacles rx = This makes me feel like I'll always be the mistress, or that his ex will always linger. You know?

How to facilitate the best outcomes – 10 of Cups = This I'm not sure what is trying to tell me. What is it to keep him close as 'family'? I can't really deal with that! LOL. We'll end up arguing, and I'm so jealous..ugh..I can't..=( OR maybe just focus on my OWN family.

The reason he got a girlfriend is because he thinks I'm still not over my ex, and since we live together, plus I won't meet him in real life..all of that plus other things is what caused us to be this way. I just wanted to show you guys how Lovers always shows up when there is another person in the querent and/or quesitor's life. It shows up reversed, upright..same meaning for me..

posted April 06, 2013 09:24 AM            

Make sure this is someone that is already around you. Not someone from your past, or that is distant from you and that you truly know likes you back..

posted April 06, 2013 12:44 PM            

If that doesn't quite fit, then I'm fine with you doing a reading for someone else instead. Just thought I'd ask!

posted April 07, 2013 05:07 AM            

I have known him for about six months. We hit it off immediately in a way I've never felt before and we have admitted we both have feelings for each other. Because of past issues & external circumstances he doesn't want to get involved. He is like a rabbit in headlights with any sort of emotional stuff and completely shuts off into self-protect mode and tells himself that he doesn't need anyone and he's better off on his own etc etc so I'm certain they'll say that he wants nothing from the relationship. We're just friends now.

I think a reading would be all doom and gloom at the moment, but I have faith that all will work out. I think it might be months in coming rather than 'on the cards' now, so to speak! They will probably tell me to give up and move on but I'm too stubborn. I'd be interested to have your take though!

posted April 07, 2013 05:28 PM            

Current situation – 10 of Swords: Are you guys still talking?

How you see M – 10 of Wands: Maybe you see him as someone that is struggling

Your hopes for the relationship – 9 of Wands rx: You hope for walls to be torn. No fear or defensive stance. You hope that he doesn't hurt you, or you want to be able to trust him

What may be holding you back from pursuing the relationship – Death rx: There's something from the past you're maybe not letting go

How M sees you – Queen of Pentacles rx (I love how a court card always pops up here )

M's hopes for the relationship – 4 of Swords rx: He hopes to heal from past hurts. Did he do something to hurt u in the past or vice versa?

What may be holding M back from pursuing the relationship – 8 of Swords: He feels mentally trapped. He may be a little insecure, or maybe he just doesn't want to feel trapped in a relationship. Pessimism

What is the future potential for the relationship – 3 of Wands: Does he live at a distance from u?

How to facilitate the best outcomes – 6 of Pentacles: Sharing confidences

Not sure how accurate this is for you, I quickly tried to interpret. I may come back later on to see it more in depth. Sorry if it doesn't make sense to you

posted April 07, 2013 05:40 PM            

Current situation – Hermit: Withdrawn, distance, searching, being single. Getting to know each other

How you see him– 7 of Pentacles: Someone who is slow to act, hesitant, stagnating, patient

Your hopes for the relationship – 6 of Wands: To win him over

What may be holding you back from pursuing the relationship – 10 of Wands rx: Too hard, a struggle, past baggage

How M sees you – (ignore M) 8 of Cups rx: Hmm, not entire sure maybe someone that is giving up?

M's hopes for the relationship – 4 of Cups rx: For things not to be boring, trying to be friendly, engaging , not being depressed/ignoring or taking u for granted

What may be holding M back from pursuing the relationship – 8 of Wands rx: Speediness, slowing down, taking things slow..do u two only communicate online?

What is the future potential for the relationship – Queen of Cups rx: Hmm maybe disappointing

How to facilitate the best outcomes – Wheel: Just let the Universe handle this destiny, fate, etc

Hope that makes some sense

Both of you ignore the "M's"

posted April 07, 2013 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by littlecloud:
Some of it relates.. But his initial is C not M...so maybe you read for someone else?

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posted April 07, 2013 07:50 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
For littlecloud

Current situation – 10 of Swords: Are you guys still talking?

How you see M – 10 of Wands: Maybe you see him as someone that is struggling

Your hopes for the relationship – 9 of Wands rx: You hope for walls to be torn. No fear or defensive stance. You hope that he doesn't hurt you, or you want to be able to trust him

What may be holding you back from pursuing the relationship – Death rx: There's something from the past you're maybe not letting go

How M sees you – Queen of Pentacles (I love how a court card always pops up here )

M's hopes for the relationship – 4 of Swords rx: He hopes to heal from past hurts. Did he do something to hurt u in the past or vice versa?

What may be holding M back from pursuing the relationship – 8 of Swords: He feels mentally trapped. He may be a little insecure, or maybe he just doesn't want to feel trapped in a relationship. Pessimism

What is the future potential for the relationship – 3 of Wands: Does he live at a distance from u?

How to facilitate the best outcomes – 6 of Pentacles: Sharing confidences

Not sure how accurate this is for you, I quickly tried to interpret. I may come back later on to see it more in depth. Sorry if it doesn't make sense to you

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We are still talking, where texting when I read this. I can't say I see him as someone who is struggling but more so someone who doesn't ask for help.

He has been fairly effective in tearing down my walls and getting me to trust him, it's his walls that I feel are still up. I do hope he doesn't hurt me due to my past that is hard for me to let go.

I was hoping you'd elaborate on the queen of pents just your own view of what the card says to you. (it has popped up before)

I can't speak for his hopes but he hasn't hurt me or vice versa.

I'm not sure about the 8 of swords...I can see where he would be mentally trapped.

He doesn't live very far exactly, he lives at the border of a different state that is easy to get to. But we both may move in a few months...

Sharing confidences...yea I can see how this would help..generally it helps in any relationship.

posted April 08, 2013 03:04 PM            

Makes me wish I look like that every day!

posted April 08, 2013 04:41 PM            

I know a week before my period starts I have always noticed that men (well, people in general) find me more attractive. They flirt more, smile more, nicer, etc.

posted April 09, 2013 05:23 AM            

[QUOTE]Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
For rhia

Current situation – Hermit: Withdrawn, distance, searching, being single. Getting to know each other

This is spot on, from many perspectives. We've both been very isolated for the last couple of weeks for different reasons. He has been away for the last couple of weeks spending time on his own and I have been taking 'me' time and doing a lot of thinking on my own. We're both slightly hermit-like at the best of times - enjoy our own company. In the wider relationship we are taking time to get to know each other.

How you see him– 7 of Pentacles: Someone who is slow to act, hesitant, stagnating, patient

This is exactly right, I see him as quite passive in this context, one to sit and wait/ hope for something to happen or not happen but not do anything about it. Plus he is very focused on work at the moment (pents).

Your hopes for the relationship – 6 of Wands: To win him over

Ha this makes me feel like I think of him as a challenge to be conquered; it's not really like that but yep I definitely would like to win him over!

What may be holding you back from pursuing the relationship – 10 of Wands rx: Too hard, a struggle, past baggage

Yeah probably over-stretching myself, trying too hard/ taking on too much.

How M sees you – (ignore M) 8 of Cups rx: Hmm, not entire sure maybe someone that is giving up?

I suspect he sees me as choosing not to move on. When we discussed how we felt, he said that he wasn't ready yet and I said that I didn't want to put any pressure on him but I would stick around if he wanted. We decided to take things slowly - get to know each other better.

M's hopes for the relationship – 4 of Cups rx: For things not to be boring, trying to be friendly, engaging , not being depressed/ignoring or taking u for granted

I think the four of cups would pretty much sum up things so far in respect to him - I can almost picture him trying to ignore the cup being offered to him because it's too scary to think about! He can be very emotionally withdrawn/ defensive. Optimistically (or perhaps unrealistically!), being reversed maybe he hopes that he could go back and accept the cup!

What may be holding M back from pursuing the relationship – 8 of Wands rx: Speediness, slowing down, taking things slow..do u two only communicate online?

He is fairly rubbish at non face-to-face communication which is a definite hinderance! I think he doesn't have the confidence to act with conviction, so he just ends up going around in a circle doubting himself and thinking that I don't really want to talk to him etc. We live in the same building so most of our communication is face-to-face. I think on a more general level this is what holds him back - lack of self-confidence meaning that he spends all his time agonising rather than doing.

What is the future potential for the relationship – Queen of Cups rx: Hmm maybe disappointing

Probably suppressed emotions! It would be very in-keeping with the theme of our relationship. More specifically it would be repressed emotions from him and emotional unfulfillment for me!

How to facilitate the best outcomes – Wheel: Just let the Universe handle this destiny, fate, etc

Nothing I can do about it - that's a relief, but it makes me feel a little helpless! I suppose the only way is up though (I hope) whether it's me on my own or both of us!

I don't think I've painted the best picture of him, but honestly I think he's worth a try. I have enough emotional stability for both of us.

Thank you very much for you help! If there's anything I can do in return, let me know. I am a beginner at tarot but I would gladly have a go if you wanted me to.