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Topic: Synastry Enlightment! RAS, Orange, Hapeless, Tgem, Starmoon, Lotus Flower
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shylioness07
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posted April 08, 2013 06:59 PM
  
Hey Everyone, if you could shed any light on the connection that we share in this Synastry.Thanks  IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted April 08, 2013 08:47 PM
virgo/libra are fairly complimentary signs and you have your mercury-venus' conjunct both ways which would indicate fairly strong communication/comraderie between you. the three things that stood out for me were one, the venus opposite moon - eventually, perhaps, the way one partner relates emotionally will not be compatible with how the other partner wants to be treated/loved. the guy has his saturn in the 7th house and it's in aqua, so he's going to be hesitant about relationships in general and perhaps not want to (ever) settle down. a lot of natal charts with saturn in the 7th = no marriage - saturn makes a person feel restricted and if it's housed in the 7th it'll be a restriction against marriage/partnerships and having to work through that, plus aqua is not a sign of 'let's get married!' the biggest potential problem is the mars-pluto exact conjunction one way and the very close mars-pluto conjunction the other way; i'm sure you're very passionate about one another (and this is probably the placement that has or will bring you together), but it could be a real problem for the relationship. mars and pluto are both 'aggressive' planets and when they are paired as yours are (exact), it's going to lead to some major power struggles, hurt feelings, and perhaps even aggression/manipulation between partners. very intense, but not the stuff of relationship happiness and true love, imo. the way in which mars-pluto interact isn't romantic... it's not the stuff of fairy tales, but of abuse and vicious divorces :-) this would be better as a friendship and might even deteriorate after a while from that - i don't see any strength in this chart as a happy couple :-) just opinions...IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted April 08, 2013 08:54 PM
@ starmoon Thanks. I don't see how communication was a strong point, we had difficult communications our feelings and emotions. If it was concerning work communication came very easy. I'm dealing with the hurt feelings part now. IP: Logged |
lotus_flower
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posted April 08, 2013 10:14 PM
That is a lof of emphasis on the 2/11 houses.Did you guys meet by working together? Also, his MC is aligned with your AC---do you look up to him as a mentor? Or when you saw him did you recognize your self in him in a way? IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted April 09, 2013 12:55 AM
@ lotus flower. We met at work . Yes, I look at him as a friend/mentor he taught me so muchIP: Logged |
lotus_flower
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From: New York
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 09, 2013 08:55 AM
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Originally posted by shylioness07:
@ lotus flower. We met at work . Yes, I look at him as a friend/mentor he taught me so much
OK, yes, I picked up on that just looking at the chart. Fire was probably the spark between you two---that is literally--his jupiter in aries is bring optimism to your moon in aries. In the 6th house also. I'm sure you must have felt important in his presense. And there is a strong attratction there--you attracted to his sensitivity, masculinity and charm all rolled into one. I can also see why he might be drawn to you as well--with neptune/uranus in his 5th house--he was proably surprised and taken back by it. Perhaps you also represent an ideal in this way--something he wishes were possible, but knows cannot be. I do see that he probably changes the way you view your home life and again, makes you look up to him because of his focus on responsibility and probably what it may be like to settle down. IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted April 09, 2013 09:48 AM
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Originally posted by lotus_flower:
OK, yes, I picked up on that just looking at the chart.Fire was probably the spark between you two---that is literally--his jupiter in aries is bring optimism to your moon in aries. In the 6th house also. I'm sure you must have felt important in his presense. And there is a strong attratction there--you attracted to his sensitivity, masculinity and charm all rolled into one. I can also see why he might be drawn to you as well--with neptune/uranus in his 5th house--he was proably surprised and taken back by it. Perhaps you also represent an ideal in this way--something he wishes were possible, but knows cannot be. I do see that he probably changes the way you view your home life and again, makes you look up to him because of his focus on responsibility and probably what it may be like to settle down.
Wow Lotus Flower, you are on point. I did feel important in his presence. And yes there was a lot of attraction, the attraction was so powerful that we easily got aroused when we were around each other. I think you are right about what drew him to me. I was attracted to his intellect, sensitivity, masculinity and his charm. He literally had me hooked. When I met him my views changed a lot, he always saw me potential and wanted me to put my best foot forward. What do you see as far as friendship qualities? Anything that will keep bring us together? Is this a Karmic Connection? Or a twin flame connection? Any fated aspects
You were right about him seeing me as ideal too, something he wanted but was afraid to pursue because he knew it couldn't be. Every Time we talked he would look me in the eyes. He always looked at me like he was admiring me somehow. Everytime we were in each other presence, we would fidget; like we couldn't control our fidgeting or the tapping of our feet. He would become very defensive each time I tried to have a conversation about feelings toward each other. It's like we had this love hate thing going on. A lot of of mutual friends would say we fell in and out of love on a monthly basis. We were the dynamic duo . Our biggest issues: possessiveness, competiveness, tic for tat meaning wanting to play games with each other feelings and lastly jealous ness. IP: Logged |
shylioness07
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posted April 09, 2013 10:23 AM
He is very materialistic, money is a big deal for him. He is an ego guy, image means everything to him. He has a lot of pride, a very proud man. I don't know if you see any aspects that resonates in the chart with his personalityIP: Logged |
lotus_flower
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From: New York
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 09, 2013 10:40 AM
You know, I'm not sure which are soul mate aspects are not! In the original atro boards if you search, I'm sure you can find out more about that.I do see a lot of friendship, admiration and attraction though. A strong emphasis on friendship/working relationship because you both emphasize the 2/11th houses of each others chart. I'm sure it is a interesting connection to feel for sure! IP: Logged |
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