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posted April 17, 2013 03:35 PM            

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Question: I also noticed your transiting NN is in your 1H, Aries’ ruler…I’d guess something has been going on in the past nine months or so [NN takes about 18 months to move through a sign] that’s been a karmic test of both you character and your ability to develop your NN’s call for independence. The past nine months I have been dealing with a guy who I think is my Twin Flame, since you mentioned that the NN takes about 18 months to move through a sign. Are you saying I have to keep dealing with him and the same situation for the next 9 months or does this mean I will meet a new person I share a karmic connection with me. Or that I will be dealing with karmic connections in general for the next 9 months

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posted April 17, 2013 08:11 PM            

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dyedye:

Possible ages for marriage that I can glean: 23 and maybe 25. I say maybe 25 because you seem to heavily equate worldly success with romantic partnerships, and Pars Fortunae is 25 degrees from your DSC. Clearly these are both close ages though, and again--predicting marriage in a chart is more of an "old wives tale" sort of practice.

4H: I see this as more about home life and not necessarily “marriage” per se, but you have Juno in here so I think that a partner who is also heavily interested in creating a home life with you is something you definitely seek in a man. Aqua on the cusp might mean home life was unconventional for you as a child, or maybe be unconventional in your adult life.

Karmic relationships: No, I do not think you are right in thinking that you will only be involved in karmic relationships in your lifetime. Chiron is a “wound,” but the healing faculties associated with it are the ways in which we can use our voids to help heal OTHERS. Yes, we can understand where we might be lacking in life and Chiron can be a way to show us what we areas in our lives/selves/psyches we must work on having a healthier approach to, but I don’t think your Chiron placement indicates that every relationship you will have is going to be karmic or transformative. Quite the contrary, in fact: I believe by focusing/overcompensating (remember I said Chiron makes us overcompensate for that which we lack to such an extreme we may very well lose sight of fixing the problem instead of continuously using band-aids) so much on/for your 8H, your probably tend to want to be in these types of relationships to procure that band-aid for the deeper issues you have with 8H things. Chiron instead shows you how you might communicate to others about this wound because it is so familiar to you, and you can forge a path to help those with similar issues mend their own 8H dilemmas.

tNN: If you equate your relationship with this guy as the karmic lesson you’re going through right now, then yes: NN means this is a perfect time to learn from this experience and work on becoming more attuned to what natal NN says you must learn (remember, this is in your 1H…evolution of “self” will be important). Reference your NN reading I gave, but this I believe this self-seeking has more to do with finding independence and learning to be lighthearted/fun/creative. It doesn’t seem to me that it’s indicative of another karmic relationship…I think it means that whatever big issue you’re face with right now is something you need to use to your advantage to strive toward your NN’s lesson. From a purely objective standpoint, this would mean NOT indulging in a relationship or dwelling on what could be with whoever this person is, and rather seeing how you can gain independence and adventure or learn what 5H values you can take away from this experience. Again, 5H is pretty dang opposite of 8H (where your Chiron is and what you keep saying this relationship feels like, that is heavy/transforming etc.) so I would say NN right now is saying to get away from this guy and possibly even any other “weighty” relationship, and to foster individuality because he/a binding relationship doesn’t seem to be offering a good platform for your NN’s values.

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posted April 17, 2013 09:14 PM            

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The age predictor was close for the marriage. I actually got married when I was 22, I'm passed the age of 25 and I'm still what the same guy. I actually have 1 biologically child and 1 step child. This whole Chiron placement is killing me. I appreciate the enlightenment. I feel that I better understand myself. This analysis is exactly what I needed. Now, I can make better choices in my life when it comes to relationships. Thanks Calliope23, you have a true gift.

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posted April 17, 2013 09:18 PM            

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4H: I see this as more about home life and not necessarily “marriage” per se, but you have Juno in here so I think that a partner who is also heavily interested in creating a home life with you is something you definitely seek in a man. Aqua on the cusp might mean home life was unconventional for you as a child, or maybe be unconventional in your adult life.

Karmic relationships: No, I do not think you are right in thinking that you will only be involved in karmic relationships in your lifetime. Chiron is a “wound,” but the healing faculties associated with it are the ways in which we can use our voids to help heal OTHERS. Yes, we can understand where we might be lacking in life and Chiron can be a way to show us what we areas in our lives/selves/psyches we must work on having a healthier approach to, but I don’t think your Chiron placement indicates that every relationship you will have is going to be karmic or transformative. Quite the contrary, in fact: I believe by focusing/overcompensating (remember I said Chiron makes us overcompensate for that which we lack to such an extreme we may very well lose sight of fixing the problem instead of continuously using band-aids) so much on/for your 8H, your probably tend to want to be in these types of relationships to procure that band-aid for the deeper issues you have with 8H things. Chiron instead shows you how you might communicate to others about this wound because it is so familiar to you, and you can forge a path to help those with similar issues mend their own 8H dilemmas. My child life was unconventional

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posted April 17, 2013 09:35 PM            

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dyedye,

I hope you don't feel what I said was too harsh. I tend to say what I see without mincing words, because I feel it's only fair to let people know what they're working with

Anyhow, I am sorry your 8H seems such a point of confusion for you. I hope astrological insight will be a helpful avenue in sorting things out, but remember it's not the only resource out there <3

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posted April 22, 2013 07:55 PM            

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Sandra and Jessica:

Just wanted to let you two know I appreciate your patience so very much, and I'm starting on both your readings tonight!

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posted April 24, 2013 01:02 AM            

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Originally posted by calliope23:
Sandra and Jessica:

Just wanted to let you two know I appreciate your patience so very much, and I'm starting on both your readings tonight!

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Looking forward to read your findings

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posted April 24, 2013 12:16 PM            

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Jesica and Sandra,

I'm sorry this has taken forever. I feel so flaky right now, but I need a couple more days. My sincerest apologies and just so you know: I'm going to make both your readings longer than usual for the inconvenience.

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posted April 24, 2013 06:49 PM            

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Thank you Calliope for the heads up.
please don't feel flaky, things happen
thank you for your gift in advance

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posted April 26, 2013 01:07 AM            

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Originally posted by calliope23:
Jesica and Sandra,

I'm sorry this has taken forever. I feel so flaky right now, but I need a couple more days. My sincerest apologies and just so you know: I'm going to make both your readings longer than usual for the inconvenience.

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That's nice

Thank you.

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posted May 02, 2013 07:52 PM            

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hi Calliope..just wanted to check in and see if you are still doing the readings?
I understand if this is not a good time for you.. thank you

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