posted April 20, 2013 09:14 PM            

Or my birthday is April 7th, 1989. Henderson, Nevada. 9:56 A.M.

We can talk about everybody's here as well.

Starting off I was wondering how Moon and Venus in the 11th would affect one's sex life. I'm weird about sex, kind of afraid of it even though I'm often told how sexy I am by other people (without even trying too, I don't understand. I'm not complaining but I usually get public logic as a whole. Not so much on this subject). I don't think I'd be that attached after sex though. I made out with a guy I liked and prior to that I was really excited about him, after...I could care less but it had nothing to do with his kissing expertise.

posted April 21, 2013 06:23 AM            

I think you will become more sexual with time.
Your Mars conjuncts your ASC but from the 12th house, which means that its energies are not in your face and kinda hidden but they're definitely there and are part of your personality. Plus, Mars sextiles your Sun and Venus. You are a physical person.

I think there may be a bit of a discrepancy here between your Venus and your Mars. Venus can represent feminine sexuality, also, and you have it square Neptune and Saturn, which could point to some fear/confusion about your sexuality and sense of feminity.
I think you should work on that Saturn/Neptune affliction to your Venus - build a strong character, be confident, accept and honour your appearance and your feminine side.

When you feel confident in yourself and your ability to attract and keep a man, your sexuality will flourish. That's when your Mars will kick in, I tink. Because Venus and Mars aspect each other in your chart.

So, strengthening your Venus will actually affect your Mars in a positive way.

The fact that Venus and Moon are in the 11th house may mean that in order to feel truly loved/appreciated, a partner should be your friend and not just a lover. You need to feel a connection of the minds in addition to the emotional and physical attraction.

posted April 22, 2013 01:14 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
They're super hidden! I think that's why I see guys as being very forward and aggressive, because my urges are so subdued. I'd rather just talk and hang out and laugh a lot than always be fooling around.

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posted April 22, 2013 02:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Gosh! I'm like that as well...I remember with my ex,we had a venus-mars aspects in synastry,it didn't really play out like they described on the net, he was always in the mood to fool around while I was rather you know,hanging out,having a good laugh,being totally cool.It was difficult for him to be around me without thinking about gettting physical ( so he kept telling me).That didn't make any difference LOL.That was a big issue for him since he felt I didn't want him...TBH,I've never wanted a guy that way even though I feel attracted to the person..more on a mental level than jumpingalloverhim sort of way..ummm...only recently when I met this guy..he is the FIRST guy in my entire life who sparked a sexual response from me just by looking at his picture
This one didn't spark JUST a mental attraction,it was right off a sexual one lol

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I've had that! I couldn't be the near the guy without having to control every urge in my being not to tear his shirt off right there. It's just very rare, and actually the guys were similar... tall, husky, manly looking. I see manly looking men but the Sag and the Cap were the only ones who could pull that response from me.

posted April 22, 2013 03:55 AM            

Do you mind if I put up my chart?

posted April 22, 2013 06:39 AM            

Your 8th house rulers are in the 7th!
So your sexuality is tied to the concept of "relationship" and not just a casual thing. PLUS your 8th houses are both in Earth signs - a light, careless thing probably won't do here.

You may need to think/feel that something deeper is possible with a certain person in order to feel sexually attracted to them - generally speaking of course, there are exceptions.

posted April 22, 2013 06:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I got it, girls.
I think I know why you are this way.

Your 8th house rulers are in the 7th!
So your sexuality is tied to the concept of "relationship" and not just a casual thing. PLUS your 8th houses are both in Earth signs - a light, careless thing probably won't do here.

You may need to think/feel that something deeper is possible with a certain person in order to feel sexually attracted to them - generally speaking of course, there are exceptions.

In synastry, Venus/Pluto usually awakens the sexual desire quite easily!

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YEAH totally true for me! I need to see the person as 'relationship material' first...hmm so that would sexuality become kinda a mental thing for me?not a natural instinctive body reaction? Typing this makes me sounf weird-don't I ? LOL