posted April 21, 2013 10:57 PM            

So here it is:

Honestly, is this relationship worth pursuing...?
It looks like the synastry is so stormy!
However I have to say that I have had perfect synastry with some individuals and the relationship never got far.
I know that the composite is a really important tool in figuring out the whole picture but he does not know his birth time. In the synastry I just put it as 12 noon, mine is correct though.

Here is the aspect list (not all of the aspects but most from what I can tell):

HIM Aspect ME Orb/Value
Sun Square Saturn 2.47 -107
Moon Square Moon 2.18 -246
Moon Opposition Mars 2.41 -91
Venus Opposition Moon 1.46 83
Venus Square Mars 2.09 -114
Mars Opposition Venus 0.25 -101
Jupiter Sextile Mercury 0.49 85
Jupiter Sextile Uranus 0.58 52
Uranus Sextile Venus 1.24 52
Uranus Square Saturn 2.57 -54
Neptune Sextile Ascendant 1.58 33
Pluto Square Mercury 1.27 -93
Pluto Trine Mars 3.17 38
343 -806 -463

So if I was judging ONLY by synastry; I would never pursue this relationship. I feel like it would be a disaster waiting to happen. However, I like the sexual feelings I have for him... makes me feel very in touch with myself.... and carnal. Although of course that is not all there should be to a relationship.
A little bit about him: he is married to his job, basically. He is famous in his country and abroad, to say the least.

Has anyone gone through a relationship like this/with these aspects and how was it?

posted April 21, 2013 11:32 PM            

so post it anyway

dw venus mars aspects, so no wonder you feel that way abt the sexual attraction.

however, because sun is square saturn, venus is opp saturn, and both venus mars aspects are afflictions i wouldnt get too excited about this. take it slow bc most likely youll be too different, have different habits as well as values/morals/opinions (not to mention moon sq moon). Youll also find each other cold at times, with that saturn. You will esp find him cold bc your venus is opp his saturn. Sun trine venus, venus sextile uranus, and venus opp moon are wonderful so those will at least bring quite a bit of happiness thru hard times. with moon opp venus there will be extremely tender feelings and lots of affection but there will be something to be overcome first before u can come together. it means family/race issues or one of you is still in a relationship. or perhaps one of you lives far away, or works too much, so you cannot be in a real relationship.

posted April 21, 2013 11:57 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
nothing much will change in composite without birthtime other than moon and asc aspects and houses

so post it anyway

dw venus mars aspects, so no wonder you feel that way abt the sexual attraction.

however, because sun is square saturn, venus is opp saturn, and both venus mars aspects are afflictions i wouldnt get too excited about this. take it slow bc most likely youll be too different, have different habits as well as values/morals/opinions (not to mention moon sq moon). Youll also find each other cold at times, with that saturn. You will esp find him cold bc your venus is opp his saturn. Sun trine venus, venus sextile uranus, and venus opp moon are wonderful so those will at least bring quite a bit of happiness thru hard times. with moon opp venus there will be extremely tender feelings and lots of affection but there will be something to be overcome first before u can come together. it means family/race issues or one of you is still in a relationship. or perhaps one of you lives far away, or works too much, so you cannot be in a real relationship.

Definitely, the composite matters, so post that when u get a chance

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You really nailed it down so well. We live about 10,000 miles away from each other by the way. We have a 17 year age gap and he works more than 14 hours a day. We come from different cultures as well (kind of)...

I will post the composite and thank you so much for helping out.

posted April 23, 2013 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Yeah from looking at the composite it just seems like more of a physical attraction, moon conjunct pluto and venus square pluto with the dw venus-mars and venus sextile uranus in synastry

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Hey RAS honestly I am not going to pursue this relationship. I do not like the venus square pluto at all. To me that sounds like a recipe for disaster waiting to happen. Too bad, he is an interesting man, although the whole being married to his job thing is a big minus, that would explain why he has never been married and is almost 40...
Besides his job he actually has nothing to talk about.

He's got Venus in Pisces and Mars in Gemini...
I think that may be an equation for man wh0re ?

posted April 23, 2013 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by littlecloud:
I don't like it :-/

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Same here! Not worth pursuing.

Plus I don't know if you saw this in the synastry up top I posted:

Sun Square Saturn 2.47 -107
Moon Square Moon 2.18 -246
Moon Opposition Mars 2.41 -91
Venus Opposition Moon 1.46 83
Venus Square Mars 2.09 -114
Mars Opposition Venus 0.25 -101