posted May 08, 2013 02:55 PM            

I'm an Aries with Mercury and Venus also in Aries plus all that 12H stuff, and I attract gay men very easily, albeit not in a sexual manner. But sometimes I do feel like I should have been born a gay man. I'm terribly sarcastic, guarded and tough for a girl although traditionally feminine looking (long hair, make up, dresses). I'm attracted to straight men but their way of going about wooing me repulses me each time. I long for the days where genuity (sp?!) existed. I feel that's lacking in our culture now a days so it makes me a little blasé about relationships, which doesn't mean I am against or don't love people or fall in love, but I have low expectations for it.

posted May 08, 2013 03:12 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I have Mars in the 12th (it's in Gemini but my 12H is ruled by Taurus) and Sun square Neptune actually. I haven't read this thread in it's entirety except for the mention of your Libra 12H, Mars in the 12H and Sun conjuncting Neptune. So call me crazy but I feel I can relate.

I'm an Aries with Mercury and Venus also in Aries plus all that 12H stuff, and I attract gay men very easily, albeit not in a sexual manner. But sometimes I do feel like I should have been born a gay man. I'm terribly sarcastic, guarded and tough for a girl although traditionally feminine looking (long hair, make up, dresses). I'm attracted to straight men but their way of going about wooing me repulses me each time. I long for the days where genuity (sp?!) existed. I feel that's lacking in our culture now a days so it makes me a little blasé about relationships, which doesn't mean I am against or don't love people or fall in love, but I have low expectations for it.

My point in that rambling is live your life and get what you want if it's what is making you happy. Mainstream is too concerned with having a plan and fitting into a box so that you may be accepted into their "in" crowd in society.

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So true.

They´re so blind as to how limitless and big love really can be. And they think they´re doing us a favor by telling us how we shouldn´t get our hopes up and bla bla bla, when in fact it is them who are not evolved enough spiritually to see how great potential for love we all have.

Gender is an illusion. That´s the beauty of having personal planets in 12th house. You see through the illusion, and sometimes you get lost when you see how deep and limitless the soul is.

posted May 08, 2013 03:49 PM            

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Originally posted by littlecloud:
I haven't read the entire thread and the chart is a little hard to read in that format. But someone did mention your chart having no hard aspects, which caught my attention, so my input here is (maybe someone else had the same thought) that perhaps being in weir/awkward and not social acceptable situations is what will help you grow. That you'll most likely need this external influence to challenge you.

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Interesting thought. That could explain why I´m drawn to complicated and challenging relationships.

I have to say, for someone who has a chart with very few hard aspects I am very growt-oriented though. Maybe all my scorpio planets are pushing me towards growth.

posted May 12, 2013 08:12 PM            

But anyway I was just gonna say I also have Cap Sun widely conjunct Neptune (7 degrees) and I can see how this does kinda blur the lines in terms of gender for me too.. I'm really feminine in appearance (Cancer ASC)and yeah come off as "sweet" but that's just the surface