posted May 20, 2013 12:20 PM            

I hve been away from my cards & this forum for quite sometime now. I have no idea what to do so here it is

How much should I trust a guy with Cap Moon, Sun, Venus & Scorpio Mars?

I know Caps are loyal & he's been a GREAT friend so far. Problem is im madly in love with him & he knows it (like hell he knows i told him right away). Now he's opening up. He uses words like "aww", "pwomise" & yes he messaged me FIRST yesterday asking for 2 minutes of my time cos he was missing me. He sent me his picture, out of blue, the other day. I know with caps you have to be patient & know it that they care but my question is

Should I trust him?

He has history of being a player, he has hide things from me in past & m afraid he still does (Scorp Mars). He is still facebook friends with his ex & im not sure if the ex is 100% out of the picture. This is where my insecurity comes in. Im scared that he might just be playying around even thought my heart says otherwise. Please someone give me a reading, nice words, experiences with caps, anything. . I just need to know what to do :/.

Much love & blessings

xx

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posted May 22, 2013 08:42 AM            

I thought I'd take a crack at this, doesn't look too good to me

the spread looks like this:

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1 the present: 5 pents - tend to read this one as lovers, you really did fall for him and are willing to be loyal.

2 past obstacles: 2 wands - isolation, as described, pretty self-explanatory. you both used to exist in separate worlds which didn't overlap, contemplating these worlds and engrossed in this contemplation. perhaps more true for him than it is for you

hidden influences: 6 wands - i think he is flattered by your attention and enjoys all this admiration you've got for him. it tickles his pride to have provoked these feelings in you

future influences: knight of swords - he values his work and his ventures more than anything. perhaps his attention will shift towards new exciting pursuits at some point

synthesis: 7 swords - i honestly don't like the look of it. perhaps he doesn't necessarily wish to use you yet this is what seems to be happening. he feeds off your affection, perhaps gently nudges you to give him more, but at the end of the day... I don't think feelings of such beauty as yours should be lavished on someone like him. i know you can't order your heart about (who can?), but i just have this feeling like... all your energy is sucked in like in a vortex and you don't get that much in exchange. you don't really get any comfort/fulfilment, no cups no gentleness, no soothing influence

and look at this contrast between 5 pents and 6 wands.... surely the rider could have dismounted to offer his horse to the cripple? i don't get any compassion on his part, not just towards you, but none at all. to do him some credit, let me just say it's not that he has a mean heart and does it all on purpose, but he's not...soft on the inside, tenderness is not his forte or his priority. he exists in a different world where it's not even... present. this might be what he's like at this stage in his life, not how he IS all the time.

posted May 23, 2013 09:52 PM            

You have REALLY REALLY nailed it down. I loved how you have a strong grasp on cards meanings in a particular sitution. What u said in last para, he's just not tender on inside. Thats EXACTLY him. Difficult childhood, messed up family, messed up relationships. Sometimes i also feel that he just doesn't feel it, & he says the same thing to me, out and loud that his life purpose is beyond these things like relationships, physical desires etc. he's a Life path 9, which is just a reflection of your last para. Its said these people r not very much into these 1-1 relationships. Im trying to detach myself from him already without leaving him or punishing myself but i do hope, may be, MAY BE, my love & affection can melt just a tiny bit of him on inside.

posted May 23, 2013 09:53 PM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Put noon as birth time, won’t be so effective but we can still know few things from it. What are your placements?

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I am Aries sun, mercury, Gemini Venus, Virgo Rising & Taurus Moon with stellium in Capticorn.

posted May 24, 2013 07:04 AM            

I'm life path 9 by the way. Suppose we are all different, but maybe being a girl I have allocated a bigger place for love in my life.

And well I don't know, having been loved by a Pisces moon, a little melting.... might not do. But all you can do is just see what happens to you and how your feelings change.