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posted May 27, 2013 07:30 PM            

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If anyone is available to do a reading I'm in desperate need of one. I wonder if anyone can help me I'm so confused....... i have known this man for over 2 years, we dated on and off. This was a very different type of relationship, something different about this guy. Anyway, we had a bad falling out; i recently saw him several weeks ago and something happen. we kissed and it felt like an electric jolt, it was very intense. I'm moving out of state in another month, and im torn between what I should do. After our falling out, i met someone else but i cant explain why i having this longing for him still. He's an emotional wonded guy. I was hoping anyone could shed some light into this situation. Any details about the direction this is going. I'm normally the person who always act on their feelings. I want to know if he wants to pursue a relationship with me this time around or is he act of my life for good this time.

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posted May 29, 2013 01:58 PM            

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I pulled

Knight of Cups
Judgement
5 wands

There are two people competing for your affection - this is what I understand by 5 of wands - competition and internal conflict for you. Judgement - be very, very clear about what you want out of life. Knight of cups - potential for romance is present but this guy could be fickle, so be careful.

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posted May 29, 2013 03:10 PM            

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@ hobbit Thank you, Thank you. The reading is right there are two guys that I love and I'm torn. I know the one which is fickle as well. Which makes me hesitant about making a decision. The fickle one is the one I'm moving out of state with. The guy I dated his initials are J can you please pull a card and let me know how he feel about me currently. I appreciate you doing this reading for me.

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posted May 30, 2013 08:18 AM            

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Is J the ex who is fickle? I wasn't sure.

I pulled the following for his feelings towards you:

5 cups
Knight of Swords
6 cups

5 of cups points to a sense of loss, crying over spilt milk, regret, disappointment and sorrow.

Knight of Swords - is a good omen - it means communication and action. This could also signify the personality of this person - restless and active. Trouble with him is he can be aloof and abrupt in his choices. Read here: http://teachmetarot.wordpress.com/lesson-1/lesson-2/the-knight-of-swords/

6 cups -

"The VI of Cups in a reading may be telling of someone who only plays at love, rather than one who commits themselves seriously. It may be warning of temporary relationships in your life at this time." http://tarot-theroyalroad.blogspot.co.uk/2011/06/6-six-of-cups-vi.html

6 cups can also point to nostalgia, or the return of an old flame. So take your pick.

The cards point to indecision: but perhaps that's because the lines of communication aren't clear (knight of swords)

I'd welcome your feedback.

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posted May 30, 2013 11:13 AM            

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@ Hobbitt Wow! To be completely honest both men are fickle. J and I had issues with comittment hence the bad falling out, I was ready to take things to the next step and he wasn't. I know he loves me, but the fear of deep love and total comittment consumes him. Question: does the 5 of cups means that he is feeling poia sense of loss, crying over spilt milk, regret, disappointment and sorrow about the situation with me. The reading resonated well and thank you soooo much. It confirmed what I already knew. I don't know what to do. J has been in long term relationships before he met me. Communication isn't clear, I'm at loss. I don't know what to do to establish clear lines of communication

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posted May 30, 2013 11:18 AM            

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5 of Cups represents your feelings.

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posted May 30, 2013 11:57 AM            

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@ empress Thank you for the clarification. Can I ask you or anyone for advice. How do I go about establishing clear lines of communication without making a person feel pressured. Both men love me, sometimes the guy I'm with is super excited about us getting married and starting a family, but I have had to push about our wedding date several times already. He proposed but I think he did it to show J, that I'm taken.

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posted May 30, 2013 12:52 PM            

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@ hobbit the 5 of cups resonates 100% with what I'm feeling. I promise my fiancé that I wouldn't contact J. He feels threaten by J. I'm a horrible liar, and would eventually tell on myself if I sneak and called J behind my fiancé back. I had to sneak and get on birth control because my fiancé kept trying to impregnate me. My religion prohibits the use of birth control but I'm not ready to have kids, I love and adore children but I'm at a good stage in my career. I just received a huge promotion which is point of the reason to relocate. My fiancé and I were originally business partners, he invested a lot of $$$ in my company. We have known each other since we were in high school. I never knew he had feelings for me until he proposed out of the blue. I will admit that I wasn't in love with him initially, I do love him very much, but I'm not sure that he loved me or is he doing things to keep J away.

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posted May 30, 2013 01:10 PM            

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When I was with J I ended up getting pregnant but I miscarriage due to stress with work. J ended up throwing this in my face which hurt, he was really hurt and upset that I lost the baby. He wanted to try again but I didn't want too. So this is where a lot of the regret, disappointment comes into play.

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posted May 30, 2013 01:18 PM            

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No that J wasn't right to blame me for the miscarriage. The doctors advise he at the time that I need to take at easy and stay off my feet but I didn't, I was up for a promotion then too

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posted May 30, 2013 01:36 PM            

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Wow, you sure get a lot of promos

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posted May 30, 2013 02:00 PM            

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@ empress I did, but I don't think they were worth it. I had to bust my butt and make a lot of scarifices to get to where I am.

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