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posted May 31, 2013 05:56 PM            

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Can you guys please provide some insight into this relationship? We met in the most crazy random way and he hit me like a ton of bricks.

Thank you so much! It means a great deal to me.

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posted May 31, 2013 06:57 PM            

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a birth time for him would really help here, because as it's set (12pm) you're showing a lot of important contacts between planets and the angles (ASC/DSC), and his mars falling right close to your ASC. depending on how close you are to actual time of birth, you may/may not have these great contacts. and they would be great contacts if you do have them; angle conjunctions, or angles conjunct to planets = really fated relationships. but, working with what you've posted, you have several oppositions within synastry; sun and mercury opp. moon, venus opp. uranus, and sun/mercury opp. ASC. to name a few. The venus opp. uranus, in particular, is like instant attraction – you are immediately drawn to one another, for whatever reason, and it’s akin to ‘love at first sight,’ particularly if you are venus. His vertex/node sitting almost on your DSC is what brings the fated aspect your meeting (if accurate); you guys are bound to end up transforming through the relationship you have together.

This is all just my opinion, but I see this as a ‘what brings us together will eventually drive us apart’ relationship. Despite a lot of initial attraction, the aspects (many oppositions) and the squares (especially that venus/mercury square) will drive you apart. You have very compatible mars signs (scorpio and cancer) and a lot of aspects to get things going, but a lot of important stuff – like the moon/ASC. of one partner opp. sun/mercury of the other will eventually degrade the relationship. Moon is emotions and the Asc. is our outward self, so if that person doesn’t see what they like in the other (after a while), things go down, or the partner just isn’t as great as they once appeared, and the person with moon and ASC in virgo is going to be very picky. I’m not good with composite charts, but the synastry appears much stronger; the composite doesn’t look like a happy couple. It looks like the heart of the couple (the moon) is at odds with commitment (saturn), communication (mercury), and outward love (venus).

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posted May 31, 2013 07:23 PM            

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Thank you for that. The birth time for me is accurate and he's getting his from his mom (soon I hope).

In the synastry, we have that rare saturn sun dw that Linda Goodman talks about as a love aspect. Not sure if that's going to be a good thing or not.

All I know is so far, I'm approaching this relationship completely different than any other one I've ever had. For once, my aries venus isn't chasing like a dog in heat. In fact, I'm actually scared to death and don't know why (in a good way though).

The funny thing is that his friends started in with the marriage jokes am hour after we met and its been my experience that friends usually call things like this without realizing it. Maybe that's what's got me so freaked out. Lol

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posted May 31, 2013 08:22 PM            

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I went back and changed the birth time for him and no matter what the time was, the angle connections from him to me stayed the same. I don't know if that matters or not.

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posted June 02, 2013 12:32 AM            

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Gently bumping. Any other thoughts? Please?

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