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Topic: Will my ex and I get back together? Tarot request please!
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Pure
Knowflake Posts: 175
From: UK
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 28, 2013 12:26 PM
  
I'm in need of some insight as I'm only getting mixed messages from him. Q1: What is his reason for the break up?
Q2: Will we get back together? Please and thank you! IP: Logged |
Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 2094
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted June 28, 2013 01:11 PM
Hi Pure, Can I ask if one of you was perhaps rather controlling/clingy and did that perhaps cause some arguments? IP: Logged |
Pure
Knowflake Posts: 175
From: UK
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 28, 2013 01:21 PM
Thanks for replying!I think we were both clingy and slightly controlling (We gave each other freedom and let each other do whatever they pleased though, so not that kind of controlling) and that was definitely the cause of most, if not all of our arguments. IP: Logged |
Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 2094
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted June 28, 2013 01:30 PM
Okay.
I have the feeling that is one of the main reasons why he broke up with you. He felt it wasn't leading anywhere/stuck in a rod idea where you both want other things, and he seemed to have enough of the arguments/clingyness (and jealousy perhaps?) Did he ever say to you that he felt 'controlled' or did you want to know where he was often for example? Edit: oh, you just say 'slightly controlling'. I'm asking that, because there seems to be some obsessing in the cards... IP: Logged |
Pure
Knowflake Posts: 175
From: UK
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 28, 2013 01:53 PM
We were both as clingy as each other, although I was the one who initiated the arguments about it. After he broke up with me he said he still wanted to talk to me everyday?! He got jealous when I spoke to and about other guys, especially one in particular and asked me not to. He never told me he felt controlled by me but only that he felt he had to be careful what he said because he didn't want to make me upset/angry. He was the one who always asked me what I was doing.Is there anything I can do to make the situation better? Thank you so much for your help, you're so kind! IP: Logged |
Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 2094
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted June 28, 2013 02:14 PM
I'll have a look. How long were you together?
Thing is -and feel free to discard it anytime- that I'm under the impression this has come to an end. However, I expect one (or the both of you) will have difficulties of really letting go, but if you meet up again it will not lead to a relationship you wish. I have the feeling it will then be for sexual ties only/feeling of owning one and other, not for the loving and healthy relationship you wish for.
So my advice would be to let this man go.
Sorry I'm not seeing better things for you  IP: Logged |
Pure
Knowflake Posts: 175
From: UK
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 28, 2013 02:27 PM
We were only officially together for a month and a half! The relationship was serious and started and progressed very suddenly and quickly.Thank you for your time, this has helped me so much! I feel like I have the answers to get over it now. Can I ask one final question? Why is he giving me mixed messages, what does he really want? IP: Logged |
Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 2094
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted June 28, 2013 03:03 PM
Aah, okay, one and a half month...
This man is just rather immature... He doesn't know himself 'why' most of the time.
So now he stopped it and then thinks 'was it really the right thing? I am thinking of her..' Then he will contact, and will withdraw thinking 'yes, it is'. Then he doubts again.... It is your typical flickering light bolt thing. Just a bit fickle so to speak. Also seen quite often when relationships just ended and you have to adjust to a life without that individual again.
I suppose you are both quite young, right? Wish you good luck with everything! Would love an update if you can  IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
Moderator Posts: 5284
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Registered: May 2012
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posted June 28, 2013 03:21 PM
Hey Pure,I just did a general reading asking what will happen within 3 months, and I'm getting that there will be some problems, and an end to stability between you two. There is indeed another woman in his life, and he's trying to make the choice to choose for good now. You will be hurt/shock by his choice, but ultimately it seems it will be for the better. Sorry this couldn't be more positive, but wish you the best of luck! IP: Logged |
Pure
Knowflake Posts: 175
From: UK
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 28, 2013 03:45 PM
Thank you so much Twirl, you're an angel! I'll definitely update you, it's the least I can do.EmpressMendez, thank you also! Is there really someone else? :O Is there anything else you can tell me? Does this mean we definitely wont get back together? This is so intriguing! I'm not really upset for the time being, these readings definitely helped. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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Registered: May 2012
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posted June 28, 2013 04:37 PM
Hello, yes there's another woman (sorry). I didn't really see you two getting back together within 3 months . I used Lenormand..these are pretty accurate just in case you're doubting. Best of luck! IP: Logged |
Pure
Knowflake Posts: 175
From: UK
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 28, 2013 05:25 PM
Thanks again EmpressMendez! Is there anything you can tell me about her?IP: Logged |
jrf12
Knowflake Posts: 92
From: danville, va
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 28, 2013 07:07 PM
Empress, when you can, will you please do a tarot reading on me and my ex? IP: Logged |
Pure
Knowflake Posts: 175
From: UK
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 30, 2013 10:26 AM
Update: I've told him he has a month to make his mind up. Now to wait. IP: Logged |
Pure
Knowflake Posts: 175
From: UK
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 01, 2013 10:25 AM
Update: We didn't get back together as was predicted. He now "accidentally" contacts me every few weeks, god only knows what for. IP: Logged |
Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 2094
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 01, 2013 10:47 AM
Hey Pure Thanks for the update
Where in this do you see you would get back together? Both predictions said it has come to an end. And sorry he's still being fickle. Wish you best of luck with a new lover Thanks again for updating! IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
Moderator Posts: 5284
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Registered: May 2012
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posted October 01, 2013 11:12 AM
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Originally posted by Twirl:
Hey Pure Thanks for the update
Where in this do you see you would get back together? Both predictions said it has come to an end. And sorry he's still being fickle. Wish you best of luck with a new lover Thanks again for updating!
No, I think she meant "We didn't get back, as you two predicted we wouldn't", lol. Thanks for the update, Pure. I'm sorry about that . IP: Logged |
Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 2094
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 01, 2013 12:03 PM
Oh...
Lol.
Oops. Sorry, my mistake. Hope you will meet a lovely new man  IP: Logged |
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