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Topic: Which synastry/composite set is better?
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asclibrasagsun
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posted July 03, 2013 10:09 PM
  
Hello to all,Which is better for a romantic/sexual relationship?
Which one is most likely to last? Which is most likely to actually manifest?
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asclibrasagsun
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posted July 03, 2013 10:22 PM
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asclibrasagsun
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posted July 04, 2013 11:40 AM
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Ceridwen
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posted July 04, 2013 11:47 AM
No 1 without a doubt.I don´t need to see the charts for this. Your descripition speaks volumes. You could never be happy with no 2. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted July 04, 2013 12:06 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
No 1 without a doubt.I don´t need to see the charts for this. Your descripition speaks volumes. You could never be happy with no 2.
Thanks Ceri But I think #1 isn't interested in me (although maybe you can see from the synastry whether he is or not) And #2 is way too eager for a relationship IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted July 04, 2013 09:27 PM
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Ceridwen
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posted July 05, 2013 05:07 AM
Well, too bad if no 1 is not interested, if he isn`t. But I guess that is just life.HOwever, I don`t think it would be a good idea to settle with No 2; even if HE is eager for a relationship, this is clearly not enough. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 05, 2013 05:27 AM
in the case of no 1, his Venus is conjunct your Saturn in your 4th house.
This is clearly an indicator for a karmic connection.
If his birthtime is correct, then it means that his 8th house ruler meets your 4th house ruler on your IC. This is indicative of a deep emotional soulbond, which you feel right in the depth of your soul. for him it falls into the 11th house and is more indicative of a friendship-vibe. Though having said that, since his 8th house ruler is in the 11th house, friendship and shared goals really is what constitutes a soulbond for him (as it is where his 8th house ruler falls), though it may not be very traditional (as the 11th house is not a romantic relationships house generally; it becomes a soul-house for him thruogh the association with 8th house ruler).
his 7th house ruler conjuncts your Neptune; again it falls into his 11th house. From this we know that basically in relationship terms he needs his partner to be his friend first and foremost, a lot of space in the sense that he can be himself. Shared goals.
Anyway your Neptune hitting him there might either make for an almost psychic connection, a very strong mental intrigue on his part, but he also can`t read you that well. There is something confusing. The irony is as strong as the almost telepathic connection might be, when it comes to verbalizing issues, this connection proves to be confusing and evasive.
However, Neptune conjunct his 7th house ruler might make for some kind of glamour and magic he experiences around you. However it is not a reaction to your personal core, which I find difficult in the long run.
His 5th house ruler is in 10th house - so all his relationship planets fall in houses of the fourth quadrant, which deals with society at large. A relationship has to make him feel like it leads somewhere, like it fits into his lifestyle, his principles etc. His Moon (and Sun btw) seem to be both conjunct your Venus, which on the one hand points to your attraction to the very core of him. However, since Moon rules his 5th house, he might feel attracted to your feminity. It`s a spark, an "infatuation-house" (the 5th house, it rules), but doesn`t say if it wil lead to something more. As for houseoverlays:
his ASC in your 5th house makes for an instinctive attraction to him.
his Venus on your IC - you feel deeply about him. Many of his planets are in your 3rd house, which is an unromantic house, but the rulers of your 5th and 8th house are natally placed there, so this unromantic house is for you personally very important in terms of what "turns you on" and evicts a visceral response.
Your 5th and 8th house ruler are conjunct his Mars and Sun respectively. This is a VERY strong indicator of you to be drawn to his masculinity in very powerful ways.
Your ASC is in his 7th house - so you basically fit his image of a partner. However it is not strongly aspected by his chart.
All other planets are in unromantic houses.
Your Venus is in his 10th house; where his 5th house ruler is, too. I can`t read the orb but if under 3 degrees, his Moon to your VEnus speaks of a strong pull to your femininity and your physicality, as Venus is also ruler of your ASC and conjuncts his 5th house ruler Moon. But you must check the progressed charts, too. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted July 05, 2013 08:47 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Well, too bad if no 1 is not interested, if he isn`t. But I guess that is just life.HOwever, I don`t think it would be a good idea to settle with No 2; even if HE is eager for a relationship, this is clearly not enough.
I feel so irritated by number 2, he can never agree on anything, even small things, like what bread tastes better or which landscape looks prettier. We are allowed to have personal opinions, but I feel like he uses me to manipulate me into thinking that he is right and that everything should be his way. He wants that picture perfect wife and I'm an individualist, I won't ever be what he wants me to be. Basically, he is trying to change me but I will resist. I have a strong feel that I need to resist and run when someone tries to change me. Plus he talks way too much, I get so tired from him, he needs to give it a rest. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted July 05, 2013 08:54 AM
Ceridwen, that was such a beautiful description you wrote there, I loved it! You took the words right out of my mouth.
Everything seemed right, especially about the 3d house planets, also about me being attracted to his masculinity and all. Thank you so very much for taking the time to do thisIP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted July 05, 2013 08:55 AM
For progressed charts, do you mean I should do a progressed composite chart or just do both of our natals separately?IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 06, 2013 02:24 PM
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