posted July 19, 2013 02:47 PM            

The 2 of heart's was persistent, are you in a relationship. As this will have a totally different meaning whether you are or not.

Also looks like you are going through a times of emotional changes (but it's all good in the end)

but back to where i was, to interpret this properly, it will have two different meanings whether you are in a relationship or not.

posted July 20, 2013 05:34 AM            

This is a bit personal, but are you trying for a child? The 2 suggests there will be some unexpected but good news in these matters.

Otherwise the other cards tell that you probably have gone through an emotional upset recently, but the person or people you went through that with are going to try and mend bridges, as none of you want to keep things that way.
Whoever caused this, did this because of jealousy, yet they have no reason to be jealous from you in the first place, so still be cautious, if things start getting better soon. No one wants to take responsibility for who or what may have caused this, so just let it go, but silently be aware.

The 2 of hearts also suggests your husband will help you feel stronger, or you need your husbands support to feel stronger.

You still have good young friends in all this.
All in all, whatever it is, if it isn't child related, this health problem is definetly caused by your emotional state at the time.

For sure eat well, try to include as much fresh greens (Kale, celery, watercress whatever etc)in this time, and drink as much water as you can. Some Yoga poses may specially be beneficial for you in these situations, but i have no clue which one's so ask around,
and hopefully within 2 month you shall start seeing both inner and outer improvements.

The repeated 2 of hearts, tells you to wait, things will change to the better and you won't even know how that happened as it'll be a complete surprise.

posted July 21, 2013 07:17 AM            

Hi Cathy!! Glad you are taking your health back...and baby is definitely on the mind, don't think too much about it, and just let life go on..without thinking about it, so you can be surprised by it.

my cards seem to really like you i tried it 3 times for you and in no hidden terms, the 3 of spades followed by the queen of hearts all the time.

Is there a motherly figure in your life. If your mother's are still around, do you feel they are meddling a bit too much in your lives. (Otherwise if a mother is involved, the exact opposite is true, you're mum will give you good advise and keep this person at bay)

If not the queen of hearts, denotes someone you trust, usually a younger woman (at most in her early 30's) i don't do colorings, as these days who knows, but this is the card of a lighter colored person. She may end up leaving you faithless, if this and not the mothers is what applies.

I will check these two cards combinations one more time, as it is clear the deck wants you to know it's a 'queen of hearts' along with a 3 of spades and come back here.

About a child, just don't think about it, but it is on your minds.
Also you really need your husbands support at this time, as it can lessen the effect of the queen of hearts, with the 3 of spades.

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Is there a motherly figure in your life. If your mother's are still around, do you feel they are meddling a bit too much in your lives. (Otherwise if a mother is involved, the exact opposite is true, you're mum will give you good advise and keep this person at bay)

If not the queen of hearts, denotes someone you trust, usually a younger woman (at most in her early 30's) i don't do colorings, as these days who knows, but this is the card of a lighter colored person. She may end up leaving you faithless, if this and not the mothers is what applies.

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About a child, just don't think about it, but it is on your minds.
Also you really need your husbands support at this time, as it can lessen the effect of the queen of hearts, with the 3 of spades.

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Nice of you to look into the cards for additional information for me. Thanks a lot..

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posted July 21, 2013 10:21 AM            

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Yes, there is a motherly figure who finds me inefficient at domestic work. And there has been constant struggle to keep up what I believe in. I've been trying my best to remain positive, but yet that "meddling in" creates some troubles for me. And this criticism has been extended to me having a child too. I've been trying my best not to be very desparate about it and approach it patiently, but that doesn't work with her She would be so emotional about it and runs my confidence down with her fears.

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Who is this figure Cathy80. Yes queen of hearts, is a very emotional person that can't be bothered with logic. But her behaivours may be one of the causes of your stress, that is manifesting physically with you now.
I posted two posts with some Eckhard Tolle videos on the sweet pea forum, with the person asking about the ego, and i think this woman would do well to watch them, but even you will feel more at peace if you watched them now.
There is a possibility you may end up cutting this person out of your life, if they leave you at this low. So if it isn't your direct mother, keep her at a distance, or find a way to pretend you're listening to her if unavoidable, but be elsewhere (u know like we probably used to do in maths class as kids in school )

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Yes that support will be a big boon for me to overcome this to an extent, but unfortunately I'm not getting it and am left to struggle with it alone.

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...but maybe he doesn't know? if he doesn't then let him know you feel like you need his support at this time in your life just by being there, no need for words or anything else.
If he does and this is a relative on his side, then just definetly take up Yoga again, will help you on more than one level.

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Nice of you to look into the cards for additional information for me. Thanks a lot..

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my pleasure Cathy!!!hope it was of any help though.

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Thank you so much for your encouraging words. Will do it .

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posted July 22, 2013 12:29 AM            

She's related to me and not my husband and also that he is a logical type of person and is unable to understand and sort out things that I'm facing. He would just listen to things I tell him and would say a few comments on her and just leave it as it is, but he wouldn't come up with a solution. I've been having some tough time to get to him emotionally which is altogether a different issue again

A physical distance should be a good solution, but there are some obstacles that is not making it happen, say, my career, my husband's career which is taking shape only at my current place. I shall go through the videos which you've quoted, myself, as I do not know how I could persuade her to watch them

posted July 22, 2013 04:24 PM            

the stress this person is emitting, about the things she is stressing about, (and so annoying you) is the exact reason, u can't feel at peace now, as strange as it sounds lol.

maybe come up with a plan, or tell your husband "i need to put some distance, but keep things peaceful with this person, yet i don't know how, relocation is out of the questions, so can u help me come up with a solution, that has the least amount of damage, but most benefit to us as family unit?" Men enjoy fixing things, so hopefully this will be a good start for him somewhere to start showing u support?

anyway all in all, yoga and good food, and hopefully it'll help you feel more grounded, or not let these things get to you, and your health will be restored to what it was like before!

posted July 22, 2013 11:09 PM            

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Hi Cathy80!! hmmm will try to figure something about the distance, as i do feel letting go of negative ppl, no matter who they are to us, will make us healthy even on the outside.

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the stress this person is emitting, about the things she is stressing about, (and so annoying you) is the exact reason, u can't feel at peace now, as strange as it sounds lol.

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maybe come up with a plan, or tell your husband "i need to put some distance, but keep things peaceful with this person, yet i don't know how, relocation is out of the questions, so can u help me come up with a solution, that has the least amount of damage, but most benefit to us as family unit?" Men enjoy fixing things, so hopefully this will be a good start for him somewhere to start showing u support?

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anyway all in all, yoga and good food, and hopefully it'll help you feel more grounded, or not let these things get to you, and your health will be restored to what it was like before!

best of luck, and do keep me updated when you can, about your health and this!!

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posted August 01, 2013 08:50 AM            

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Hey jelly
I would like to give you a small update regarding my health. It has started improving slowly and I guess it will take some more time for me to get out of it fully. And regarding the clue of the person who is sending me negative vibes, I had missed out to identify the woman immediately when you told me. Though the woman who I told you has not been nice to me, the main culprit is a woman who comes to help me with my household. She also is a mother figure in her mid 30s. This striked me suddenly and I remembered the moments she had shown her jealousy directly through her words. She is jealous of even simple things that I have (which she is deprived of).
I made a good decision of stopping her from work and somehow I feel better after she had gone.
I thank you so much for giving me the clues about this particular person.
Regarding my relationships, I feel increasingly insecure as I feel there is nobody who I can rely for support in my immediate surrounding. My husband hasn't even been considerate to me when I'm suffering so much with my health. He is just bothered about his self. Am I so cursed? And nobody even sees it as something wrong. I don't deserve this treatment when I'm considerate to him.

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HI HI Cathy!!! thanks for the update...and missed your last post b4 this one!

Glad you managed to identify who it is. But also still know how to 'protect' your home, she knows where it is, and probably some minute details about your life even your best friends don't (i learnt this the hardway, and hence why i don't let the house helpers from cleaning my room...i do that myself and do a good job at it if i do say so myself lol)

But i know that the husband not giving support when u need it is a theme or issue for now.

i'm going to do u a reading later today, (if you wish ofcourse) but also don't worry, maybe most reading this are just reading 'online' but do understand where you are coming from. Probably easier to form a 'perspective' when out of the situation, and not one of the characters involved in it, or when we are less likely to bump into your husband etc.
Also i found when we are a bit 'emotional' we kind of do a very bad job at trying to portray what we say, hence the people are you, they may think nothing is wrong, simply because they are confused and do'nt really understand it!

posted August 01, 2013 09:10 AM            

Yes the issue for now is my state of mind unable to handle people arnd me especially when they cause some influence that are not of support to me. Thanks a lot for having agreed to help me with a reading .