posted July 23, 2013 09:45 AM            

The uranus, saturn tsquare looks hard to deal with- a combo of restrictive and irratic energy.

Moons are squaring by sign. You emotional styles and temperaments will clash.

One of your moons are unaspected- he's going to feel a disconnect from you at times.

You also have sun hard aspect mars both ways which would mean attraction but at the same time conflict, aggravation and you'll just find that you there's this competitive edge at times, and that you'll rub each other the wrong way.

You'll probably be able to have a relationship for a few months but after the initial 3-4 months, things will start showing up (the saturn, the uranus, the incompatible moons).

posted July 23, 2013 10:20 AM            

You are right it is too soon. I fell hard for him & it's the first time ever that I feel like I could truly be my authentic self with a man.

We went through a big thing of me discovering something dark from my childhood & he stood by my side all the way. He was truly loving and caring.

I guess that's why I hope he's the one...

posted July 23, 2013 10:27 AM            

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Originally posted by JoJo:
I firmly believe you should always follow your gut. If you're having doubts, there's a reason for it even if it doesn't make sense, so listen to your instincts.

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The doubts came from not being able to see each other because he's not financially stable and I'm a single mom working hard to support my family too. I'm not saying that he must be rich to win my heart it's just right now I don't know if we will meet. He told me to focus on the good of what we have which is a love that is strong and beautiful.

Last weekend I had a friend read our auras. His is very blue while mine is red. Not quite that compatible she said because it will take a lot of has works on both sides to balance it.

posted July 23, 2013 02:29 PM            

With your sun opposite his uranus, you will find him acting cold and mean towards you eventually.
And saturn squares will make a relationship feel really stable at first, but with these mars aspects and the negative uranus in both composite and synastry this cannot end well.

It seems to be based only on physical attraction as there are quite a few volatile physical attraction aspects.

posted July 23, 2013 06:45 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
This is sure to turn out badly, as the composite and synastry are both quite terrible. That might actually be the worst synastry I have seen yet.

With your sun opposite his uranus, you will find him acting cold and mean towards you eventually.
And saturn squares will make a relationship feel really stable at first, but with these mars aspects and the negative uranus in both composite and synastry this cannot end well.

It seems to be based only on physical attraction as there are quite a few volatile physical attraction aspects.

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posted July 23, 2013 07:08 PM            

Sun opposite uranus always starts with a bang and lots of excitement, but also ends with a bang.

Mars square venus is a very hot aspect and creates a lot of excitement. You also have a few other mars aspects that indicate lots of excitement.

posted July 23, 2013 08:36 PM            

This morning I woke up with a strong urge to check the dating website where he and I met (I'm in Asia) and sure enough. I saw his profile like immediately.

I feel numb right now but also thankful that the universe are showing me all of these.

posted July 23, 2013 09:22 PM            

I've emailed him asking we need to talk, I'm going to calmly (hopefully I could keep my cool) ask him why he's on the dating website again. It even shows when the last time he was logged on - which was 12 hours ago - and he was talking to me around the same time last night. It's painful but I've been here before and today I am just glad I got to see this now. That my feelings were right.

You know what's weird? Two nights ago - just before I posted this thread - I had doubts in my head. I went to bed and suddenly got woken up hearing a clear voice in my head or in my heart, I'm not sure but it was a clear voice that says "He will open up the road for you to meet your true soulmate" and I was so shaken by that. I love him despite the fact that we haven't met in person.

Thank you for your kind words.

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Have you met each other in person, or is this long distance?

Speaking from experience: only a small portion of the synastry can be felt before you've spent some time together in the same physical space. And even then, the difficult aspects can take some time to manifest. What can seem beautiful from afar does not always pan out when the space between you collapses.

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posted July 23, 2013 09:58 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
you're probably just romanticizing things - you have a sun and mars in pisces and fairly romantic moon in aries, so you're dreaming of possibilties... the synastry isn't good, sorry

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posted July 23, 2013 11:16 PM            

It's over now. I asked him why he's on a dating site again. He said the problem is with him. He cannot be with me while he have so much love inside.

posted July 24, 2013 01:21 AM            

Find out a guy's values before u get involved with him for next time. If he has meaningless sex, he is probably a lot heartless than you ever thought he could be (did i mention perverted), and might surprise you one day, when he acts heartless towards you.

posted July 24, 2013 02:20 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I'm sorry hun.

Find out a guy's values before u get involved with him for next time. If he has meaningless sex, he is probably a lot heartless than you ever thought he could be (did i mention perverted), and might surprise you one day, when he acts heartless towards you.

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