posted August 06, 2013 12:41 PM            

It's a question in reference to an ongoing friendship/romance in my life. Last night I found myself coming to a crossroad in regards to "us".. I basically am trying to decide whether or not I should stick it out with him and continue being there (and unfortunately, waiting), or if I should cut ties (just for now) and put some real effort into moving on.

posted August 07, 2013 10:23 AM            

Ok...I just did a basic spread to get an idea of where you are at and where you should focus your energies..

I thought I would get a read like this..
Ok, I definitely see you at a crossroads, trying to discern which is the best course of action to take or not take at this time.

The man in question seems to have very deep emotions in regards to you, he has all of these unexpressed feelings that he is not very forthcoming with...this frusturates you greatly, and rightfully so. You desserve to be with someone you don't feel you have to "work" for their affection, if that makes sense?

I also see that in the upcoming weeks, your energy will shift & focus more on yourself. You are a very capable, independant & beautiful woman that does not "Need" anyone, and as aware as you are of that fact, I feel the man in question squashes that independance at times. ( Not inrtenationally)

For now, I would not necassarily wait, I would move forward lovingly. He is being resistant at this time...

I do feel that once you truly focus on yourself, he will come around and eventually give you those emotions and words you seek...but it won't happen if he senses you waiting. Does this make sense?

So let go lovingly for now ,and work on your hopes & dreams. It will fall into place. He seems like a great guy, just needs some time to process his feelings.

posted August 07, 2013 10:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Enlightened:
Hi Kay,

Ok...I just did a basic spread to get an idea of where you are at and where you should focus your energies..

I thought I would get a read like this..
Ok, I definitely see you at a crossroads, trying to discern which is the best course of action to take or not take at this time.

The man in question seems to have very deep emotions in regards to you, he has all of these unexpressed feelings that he is not very forthcoming with...this frusturates you greatly, and rightfully so. You desserve to be with someone you don't feel you have to "work" for their affection, if that makes sense?

I also see that in the upcoming weeks, your energy will shift & focus more on yourself. You are a very capable, independant & beautiful woman that does not "Need" anyone, and as aware as you are of that fact, I feel the man in question squashes that independance at times. ( Not inrtenationally)

For now, I would not necassarily wait, I would move forward lovingly. He is being resistant at this time...

I do feel that once you truly focus on yourself, he will come around and eventually give you those emotions and words you seek...but it won't happen if he senses you waiting. Does this make sense?

So let go lovingly for now ,and work on your hopes & dreams. It will fall into place. He seems like a great guy, just needs some time to process his feelings.

King of cups/Lovers/Four of cups/Nine of pentacles/Ace of cups

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