Posts: 6
From: Atlanta, Georgia, USA
Registered: Aug 2013

posted August 16, 2013 09:22 AM            

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I just removed myself from a very intensely passionate and sad affair with an Aries man, and I am having a hard time grasping what was truth and what was a lie. We met two months ago. Two make a long story short after a month, of hanging out and seeing each other usually twice a week and talking, texting, and cyber chatting incessantly we had sex... and maybe a week or so after that his interest took a complete nose dive. I stopped making contact once I realized he was not reciprocating like he used to and so for ten days there was nothing. Then he texts me out of the blue, "Can you forgive me?". In that moment I told him I didn't know and that he had really hurt. A couple days later I told him that I could forgive him, but forgetting was the hard part. His response was that he "just got caught up in a situation". I ask him what the situation is and, he tells me that he had met someone a week before he met me, and him and her were just kicking it "real close"... smdh... but he still likes me. I respond by telling him it's obvious that he likes everybody and I can't be a part of his bs, so I'm removing myself from the situation. He is shocked. A couple days later though I do text him, he had been on my mind heavy. He tells me again that he still likes me (like that matters)... We've texted since then and he has said the same thing, but he not acted of his even when I called him on it. Yesterday, I checked his Instagram and lo and behold on the video he posted 3 days ago you can clearly hear a chick talking to him in the background. She asks him," What's wrong with you this morning?" That is NOT his sister!!! lol... I am done with him, but thoughts of him consume me, and pain me at the same time. Last night, I texted him and asked him to delete the personal pics I sent to his phone in a very cordial way. His reply was "ok". I am done with him, but I am hurt beyond measure. I am now reading all these things about Aries men getting bored once they perceive the chase to be over, saying things they don't mean (LIES), and ultimately "playing" women. I haven't experienced anything like this since I was very young, and I feel so devalued, as if I meant nothing to him. I'm hurting big time. I know that he has done this before, and he mentioned once that "sex just messes things up." I wish I would've asked of him what he truly meant. My question is do Aries men who happen to have these characteristics ever realize that their impulses are wrong and extremely hurtful. Does their conscious ever get in the way of them devastating people who have invested their time in them?

Him: Aries(sun), Gemini(moon), Pisces(venus), Asc(Virgo)
Me: Aquarius(sun), Aries(moon), Pisces(venus, Asc(Cancer)

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