posted September 05, 2013 07:57 PM            

For example..do you want to send someone a message, but hesitate because you don't know if it will be a good idea? Something along those lines is what I want to test out here =).

Who would like to try?

1. MetalAphrodite

2. lilithpluto

posted September 05, 2013 08:21 PM            

shld i wish him bday, which is nxt tuesday?

posted September 05, 2013 08:22 PM            

Just ask a question if whether doing something that you are indeed planning on doing (ie: initiate a conversation with someone, go visit them, etc) is a good idea or not =).

"Should I send ___ a message?" (an example)

posted September 05, 2013 08:25 PM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
okie.. i am thinking of this.

shld i wish him bday, which is nxt tuesday?

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posted September 05, 2013 10:23 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Wow, lilith . Unfortunately I am getting a no. Is this an ex boyfriend or love interest? Ouch..it's saying no, no, no..looks like someone that you are in love with, but this person is trying to depart from you..I'm sorry it isn't a good idea. Any other question you may have??

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posted September 07, 2013 02:40 AM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
i thought so. its pretty accurate. I prob won't do it too.. sigh.

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posted September 07, 2013 02:46 AM            

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Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:
Should I try to plan on going to a friend's wedding?

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I'm getting a maybe for you. Is this too far from where you currently stay? Maybe because I asked "plan" instead of whether you should go, or not.

posted September 07, 2013 02:51 AM            

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Originally posted by little_pumpkin:
hi empress, i would like to sit please
i am planning to take a trip . is it a good idea at this time ?
thanks~

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posted September 07, 2013 03:13 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
I'm getting a maybe for you. Is this too far from where you currently stay? Maybe because I asked "plan" instead of whether you should go, or not.

If you attend, I think you will bit slightly disappointed for some reason. I think you will feel it will be boring. You won't like something about the place, or event in general. Also, I'm getting distance being an issue for you. Something about the place they choose being too far away from you. Let me know what you decide on doing =).

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Told my ex it would probably be better for me to send them a gift rather than attend.

posted September 07, 2013 03:23 PM            

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It's 8hrs from me... I had told the bride last year I'd attend her wedding before and after my ex and I broke up, but I'm thinking it's not a good idea, especially since I don't keep steady contact with them.

Told my ex it would probably be better for me to send them a gift rather than attend.

I am rather worried that I will be out of place as well. I didn't fit in before when I was there with my ex and I certainly don't fit in now. I still like them and think they are good people, so definitely a gift is in order.

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Wow, 8 hours -- yes, I got a maybe/yes more than a no for you. It wasn't really a no =). Perhaps, the distance is the issue the cards picked up on more. Good luck with anything that you decide on doing =)

posted September 07, 2013 06:12 PM            

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
I would like to try if you are still doing these. Should I text him and try burying the hatchet?

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posted September 08, 2013 07:26 AM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Well, lilith..how about you go ahead and do it and see how it goes as part of the experiment? Of course you don't have to! I think he will most likely ignore you, but I hope that I'm inaccurate (as someone likes to think I usually am, heh)..it's up to you though! Let me know what you decide on doing :]

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posted September 08, 2013 05:02 PM            

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Originally posted by toptops:
Dear Empress,

Should I just hop on the train and go and visit him?

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Hey, I think he's really upset about a break up or an end of some sort. He is sad and suffering right now. It seems his feelings were hurt. Did you two break up, about to break up, or had some sort of nasty fight?

posted September 09, 2013 02:18 AM            

yay you felt it from one sentence! I am always amazed by the gift you guys have.

He ended a 5 years long relationship in Mai. We met end of June and got intimate. We live in two different cities and I have visited him two times discussed and last saturday unexpected. He was supposed to visit me yesterday but had an incident in his home, hurt his face and decided not to travel. I am in love with him, he is not ready and I don't know what to do .

posted September 09, 2013 02:31 AM            

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Originally posted by toptops:
Dear Empress,

yay you felt it from one sentence! I am always amazed by the gift you guys have.

He ended a 5 years long relationship in Mai. We met end of June and got intimate. We live in two different cities and I have visited him two times discussed and last saturday unexpected. He was supposed to visit me yesterday but had an incident in his home, hurt his face and decided not to travel. I am in love with him, he is not ready and I don't know what to do .

So, with this background and feedback - what are your thoughts and messages.

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Oh, thanks toptops! I see him down in the dumps, aw

I'm still getting a tiny yes that you should, but that he is really just - you know depressed/down/etc. Almost like he is sick (emotionally). But I think he will enjoy your visit ((hopefully)). And you're right he isn't ready, so do keep that in mind..I'm getting also he has limited movement or restriction due to the way he feels. Did he hurt himself with something sharp? I'm getting something like that like a knife or sharp tool.

posted September 09, 2013 02:44 AM            

So you think I should stick around and be dependable (not hard for a Cappy , he is one as well) and he will get over his pain and appreciate me? The sex is mindblowing for both of us and he is nice to me as well. He also knows that I am in it for the long run and not just a fling.

posted September 09, 2013 02:56 AM            

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Originally posted by toptops:
Yes it was sharp. A loose door of the wardrobe felt over his face and cut him in several places.

So you think I should stick around and be dependable (not hard for a Cappy , he is one as well) and he will get over his pain and appreciate me? The sex is mindblowing for both of us and he is nice to me as well. He also knows that I am in it for the long run and not just a fling.

WHat can I do to help him?

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I'm sorry to hear that, ouch . Yes, by what I'm getting he will appreciate it =). Nice about the sex, thumbs up lol.

posted September 09, 2013 04:25 AM            

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Originally posted by toptops:
Thank You, EmpressMendez!!!

As I have none of your gifts accept that great song as gratitude
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R0Xk6LoRVsc

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