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posted September 12, 2013 12:58 AM            

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Okay, so I'm a little torn and I'm hoping that some of you can share your insights on this. Basically, I started talking to this guy recently...I'm liking him more than I expected to and so far he is very nice and things are going pretty well. The catch is that I've done 3 relationships readings regarding him and the outcome cards are making me EXTREMELY hesitant. The surrounding cards were all nice/"good" cards, but the three outcome cards I got were 7 of Swords REVERSED, the Tower, and Death. Part of me wants to continue talking to him and maybe even eventually date because things have been going nicely thus far, the other part of me really feels pay attention to the cards and get the hell outta dodge before its too late!
My last relationship was terrible and I'd really like to avoid experiencing that kind of pain all over again.

I was hoping I could get some advice as to what I should do in this situation and also if I am reading too much into this....

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posted September 12, 2013 02:49 AM            

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Tough call, because I don’t think you should not try this out (stop talking to him), because of the cards. It’s a guidance tool, yes, but now it’s making you hesitant and stopping you from ‘feeling the water’ for yourself. Just remember you always have control over your life (also in the relationship) to stop things you dislike. Every second you can make a choice.
If you want another look at the cards: it’s all about exposing some truths/major transforming, so it just may be that this experience will give you a clearer and new outlook on life. Or it will not be a long term relationship... But still:
- If you don’t try it, you’ll never know -

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posted September 12, 2013 03:03 AM            

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I don't think these particular cards are a signal to run for your life.

Subversive but not sinister. Esp Death.

And yeah agree with Twirl, you can always back out at any second if things start getting not so comfy

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