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Topic: Are we meant to be?
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filleaspirant
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Rio de Janeiro, RJ, Brazil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 18, 2013 03:18 PM
  
Hello, guys!
This is my first time posting here, and I'll be honest: I've only registered to get a slightly more accurate reading than the generic ones I get for free out there. (Also, excuse my english, I'm brazilian and it's been a long time since I've written anything in english...)
Anyway. So I met this guy three years ago at work. Initially, we hardly crossed paths and I never thought much of him, until the day he offered me a post to work under him. He's the textbook-like good guy, very polite and sweet. I didn't give it much thought but, after a few months, I did end up working with him. Right away he asked me out but I was so surprised and suspicious (he had a reputation for hitting on lots of girls and being very fickle) that I said no, especially because he did so in front of my co-workers (I'm very shy and obssessed with not being seen as a protegè).
Time passed as we continued to work together and I did eventually fall for him. I think we a bit of miscommunication, especially on my part, because I'd clame up and not show how much I wanted him. We still talk, even though he moved away to another city, and he seems to still care for me but I don't know for sure.
I know the easiest way would be to ask, but I'm almost seven years younger than him, less experience and very insecure (i'm overweighted while he's fit and he's dated mostly women who are around his age and are much prettier than me)... so, I guess I wanna know how true were/are his feelings and if we can make a relationship out of it.
(Sorry about the long testemonial. It's just nice to talk about it without anyone saying he's too old for me or just wants to have fun at my expanse...)
Here's our synastry chart (I'm on the outside): http://i132.photobucket.com/albums/q25/filleaspirant/AstrodienstOnline-FreeChart100.png IP: Logged |
filleaspirant
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Rio de Janeiro, RJ, Brazil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 18, 2013 09:29 PM
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 32527
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 18, 2013 09:30 PM
Welcome! You will get a better response if you post the chart. IP: Logged |
starmoon
Knowflake Posts: 778
From:
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 18, 2013 09:41 PM
I wouldn’t doubt that he likes you – whether he is serious and wants you as a marriage/dating partner you’d have to sort out, but the synastry chart indicates feelings of romance would be there. You both have important planets in the 10th, so it’s not surprising you met at work, probably for both of you significant relationships/romances will always come from work or work-related people. I don’t actually see conjunctions and ‘glue’ between you and him so much of the chemistry is coming through house overlays and not planetary placements. This is assuming you have the time of birth correct for him – if you don’t this is all meaningless.If you have his birth time right, then you have his venus in your 1st (he’d be physically attracted to you), his mars sitting on your MC/angle, and your moon in his 12th, which would mean you’re really, always on his mind, or in his thoughts frequently, whether as a friend or more. Your venus also falls into his 7th, so he’d likely perceive you as having qualities he’d want in a long-term relationship with someone. Actually, the synastry does show he’d like you more. I think a relationship could happen with this synastry, but in my opinion, it’s always better to see synastry that has both house overlays and planet connections and not just overlays (as this one seems to have strongly). And don’t underestimate your own attractiveness – when a guy ‘feels’ some connection to you, he feels it regardless of how you feel about yourself.
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slowpoke
Knowflake Posts: 651
From:
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted September 19, 2013 04:47 AM
There may be an easier way to read and understand complicated Synastry pie chart aspects. Pie chart aspects can also be produced onto a basic Synastry Aspect Chart, a color coded chart. Review the sample chart at your leisure. It may help you gain even more insight than you currently have.
http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting#!in-the-closet-astro-tools/c1s43
Once you have it loaded, your aspects will be in the following formation. You can then apply some questions.
Here is an example: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/008126.html Slowpoke IP: Logged |
filleaspirant
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Rio de Janeiro, RJ, Brazil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 19, 2013 07:17 AM
Randall, I've tried posting the chart but it won't load here... I don't know how to do it.starmoon, his birth time is correct... From what you've said, it seems as if he might like more than I do him, is that right? Is it possible I might've just got carried away by being pursued and not be interested in him in a romantic way? Tbh, I didn't really see him as boyfriend material until he actively came on to me... Thanks for your imput, it did clarify some things! slowpoke, I've tried to do the color coded chart but it keeps giving me the message that the program can't load a macro (what?!). IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 831
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 20, 2013 05:54 AM
I asked the tarot for you and I got the KING OF SWORDS.The King of Swords is an assertive, professional, decision maker with high intellect and a knack for leadership. He represents big decisions to come and a need to take control and set boundaries while making firm commitments to your goals. This card provides no clear answer, "maybe" at best. IP: Logged |
Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 1962
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted September 20, 2013 06:12 AM
King of Swords shows his feelings are detached in regards to you. He won't walk that extra mile. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Rio de Janeiro, RJ, Brazil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 20, 2013 07:03 AM
Silver and Twirl, you're both right...
I've always thought that the feelings were there for anyone to see, but he wanted me to be readily available while keeping himself out of reach. That gave me a tremendous "shoud I, should I not?" feeling which, having ASC in Capricorn and Venus in Leo, eventually made my choice for me.His loss, I guess.  IP: Logged | |
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