posted September 19, 2013 11:49 AM            

I've an on-again, off-again crush on him... Most of the time, I feel there's a lot unsaid between us and attraction (which I gather comes from the Pluto-Venus aspect), but he's always telling me to date this or that guy that he knows, which confuses me.

He's aware I crushed on him a couple years ago but he's never been clear about his feelings for me, just that he doesn't want me to be hurt (I've been told that there's an aspect that makes us feel responsable for one another).

posted September 20, 2013 10:08 AM            

Even though I feel like I'm always running after him (like an infactuated little girl), EVERY SINGLE TIME I've said "enough" or "stop" or even "I don't like/want that", he'd fold for me. There have been times where he's tested my patience and my values and that I've not put up with his moronic manly airs but still he'd budge just to accomodate me, which from what I gather from his platonic and romantic past experiences he doesn't usually do. It's actually quite funny because he'd have this very contrary expression while doing what I wanted, like a kid that is forced to eat broccoli. Still to this day, it's up to me to reach out to him but if I ask anything of him, he's willing to do it for me. Would this aspect grant him a feeling of little control over himself in regards to me, the same way I feel like I can't do anything but be drawn to him?

Yes, the one time I fessed up to crushing on him, he said it'd be not a good idea, that we were good friends and he didn't want to go there. Even though we have INSANE chemistry... Would that also make him push me towards other men? He keeps trying to hook me up with one of his friends, but the few times he's seen me with another guy (even in a group), he watches me so intently that it makes me uncomfortable... I thought Pluto-Venus (he's the Plutonian) would make him feel jealous over me, no?

Also, would my Venus semisextiling his Chiron and his Venus sesquiquadrating my Chiron play a role on this, giving this a fated feeling? I've read that Venus-Chiron represents true love, and I do feel an enourmous ammount of warmth towards him. :')

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ItĄŻs a bit heavy relationship as his Saturn and Neptune sits on your 1st house.

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Is that a good or a bad thing for me?!

posted September 20, 2013 02:05 PM            

I just added a couple asteroids to see how it would display in our sinastry and all I'm getting is "sex, obssession, sex, pain"... I mean, what the heck?! I don't want this to be a painful relationship for either one of us but I especially don't want to be the crazy lady that boils the rabbit in the cooking pan!!

RED - him
BLUE - me

posted September 20, 2013 06:31 PM            

Something off topic: I saw you're brazilian (so do I ) Can I ask you something?? Could you tell me how to put my chart here?

posted September 20, 2013 06:32 PM            

Something off topic: I saw you're brazilian (so do I ) Can I ask you something?? Could you tell me how to put my chart here?

posted September 20, 2013 07:16 PM            

At photobucket, there are four options for you to chose from to share the picture, right? You should chose the third one: IMG. Just click on, the site will automatically copy it, and crtl+v in the comment/post box.

At first it didn't work well for me, but now it's ok, so maybe you just have to keep commenting? I don't know...