posted September 23, 2013 03:38 AM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
With the wheel of fortune i think he will but you need time to grow before you are ready

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posted September 23, 2013 04:15 AM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
Sure, ill do venus's reading now then ill do yours.

Can you tell me about my relationship with my mom?

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Core
The Sun + 9 of Swords
Warm feelings undecided upon and refused to be acted, maybe thats what caused the hurt in the first place, rejection of love.

What do you feel about your mother
5 of Swords + The Tower
You want to be away from her, she did something to ruin you or destroy something, your feelings changed about her and you feel like she has become unbearable

What does your mother feel about you
2 of Coins + The Star

Calm, and balanced, she still has hope in you.

How you act to her and why
9 of Cups + Queen of Swords

Selfish, maybe taking her from granted, kind of dominate and overly critical.

How she acts to you and why
Justice + Knight of Coins

Balanced, fair, possibly she trusts you with certain things, does she give you a lot of gifts?

Problems/things to work on and how
The Emperor + King of Cups

Control issues, being overly dominate, you need to express your feelings for each other more.

New elements progressing in the relationship
Hanged Man + Judgement

posted September 23, 2013 04:21 AM            

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
I can exchange later with you when I'm near my cards. Ill go ahead & leave my question in the meantime.

Will BD contact me? Is there a Chance to reconcile? Does BD miss me? What is going in with A? Is he no longer interested? Or why is he being so aloof? Does he like me still? Or did he ever?

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posted September 23, 2013 04:31 AM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
I think that A lost interest. He like you for a bit but then moved on. I think that when he met you he was infatuated with you and maybe even pictured you two getting married. He felt like you were the ideal "wife" type and he fantasized about it. (Hierophant, past). He then lost interest I think because his ideals were shattered for some reason. Maybe things didn't go how he wanted or he became disillusioned by you(3 of swords, present.) For the future I got the temperance card, so you really need to stay balanced and just move on. He will come back and give you the closure you need when you are ready.

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Thank you Elxir...I will try my best to move on, we didn't argue or fight or anything of the sort so I'm just wondering what made him loose interest...it really upsets me because I went about things differently with him then I did with anyone else (in a good way) but whatever, his loss I guess....I just don't know what I did, I have an IDEA of what it may be but it's not anything he knows about or maybe he does. Thank you again.

posted September 23, 2013 04:35 AM            

First, I intuitively sense that you did hurt him and he is trying to stay away. He may be afraid of being hurt again. He feels about you as the Queen of Cups so that means he has strong feelings for you, even love you. He sees you as the 5 of cups. He may feel disappointed, hurt and rejected, wishing for what might have been. He wishes that things could have been different. What stands between you two is the sun. I think that nothing standings between you. You just need to clear the air. Once you talk I think that everything will be fine again.

Did he ever tell you if he liked you? I think he has feelings for you.

You feel as the 9 of swords reversed right now. You are worrying and you may have some regrets but you are trying to figure it out.You see him and feel about him as the 8 of cups because he left and the 2 of cups reversed because you feel you may have lost him.

posted September 23, 2013 04:47 AM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
@karka,

First, I intuitively sense that you did hurt him and he is trying to stay away. He may be afraid of being hurt again. He feels about you as the Queen of Cups so that means he has strong feelings for you, even love you. He sees you as the 5 of cups. He may feel disappointed, hurt and rejected, wishing for what might have been. He wishes that things could have been different. What stands between you two is the sun. I think that nothing standings between you. You just need to clear the air. Once you talk I think that everything will be fine again.

Did he ever tell you if he liked you? I think he has feelings for you.

You feel as the 9 of swords reversed right now. You are worrying and you may have some regrets but you are trying to figure it out.You see him and feel about him as the 8 of cups because he left and the 2 of cups reversed because you feel you may have lost him.

The present challenge of the relationship is the 2 of pentacles reversed. This can mean you are being pulled in different directoins(between 2 guys).Also it could just mean you are overwhelmed and have too much on your plate so the energy has to be cleared before you can resolve things. Hope this helped!

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posted September 23, 2013 04:51 AM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
I dont think it was that dramatic as you betraying him. Dont let the reading get you down. Did you say anything that might have hurt his feelings? Also, maybe he likes you romantically and it hurts to be close to you so he stays away. Im not really sure. What do you think?

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nope..
i might of crossed my views on him though, we may have disagreed and i may have lead him off wrong. i personally think intuition is better than thought

i have a boyfriend also im very much younger than him could that also be it? what do you intutively feel that it is? also would we ever tlk again? im sad. :/

posted September 23, 2013 05:13 AM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
@venus you know how you sometimes have a huge infatuation with someone and then one day its gone? Like maybe that person was different once you got to know them more? I think its just a compatibility thing. He realized you are his type. Don't overthink it. It happens all the time.

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True....I did tell him back in Aug we shouldn't hook up anymore. But then Sept 2nd he messaged me basically, asking me to go pick him up/see him, I didn't go because I couldn't....Last Monday I asked him to come hangout & he asked what did I have in mind? I said the same way we used to randomly hangout he replied with I thought we said we weren't hooking up anymore? I said its your choice, but on Sept 2nd you messaged me to hangout after we said we weren't lol...I just don't understand what went wrong. I'm just really sad because I never had a boyfriend before, and I'm tired of being alone feel like I am always going to be alone I don't want to be single forever not the life I want . I just thought maybe since I let A lead, never bothered him, or ever was negative towards him was patient this was the one - it happened out of nowhere he wasn't what I typically go for his type but over time it just worked felt right...so sigh I feel defeated once again...