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Topic: Leo Woman, Scorpio Man: how to make it work
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Yellowberryblue
Newflake Posts: 1
From: Manhattan
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 27, 2013 04:06 PM
  
So I have been dating a scorpio male for 5 months now. We have had some drama in the past because I caught him flirting with other girls. He even neglected to tell a girl that he appeared to reslly like that he was in a relationship. Our relationship took a turn for the worst after he set up an account on a dating website. I found out about it and dumped him. He came back to me begging. He promised that if I took him back, he would allow me to have full transparency (that means I could see his phone and facebook whenever I wanted). I took him back. Then a month later we had some more drama because he wouldn't celebrate my birthday with me. His brother's birthday was on the same day, so he spent it with him. I was ok with that, but what I was upset about was the fact that he never bought me a present. He said he was trying to get some things together to give to me, but that never happened. The day after my birthday he invited me to meet his parents for the first time. A few days later, I went away on vacation. He ended up dumping me while I was on vacation because I made a mistake and wrongfully accused him of being with another woman when I called him. I also made the mistake of suggesting that he only brought me to meet his parents because he wanted to have a place to have sex with me since we couldn't do it at my place. After a month we met up again and he claimed that he never dumped me! He said that he just needed space. So we got back together. The thing is that I am very weary of him. He has been acting a little mean towards me. He use to pay for me whenever we go out to dinner. Now he demands that I pay my portion. Which I have no problem with, but its just the attitude he gives me about it that I don't like. Also, he still hasn't given me a birthday present! My b-day was August 6th! Plus, whenever we are out together he is always starting at other women and making comments about their body. I told him that I am in love with him and his response is that "I am moving too fast". He said that after he finishes school, he'll focus more on our relationship, but now he can't become too emotionally invested. He said it takes a long time for him to fall in love. He becomes jealous if he sees me looking at other men and is always trying to see my cell phone calls and texts. Sometimes I feel like he is just playing with me, but I am not Sure. We are now officially back together, he told his brother but he told me that he still hasn't told his mother as yet. Apparently she was not very happy to learn that I accused him of introducing me to her just to have sexual access to me. She told him to break up with me!  I would really like to repair my relationship with him, but I don't know where to start. I know that I tend to react a bit dramatically to problems, do I have been working on that. What else can I do? I feel like he is not the same with me. He use to call me every other night, now he only texts. He often will take a few hours to respond to my texts. We see each other about once a week....but I'm always the one to ask to see him (but it has always been that way). He says he's not cheating...I guess I have to believe him... But I feel very insecure with him. I guess if he did not care about me, he would not have taken me back... In the past I had broken up with him about 5 times in 5 months because of his behavior. The last time I broke up with him, he made a huge change and things were good...until he broke up with me. Please help! I need advice. How can I make this work? Should I even stay with him? Or give up? Additional Details
He's a Scorpio Sun, Virgo Moon, Sagittarius Venus.
I'm a leo sun, aquarius moon, Leo venus. We're both 26 years old
He has a birth defect that has deformed his penis. It makes him feel insecure.
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Liliya
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Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 27, 2013 04:34 PM
Perhaps, you should post it to Astrology 2.0 instead.IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 27, 2013 08:52 PM
Welcome! Moving to Personal Readings.IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted September 28, 2013 12:45 AM
You clearly both have issues you need to deal with before you're ready for a relationship, escpecially him and his deformity. IP: Logged | |
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