posted October 05, 2013 09:07 PM            

I would like to know more about the dynamic of the relationship I have with my ex F. Some months ago, I was so sure, I would never see him again.

But he came back in my life recently and we will have to see each other again.

How would do interpret our synastry/composite/natal charts ?

Whatever you can get out of thoses charts will be interesting for me.

Thank you for all the people who will help. I can do tarot reading in exchange

Here are all the charts I have :
my natal chart,
F natal
my synastry chart with F,
my composite chart with F,

My natal chart :

F natal :

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synastry :

composite :

If you need another chart, tell me.

posted October 06, 2013 04:34 PM            

Aspects = The numbers represent the aspect degree.

conjunction (exact is 0) orbs = 0 - 5

semi-sextile (exact is 30) orbs = 28 - 32
semi-square (exact is 45) orbs = 43 - 47

sextile (exact is 60) orbs = 55 - 65
square (exact is 90) orbs = 85 - 95
trine (exact is 120) orbs = 115 - 125

sesquisquare or biquintile (exact is 135) orbs = 133 - 137
quincunx or inconjunct (exact is 150) orbs = 148 - 152

opposition (exact is 180) orbs = 175 - 185

Planet and color code, in both directions:

S = ego energy
MR = raw energy
P = passionate energy
Asc = showmanship energy

Yellow boxes = high priority position for favorable major aspects.

Green column and row = emotions

Black column and row = North Node = groups of people that you know and do not know.

Gray column and row not inside of the Inner Box = communication channels

Black Aspects Not In NN column and row = strong influences that could lead to physical fighting and separation.

Inner Box (VE on VE to JP on JP) = the core of the unit, favorable aspects in this area are very good indicators of success.

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What Draws You Together?

S 2 Asc - This is ego energy with showmanship energy. This is powerful non-sexual attraction influence.

M 4 S - This is a powerful attraction where your energies blend well together.

P 4 S - This is passionate energy with ego energy. This is a Power Aspect. This aspect needs a lot of favorable aspects to support it, to help bring out the good in it. It is an attraction aspect, but without the help of other aspects, your desire is to control each other, based on jealously and possessiveness. In order for this to benefit you, you must promise each other not to try and control the other.

What Is Holding You Together?

S 121 UR - This is a friendship aspect. The influence helps you let the other person be his / her own person.

S 2 Asc - This is ego energy with showmanship energy. This is powerful non-sexual attraction influence. This is an impulse feeling that your union may be something special. But, it is only a feeling - nothing more.

M 4 S - This is a powerful attraction where your energies blend well together. There is a common feeling of trust between you.

MY 64 M - This is a nice influence of easy communication between you.
MY 125 MY - This influence suggest that you have many things in common.

VE 121 MY - This influence suggest that you can compromise and say "I am sorry."
VE 180 JP - This is a strong influence of having fun, perhaps with some over spending. It does not lend itself well to a serious bond.

MR 60 M - This influence adds a little frosting on any sexual activities. It supports M 4 S.

JP 117 S - This influence supports growth for you both. You promote the efforts of the other.
JP 123 P - This influence also supports growth for you both. You project your needs to the public and it supports your efforts
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NP 116 MR - This a soul mate influence. You may at times, really feel like you belong together.

What Are Your Problems?

S 180 SA - This influence suggest that, at times, the union may have difficulty meeting your obligations to others. And this may cause you to place restrictions on each other.

S 92 NP - This influence suggest that the truth may not always be forthright, between each of you or between the union and the public.

M 2 P - This influence suggest a possible intense emotional reaction, based on jealously, possessiveness and mistrust. This influence feeds into P 4 S issues.

VE 180 JP - This is a strong influence of having fun, perhaps with some over spending. It does not lend itself well to a serious bond. It may lead to separation.

MR 94 S - This is ego energy vs. raw energy. This is a black aspect. It suggest influences that may lead to arguing and separation.

JP 94 SA - This influence suggest that there may be conflict on procedures, of getting things done.

JP 182 NP - This influence suggest a fundamental imbalance in your philosophy and religious beliefs. Either you agree to disagree or plan on butting heads for a long time. This influence may feed into and support JP 88 Asc.

JP 88 Asc - This influence brings up issues on how you express yourselves, it is irritating. And you both may want to set the other right. And either you both, get a grip, and change according to the other's wishes or prepare for a break in unity. This aspect feeds into JP 182 NP.

SA 89 M - This is a black aspect. It suggest influences that may lead to becoming discontent with each other, enough so, that it eventually leads to separation.

SA 1 MR - This is a black aspect. It has the potential to get in the way of your sex life. This influence may also throw in obstacles from other people in superior positions or the law. The major influence, here, is that too much demand is placed on the other which could lead to separation.

UR 94 MR - This is a black aspect. It suggest influences that may lead to alarming and sudden burst of anger. If this anger is not managed well, it could lead to separation. This influence is, also, mistaken for sexual attraction.

P 4 S - This is passionate energy vs. ego energy. This is a Power Aspect, it needs to have favorable aspect support to help bring the best from its' energies. Otherwise, you may have a desire to control each other, based on jealously and possessiveness. This aspect and aspect M 2 P, fuel each other the wrong way. And this energy could explode into the aspect influence of UR 94 MR. In order to benefit from this influence, you must promise each other not to try and control the other.

What Might Happen If You Stay Together?

Most long range unions settle into long lasting friendships. Your Synastry Asspect Chart has many indications of friendship. Supported by: S 121 UR, S 2 Asc, M 4 S, MY 125 MY, VE 121 MY, VE 180 JP and, JP 117 S. But, if you are looking for marriage, this chart shows little in the form of love and affection. If you look at VE going down and VE going across in the ColorVision Synastry Aspect Chart, you should be able to see that there is nothing in the yellow boxes. This may mean that you both may feel lonely in love while you are together as friends.

North Node: both directions

NN represents small groups of people, from family members, work associates + boss, the social environments you frequent, teams and clubs you are part of and, all of your neighbors.

The aspects to the NN, represent your natal planets action towards the NN, and the NN's potential response toward the Synastry unit from the actions.

MC of just the SD (Subject Date Person):

If the SD is active in public commerce as a business person or the Synastry unit wants to do business activities, then the aspects made to the MC suggest how the second person might help the SD and what the quality of that support might be like. If the SD is not an active business person or unit, then the MC is of little importance.

If the second person wants to do business activities, the MC for the second person is not taken into account on this chart. However, if there are aspects that pertain to the SD's MC, then it is safe to say that the SD may have valuable input, if the aspects imply it.

Bottom Line:

He is going to get much more from a romantic relationship than you. But, the potential, is that he may leave again. There are many good indicators of being friends. And as far as this Synastry chart shows, your bond is at its best as friends, where you do not place a lot demands on the union. You may do better to find another love life.

The transiting S makes favorable aspects to your natal planets on the following dates. You should try and do as many positive things you can on these dates.

(read as 529 - 602 = May 29 thru Jun 02 of any given year.)

529 - 602

618 - 628

819 - 904 !

1019 - 1024 !

1219 - 1228 !

There is an added bonus to these dates. People who have a birthdate to anyone of the listed dates, of any age, will have their natal Sun in favorable aspect to your natal planets. Some of these people may become friends. But, caution, this does not mean that they would be compatible to you. You will have to research the colovision Synastry Aspecting chart for further clarifications.

This is a statistical report, the Synastry Aspect analysis does not suggest the results to be an absolute given.

http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting#!in-the-closet-astro-tools/c1s43

slowpoke

posted October 06, 2013 05:46 PM            

I didn't know that kind of doing synastry. Well interesting for sure.

posted October 06, 2013 05:52 PM            

I think the "realising too late" can be him. I would say that he lack courage also. We had a beautiful relationship when we were together, lots of closeness, affection and communication.

I don't think he wants to get in a relationship again with me (I could be wrong). But the problem is that he always has something on his mind. And it's better to know it before it blows up in your face